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*HeY*Name: Toni
Nickname:Triple T
I live in: Rochester Ny
Age:11
Hey yall!!
welcome 2 my column!!! If u need advice just ask!!! And fyi I tell honest advice...so it may not help evry1.....!!!
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U see, i really really like this boy, but i cant seem to tell him, i get real nervous around him. ive tried to tell him before, but i cant get it out. so what should i do?
You could try writing him a note. If you dont feel comfortable with tht get to no him better and try to work up the courage to tlk to him.... Hope I helped!
Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
No!!!! this is perfectly normal!!!
Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?
Definitly stay with steve. Johnta is just jealous because u finally found sum1 who loves and cares 4 u and hes got well...........nobody!! Hope i helped!!! Plz rate!!!
my friends and i all hang out with the same group of guys all the time. ive liked one of the guys(greg) on and off since like last february. we went out for about a month(it was a pointless relationship cuz i only saw him like 4 times) antways, i recently found out from my friend that another kid in our little group, lets call him kyle, likes me. im not sure if kyle really likes me and ive never really tohught of him as more than a friend, but he is very cute and nice. lately, ive been thinking less about greg and ive been considering the possibilities with kyle. ive liked greg so much for so long and i dont think he likes me back. i dont want to start liking kyle just cuz he likes me, and also im afraid if something happens with me and kyle, ill still get jealous of other girls who like greg..... sorry its kinda confusing but i need help! xOx thanks in advance :)
Definitly c wht happens with kyle....I mean really.....how long r u gonna sit around and wait 4 greg?! Let me no! Hope i helped!! plz rate!!
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For the past 2 weeks my stomache has been hurting. Its near the top a few inches under my breasts. It becomes a sharp pain and it will last about 10 seconds. Lately it has been coming more frequently and it has be lasting longer. I havent told my Mother yet because she will just say its nerves from moving into college on Sunday as a freshman. I don't think it is though. Has anyone else ever experienced this?
It could be nerves......or it could be heartburn or indegestion...I would recommend u go 2 the doctor and 2 fight indegestion take an-acids such as tums Hope I helped :-D
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Last weekend , iwent to my moms house and from there i went to this guy named harry's house. Well he was sick and i guess i stayed around him alot so i think i caught we he has had. We didnt share dirnks or whatever,but like i have the worse throat pains and sinus problems let alone bad headaches and stomach as well.He says he had bronchitus ,but do you think i could've got it as well ? each day it gets worse.
Its very possible......I would recommend u go 2 da doctor....Hope I helped!!! :-D
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My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?
y not tell her about periods?! Or y not wear a tampon?! Hope i helped!
i want a pet tht is easy 2 take care of nd not 2 much wrk wut should i get?????
A fish definitly Hope I helped!
hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?
It means "do u have a big ass?" hope i helped! plz Rate!
Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/
U need 2 get outta tht job b4 ur boss thinks ur ez and goes farther....alot farther so0o0o aain its totally ur idea...but i would get out of tht job....fast! Hope I helped and plz rate!
I have acne not too much just a bit so its okay I tried clearasil (didnt help) (stridex)didnt help what can i use to make my skin be clear before school which is in 2 days doesnt have to be right before it but just something to clear them up help please!
Use rubbing alchol it cleared all my zits! Hope i helped!
okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?
DO NOT! do it it's very wrong and bad 4 ur body....U get no pleasure out of it either Hope I helped!! :-/
My little brother suffers from an extreme case of obsessive compulsive dissorder and a short fuse. How do I deal with his upsetting behavior?
If u care about ur brother u need 2 be patient and deal with his differences.
ok.. my grandma is really depressed but when she is like this all she does is drink wut do i do to tell her that by her drinkin its ruining our family... i just wanna be a family again HELP!!
Try talking 2 ur grandma or even ur mom or dad 2 help u help her out. If tht doesnt work try counseling,rehab or aaa groups hope i helped!
my aunt has breast cancer. shes like my 2nd mom. i love her so much and im so scared! someone help me
Calm down a lil spend as much time with ur aunt as possible and help her out....I wish u the best hope i helped!
hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?
Does ur brother live in the house? Do u have a father? If ur brother lives outta the house try moving in with him....or with ur father plz im me i would love 2 tlk 2 u problemhelper193 is the sn
When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.
1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?
2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)
3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)
Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.
Im srry 2 hear about ur mishap 1st of all....(#1) u need 2 sit her down and then explain it 2 her...(#2) It depends on how u feel about her b/f and whether or not u feel he will be there and be a father 2 this babi and if u can support him,u,ur daughter,and the babi...(#3) Do not adopt the babi but act not as a grandmother but as a second mother If she wuz not raped (which from ur story im guessing she wasnt) she needs 2 take responsibility 4 her actions.....Plz keep in touch with me I would love 2 no how ur daughter is doin my sn is problemhelper193
ive been datin this older guy for 2 1/2 weeks....
wen we first started datin i was so excited..i really liked him!!!!!!
now i found a toatally different deppresed side of him....its startin to piss me of bc he trys and gets people to feel bad for him......
now evrytime we meet its always one of his friends on one of my friends is wit us..(i dont like to be alone wit him)its usually his friend brian who comes wit us
...ive known brian a lot longer than my bf and ive always had a crush on him....now spendin more time wit brian i like him a lot...and i just found out that he likes me...
but my boyfriend is odd, even if i cheated on him he'd neva break up wit me.....
i dont want to break up wit him bc he's so awsome and he's like my BROTHER (another reason i dont want to date him)...
how do i get him to dump me and stay friends...and dont tell me to tell him how i feel.....(it doesnt work!)pleeeeezzzzz help me!!!!!!!!
Just tell him straight out "u r like a brother 2 me not like a bf...I really wanna be ur friend just not ur gf" Tht isnt telling him how u feel its telling him straight out...Then if he doesnt break up with u its ur move...Under no surcomstances should u cheat on him!
Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me?
The old saying "the guy makes the first move" is so0o0o0o bogus! Go ahead and bring it up 2 him! Hope I helped!
ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself
help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2
Hunni...Its all about mind ovr matter...U need 2 bring him into a public place such as the mall or @ ur house when ur parents r home and tell him how u feel...Remember if u stay in this relationship things could get even more violent and he could end up killing U