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ive been datin this older guy for 2 1/2 weeks....
wen we first started datin i was so excited..i really liked him!!!!!!
now i found a toatally different deppresed side of him....its startin to piss me of bc he trys and gets people to feel bad for him......
now evrytime we meet its always one of his friends on one of my friends is wit us..(i dont like to be alone wit him)its usually his friend brian who comes wit us
...ive known brian a lot longer than my bf and ive always had a crush on him....now spendin more time wit brian i like him a lot...and i just found out that he likes me...
but my boyfriend is odd, even if i cheated on him he'd neva break up wit me.....
i dont want to break up wit him bc he's so awsome and he's like my BROTHER (another reason i dont want to date him)...
how do i get him to dump me and stay friends...and dont tell me to tell him how i feel.....(it doesnt work!)pleeeeezzzzz help me!!!!!!!!
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Just tell him straight out "u r like a brother 2 me not like a bf...I really wanna be ur friend just not ur gf" Tht isnt telling him how u feel its telling him straight out...Then if he doesnt break up with u its ur move...Under no surcomstances should u cheat on him!
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It would be much easier if u just dumped him. And nicer
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Hmm, just tell him that you just want to be friends. Or he's not your type or whatever.
-xXoBrianna
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Dear "How do I break up with him?"
I think the best thing to do is for you to break up with him. You don't have to necessarily have to tell him how you feel but you could give him a general view. Either way it's gonna hurt him. You should definately tell him that you think of him as a brother. That would help him understand why you want to break up with him. You definately shouldn't try to make him break up with you.
Good Luck :)
**Latina Gurl**
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I wouldnt act like you like this guy if u really dont. Obviously this guy has problems... and u shouldnt of dated him in the first place. Just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore. Be honest! If brian likes you and you like him too then everything will work out. U have to tell ur b/f U dont want to be with him. Simple.
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what is it with this beating around the bush crap? dont be minipulating people so that they do what you want and you dont look like the bad guy. if you dont wanna be with him no more and you wanna be with this brian kid, then just tell him look i'm not feeling you liek taht anymore. i like you more as a friend. simple as that. there is no plotting on how to make him leave you...sheesh! thats pretty fucked up...really think about it...seriously thats wrong. just be honest. honest is the best way to go. if he is all depressed and cant handle hown you feel, then oh well, that is somethign he gonna have to learn to realize and get over.
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