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ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself
help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2
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You need to tell his parents or someone who can get him some help. Hes controling you buy threatening himself. this isnt your fault and you shouldnt have to deal with this. He needs a mental proffesional.
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This is serious..its no game. i would not confront your bf about this first because you would be in danger of getting hurt. Go to a school conselor or some kind of conselor immidediately and get him in there. Have your mom talk to his parents so they can force him into conseling. You can get a restraining order also. Thats a good idea. Do not approach him about this alone, he might hurt you. Get your parents involved in this..they`ll help you through it. This isnt fair for you to stay in and you need OUT asap! Best of luck..you`ll get through it hun!
-melissa
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Hunni...Its all about mind ovr matter...U need 2 bring him into a public place such as the mall or @ ur house when ur parents r home and tell him how u feel...Remember if u stay in this relationship things could get even more violent and he could end up killing U
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2 things 1st get him into therapy then RESTRANING ORDERS
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OMG it was almost the same with me except my ex told me he was gonna kill any one I went out with or liked and myself. And he was serious. If you don't like him, dump him. He probably doesn't have enough ball hair to actually kill himself. He'll get over you. Good luck hun!! I'm here for you if you have any other questions, drop one in my box.
-xXoBrianna
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first off.. this guy needs some serious help. the best thing i think you can do is talk to him and tell him you care about him but just want to be friends.. if that doesn't work and he reacts poorly get away! don't go near him get a fricken restraining order! that dude is psycho babe and u need someone better..i really hope i helped
xoxox-kenzi
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You need to leave him. You deserve much better then that. No gurl should have to deal with a boyfriend trying to hurt her or him self. break up with him and tell someone like the police or even a school teacher or something about him saying the stuff he says to you. Chances are he wont kill him self, he might be saying that so you dont leave him. About the whole thing about you liking his best friend, Maybe you should leave that out for a couple months till things cool down between you and him. hope i helped! <3
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You have to put your safety ahead of his. If he's violent or may become violent, you need to bail on this relationship before you get hurt. He's just using the threat of suicide to guilt you in to staying with him. Most people who commit suicide never let anyone know that they are thinking about it. Some people threaten suicide to get attention. But I wouldn't try to get with any of his friends right away.
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OMG! you have to leave this kid. hes nuts. chnaces are he wont kill himself. but it hink you should get a restraining order on him, if he starts threatening you and stuff.
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OK the chances of him killing himself are slim to none. but the chances of him hurting you are a lot higher. you definetly need to get out of that relationship asap. theres tons of websites to help u out just look up how to leave an abusive boyfriend or something like that on Google.com. sorry i couldnt help u more but thats all i know and u totally deserve better than him if he's threatened to hurt you or anything like that. good luck!
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