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Ok theres a guy I like he's always been very on and off with me... He's told me before that he wants to kiss me yet he hasn't we've only hung out a couple times tho... I want to go to his work tomo and see if maybe he will walk me out after we talk or whatever and I really want him to kiss me! I kinda just feel like being like I came here for one thing and I want u to kiss me now.. But I know I'm too shy how can I get him to kiss me!

I was shy at first with this girl. For months we both wanted the same thing, a kiss but never had the guts to do it. One day she was over my house, she looked at me and I knew what was comming, and she said, "We both know we want this, let's just kiss and go from there." And what do you know? We've been together for about a year now. Sometimes boys need to be pushed, and you need to take that scary step if you want it bad enough.

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Hii guys..what do you guys think of abortion? is it good or is it bad? please let me know what you guys think. thanks

I am Pro-Life, and feel like if you made the choice to have sex, then if you get pregnant then you have no one to blame but yourself. If there are health complications, or if they are victims of rape then I understand a woman having the right to have an aborition.

There is no right or wrong answer though, you need to look inside yourself and see what you really feel about the subject.

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Alright, I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and I'm now a Freshman in college, so we've been together for 3 years.
I love him. He's a great guy, he's been there for me. He's my first kiss, my first love.. I lost my virginity to him.
The problem is our relationship feels like it's going stale. We don't really do anything adventurous and we certainly don't have any exciting anymore. I've tried getting him to talk about his lack of sexual desire and he just brushes it off. I've tried getting him to take me to do new things but he's brushed that off as well. I've tried mentioning that perhaps we shouldn't see each other every single day so we can retain some excitement when we do get together,but that hasn't seemed to go anywhere either.
I'm at a loss. I'm so sexually unsastisfied and bored, I've found myself going on internet chatrooms, imagining a guy doing the things he says he would. Now I've found a guy to talk to but he doesn't know my real name or where I live.. it's exciting but I know I shouldn't do it. The problem is since it's on the internet and the chances of him catching me is slim, I wind up doing it anyway.

I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.. I really care about and love him. But what can I do to either spice up our relationship or discipline myself from trying to explore other men?

What I would say is that he is afraid to try new things, not that he doesn't want to. Maybe you need to take control, and just do some new things and tell him, that's what I want. Either way, he has the right to know the truth, and doesn't deserve being cheated on. He seems like he really cares about you, and by you going behind his back, you are hurting your relationship and possibly killing it. At the end of the day, do you want a guy who will give you what you want sexually and leave, or try and work with someone who loves you, and try to make things work?

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what does it mean after a couple of times a guy kisses you on the lips and says right after you pull back "get the picture". does it mean that he likes me?im 14 and i'm a girl

Yes he likes you, but he's pretty immature about it, that's for sure. I'm a firm believer that a first kiss should be something special, so think about if you really have feelings for him before you do anything.

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Hi there :)
Okay so for my boyfriends present for christmas I decided to get cute n creative seeing as money is tight.
Im making him up a box with his favourite things after shave chocolate,a photo frame with a picture of the two of us plus 100 reasons why I love him written on baby blue paper his fav colour.
I'm also making a c.d with some cute love songs cos we don't have "our" song yet.
So what are some really cute love songs?
I have some the more famous ones I'm looking for something more modern? if anyone has any suggestions at all that would be great! Thank you

Here are some links to good songs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIdnp0z0OCA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-3POnwFCfM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maAyfcO-X3k
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDN5rG3wLa4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sw06XolOIA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGoWtY_h4xo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00M1BDtC-jo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcSVb70IcHQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AQ4NAZPi2js
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDcpXlttqq4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnGjrudmClQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4yGuy6mcxI0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAZqjsSZphE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ss0kFNUP4P4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewx_moKlW2M

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hey.. me and bestestestestestest friend are in a huge fight Ova sOmething sOO stupid.. and i miss hanging Out wit her alOt!!!! and lik she keeps On brIng the subject up and it gettin annOying..i am tryin tO fOrget bOut it then she'll start spaxing On me!! what cOuld i dO tO let her knO i want tO still be friends and stuff?!?!?!?!

well I'm in a fight with my (old) friend over somthing to.. bu it was big.. but don't ruin a friendship over somthing stupid.. just try talking to her or wait it out.. there's nothing much more i can really say.. sry to hear that

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im so scurd of callin my girlfriend on the phone.. she always calls me.. but i always dial her number then hang up.... is there something wrong with me?

