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I feel sooooooo guilty!!!!!
ok well for new years i was out of town and so was my b/f so we couldnt even talk on the phone, i was in a RV park in palm dessert and i was at the rec. center in the resort and this guy(lets call him Bill) came in and asked if he could play pool with me and i siad yeah, this was a day befor new years eve. im a BIG flirt and i dont relize when im flirting, and the next day i went to the rec center to meet up with Bill and later that night we were tired out from playin B-Ball so we were sittin together on the couch well when the new year came he kissed me and i kissed him back, and i shouldnt of i know now im really guilty becuz im not the kind of girl who cheats on her b/f,and ill never see Bill agian but i still feel guilty what im asking is should i feel really guilty for this? should i tell my b/f? or try to forget the whole thing?HELP!
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You should feel guilty! Tell you your boyfriend, you can't keep that secret inside of you forever, if I kept a secret from mine, then I would feel like I was locked up in a cage and can never come out!! You shoudn't of kissed this so called "Bill", but, just tell him and appologize and tell him everything. Hope you guys make it!!
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Well, you should tell your boyfriend deffinitly, but it might ruin ur relationship. You should feel guilty but not like omg guilty, everyone makes mistakes in life.
~Brina~
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well that's a tough one.. if your really close.. and can't get it off your mind then you should really tell him the truth and what happened and how you feel.
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I wish I could tell you to forget the whole thing however one day, it will probobly catch up to you. You should do a little "test" with your boyfriend. Tell him you have something really important to confess and if he freaks out about it AFTER you tell him you are really sorry then he's not the one for you. Make sure you tell him how bad you feel and how you thought it would be better for your relationship if you were honest with him. Tell him how bad you feel inside and make sure you express your emotions thoroughly so he really understands. If he still rejects you, then he is feeling really hurt about it. Think about your boyfriends personality. If you want, you can rough it out and see what happens but if your coinsience really starts to bug you then I reccomend honesty and communication. If you need any other help hun please feel free to visit my advice collumn.
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Just be truthful to hima nd tell him I mean if he really loves you I'm sure he would try and forgive you for what you did. I mean it was just a little kiss so maybe he will just forget about it, but then after that he might worry about trusting you when he isn't around you know!?! well i hope you can work things out! if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin
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Well really relationship is built on TRUST. Thats all you's can do is trust eachother maybe you never know he kissed someone too! The best thing is to tell him, but you's might have to break up unless you tell him it meant nothing! And if he will trust you believe me tho, he'll never let it go. He'll probably be jealous and bring it up everytime hes wrong.
Hope i helped..
x3 spiCy xo hoTt
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