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no trust for me
awhile ago me and one of my friends got arrested for vandilism. we spray painted some cars and broke some windows. when will my parents begin to trust me again? me and my friend have talked and we wont get in anymore trouble. we want to hang out. i want trust and think i deserve it.
Thanks a lot
Timothy
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You'll just have to wait for your parents to come back around again to trust you. If you continue to just be a good person and not get into any trouble, soon they'll let it go, dwelling on when they'll trust you again will just make you even more upset. You were arrested, your parents deserve to be upset, too. So, just give them time to regain your trust, and you have to show them that your trust can be regained.
-TheTeenGirl
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i think you should just talk to them and ask them what can you do to get thier trust back! then try being on your best behavior
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well timothy i think you should just be thankful at this point that your not in boot camp. which is where my parents would have sent me. or be thankful that someone didnt beat the shit out of you. cause i would have if youd fucked up my car. maybe you should try sitting your parents down and talking to them. tell them what was on your mind then, and why you think you deserve theyre trust now. it will take a while to earn theyre trust back, but you just need to be patient and show them your trying. hope it works out for ya.
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What the hell were you thinking? Like your seriously stupid I'm sorry but to me I don't think you deserve it if you were my child I'd have you arressted and taking to jail so you can actually learn your lesson!!! You think your so cool and hott so you decide to spray paint cars and break windows hun your just a stupid dumb fuck!!! Timothy I'm sorry but your parents have a right now to trust you!!!! It may take a year for them to trust you again...I just hope you don't do something stupid like this again.
Chels
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If I were your parents I'd just beat you with a 2 by 4. That or a PVC pipe. Whatever the heck I was in the mood for at that current time.
And I would probably never trust you again because I would never have expected my child to be that much of an idiot.
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well if you guys seriously aren't going to get into any more trouble, then all you can do is wait and prove it. like, be polite to your parents and get good grades and do what they ask and.. you know, stuff parents like to see their kids do. =) if you think you deserve it, you will work for it. if you have any more questions or problems, IM me!
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Gaining trust will take some time but you have to earn your way to it.Tell your parents that you will be a changed person,be the child they always wanted to have,you will prove to them.And ask them what they want in return like you would do good at school,do whatever they ask without questioning,that they will not receive any bad news from you and your friend.Don't lose faith and don't get upset.
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Trust must be earned and you are not trustworthy having broken trust and commited a crime. It is going to take a long time to regain that trust let alone see this "friend" of yours who dragged you into it. If you ever see him'her again hell will freeze over first. Telling people you have changed is lip service and not bought. You have to SHOW through actions what you have learned. Right now it seems as though you are not that remorseful thinking that you can still talk through it and not suffer consequences. You have loads to learn still.
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