Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough.
Steph2 answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:03 pm: just make sure that u 2 stay in touch!! try phones..IM or email...just anything until u can see each other..just talk about wuts new and stuff...hope this works and good luck w/ur relationship!!!
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MummuM answered Monday August 23 2004, 2:32 pm: Well, if she really does like you she wont care about the other guys at her school. You should call her everyday and talk, then hangout with her every 1-2 weeks and make it really special. Go to the movies, supper, hangout at home, ect. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:05 pm: Yeah, it IS going to be a bumpy Ride... How come only once eveRy one to two weeks?? I would obviously suggest woRking something out so you can see heR two to thRee times a week!! Also, if you two have te same lunch houR, you could go out foR lunch like once a week, oR eveRy otheR week. And theRe's always the phone and computeR when you come home at night. Things may be Rough, but they aRe definitely possible!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:40 am: If she really cares about you, you shouldn't have to work to keep her interested. If you do, then maybe she doesn't deserve you. On the other hand, maybe you are just being paranoid. [ Sunshine's advice column | Ask Sunshine A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:18 pm: the sucky thing is your just going to have to trust her. If she's worthy to be your girlfriend she'll ignore all the guys hitting on her. If you think ahead of time she'll already flirt back with them your already conscious of the fact shes really not true to you, in which case dump her. But the way I see it if she loves you enuff and enjoys the relationship the way she should you will be fine , and just have to trust her. If I can help you with anything further in the situation, inbox me, Im here 4 ya. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
friendforall7 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:15 pm: hey i know what its like i never dated anyone from my school and was always worried about that make sure she knows that you are intrested and suprise her make her feel special like no one else can theres no real way to stop them from hitting on her but as long as you keep it intersting between you to everything will go ok send her flowers or write her letters make her feel wanted and every thing will be ok. [ friendforall7's advice column | Ask friendforall7 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:11 pm: Just talk to her on the phone and online. Make sur she thinks that your are interested in her. Be sweet and kind to her. You could flirt sometimes but not that much. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
TucanFullOfHoles answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:09 pm: call her often. and make her feel like she's the only person in the whole world. make her feel special in every single way you can possibly think of. be sweet, and flirt with her AND ONLY HER! girls don't particularly appriciate guys that flirt with other girls. just be a sweety with her and everything will work out. [ TucanFullOfHoles's advice column | Ask TucanFullOfHoles A Question ]
BeastFromTheWeast answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:06 pm: Not going to work. You have to keep your feelings in mind too. I am sure you will have girls come around that you will be interested in, so why would you want to keep yourself tied down to a girl that you only get to see once every couple weeks? You are still in school..you have plenty of time until you need to be in a relationship that involves that much effort. [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
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