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my best friend
Ok my best friend is soooooo awsome!.... i love her to death, but this new school year i noticed she really grew up like shes dressing more preppy wearing more make up and stuff, and im perfectly fin with that but she also made cheerleading and im fine with that too exept in my school if yopur a cheer leader then your queen. were not popular (and she didnt become a CHerleader cus shes popular, she just has talent)but now that shes a cheerleader all of the other popular people are being all nice trying to get in good cus shes a CL and now guys are becomeing in love with her because shes a CL. im happy for her and all, but im just afraid that shes going to become real popular and since i know i ll never be popular, i think she might gradually leaver me behind... i know she likes the attention....buti just dont want to be left behind and i dont think theres a way to get the popular people to like me . does this sound selfish of me? or what do you think I RATE! sorry its so long
ps and please dont tell me " if shes a real friend she wont leave you" cus shes a great friend and i no she like the attaention and i think over time ill just be pushed away.
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I understand but i hate to say this but if she is a good friend she won't leave you behind i know you said not to say that but its true. also do you guys still hang out? or does she hang out with the boys and cheerleaders? if she still hangs out with you things should turn out fine.
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Wow.. .that stinks..... talk to her more.. hang out with her... treat her the same.... and she'll probably do the same as long as you do
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ok i have a best freind to but she went the other way from popular down i became best freinds with her when she was popular now that shes not were still freinds she wont leave you behind (if shes a good friend) like me and my best friend say were in it till the end and for us theres no end lol
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She probably does like the attention- I mean who wouldn't! Since you don't want me to say "if shes a real friend she wont leave you", all i can say is that right now enjoy the times you guys have together and if she does leave you behind move on and make new friends. If you want to try to make the "popular people" like you, why don't you try out for the cheerleading team?
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I have been in this situation. I don't think she'll forget you. She might hang out with you less but never forget.
Best hope and wished
--Kayla
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P.S.S- I would never say "If she's a great friend, she won't leave you." b/c I know it's not true. I have had friends be great and stab you in the back- even when I'm really close to them.
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