no your just nevous(obviously) but there's nothing wrong with you.. my friend was afraid to talk to his gf on the phone and my other friend did the same thing but you just gotta do it.. there's nothing to be afraid of if you love her and she loves you

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im 13.. im a boy.. and im getting some new shoes.. i go to a catholic school.. idk if the makes a difrence.. but what kind of shoes should i get? (sneakers)

And1 or Nike

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ok well for new years i was out of town and so was my b/f so we couldnt even talk on the phone, i was in a RV park in palm dessert and i was at the rec. center in the resort and this guy(lets call him Bill) came in and asked if he could play pool with me and i siad yeah, this was a day befor new years eve. im a BIG flirt and i dont relize when im flirting, and the next day i went to the rec center to meet up with Bill and later that night we were tired out from playin B-Ball so we were sittin together on the couch well when the new year came he kissed me and i kissed him back, and i shouldnt of i know now im really guilty becuz im not the kind of girl who cheats on her b/f,and ill never see Bill agian but i still feel guilty what im asking is should i feel really guilty for this? should i tell my b/f? or try to forget the whole thing?HELP!

well that's a tough one.. if your really close.. and can't get it off your mind then you should really tell him the truth and what happened and how you feel.

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My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..

please help me! i rate 5s

well... there's no real way to erase that... just talk to your clsoe friends and see if you can find another person you love



p.s I'm sorry.. i know what it feels like

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Ok my best friend is soooooo awsome!.... i love her to death, but this new school year i noticed she really grew up like shes dressing more preppy wearing more make up and stuff, and im perfectly fin with that but she also made cheerleading and im fine with that too exept in my school if yopur a cheer leader then your queen. were not popular (and she didnt become a CHerleader cus shes popular, she just has talent)but now that shes a cheerleader all of the other popular people are being all nice trying to get in good cus shes a CL and now guys are becomeing in love with her because shes a CL. im happy for her and all, but im just afraid that shes going to become real popular and since i know i ll never be popular, i think she might gradually leaver me behind... i know she likes the attention....buti just dont want to be left behind and i dont think theres a way to get the popular people to like me . does this sound selfish of me? or what do you think I RATE! sorry its so long


ps and please dont tell me " if shes a real friend she wont leave you" cus shes a great friend and i no she like the attaention and i think over time ill just be pushed away.

Wow.. .that stinks..... talk to her more.. hang out with her... treat her the same.... and she'll probably do the same as long as you do

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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help

well first of all... stop bragging second.. just don't look for a girl with looks

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hey. i hope that you can help me. one of my best friends and i have been in an on-going fight for more than 2 weeks. ive been apologizing, and it doesnt seem to be changing anything. she always finds a reason to be mad at me. idk whats going on. shes been spreading rumors about me, too. and threatened to have people jump me! weve been best friends for almost 9 years. should i just forget that she ever existed, or should i keep begging for her forgiveness?
*Katie

well I'm in a fight with my best friend and it's gone on for 2 months.... but keep begging....

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What's the best free MMORPG (Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game)? Does anyone know of any others on store shelves that don't require a monthly payment?

Cokemusic is the best!!!! cokemusic.com


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If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks.

yea that should do it

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okay..well..im 13/f..and i have NO clue what to get my boyfriend for christmas..he definatly likes music and stuff..but..im guessing your a guy..hopefully around my age..what would you want your girlfriend to give you? this is reely important..please reply!!
-Jessica

Yea i am a boy and I'm around that age... and I'm like a music freak... but i don't really buy guys things so i dodn't know

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okay;; im a girl..and just turned 13 in Oct. ..i met this guy named Justin over the summer and we became close and all..he liked me, i liked him...now over the summer he was 16 and now hes 17..when he turned 17 he lyke changed hiz mind and hes now all like "..i cant go out w/ u because of the age diffrence"..but i mean i REALLY like him ..alot;; i cant stop thinkin about him ..etc. ..what should i do?

well that's a hard thing to get over.... you can't just forget about him so... i sorry i don't know

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i have a major crush on this kid that i have liked since about the 4th or 5th grade. we used to be lik best frenz now he doesnt even talk to me..but i found out that he liked the gurl i hate..should i ask him out? forget about him? move on? or just try and be his frend?..by the way..i think i luv this kid :-/

if you love him



ASK HIM OUT!

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hey. i lik this kid soo much but he likes mi best frend .. i think, should i ask him out anywayz?

help me .. i need it

yea it's worth a shot



;)

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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

11 is a good age we mature around then




hope i helped


=)

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