is it alright to not tell your mother baout your period for a few months, because i know if i tell her she will get all emotional and cry and be all my lil baby is growing up and now we have a special bond. i am the only daughter with 2 older brothers. im al right on getting pad and stuff....im just wondering if its safe to not tell for a few months plz help!
xXSunSweetie17Xx answered Monday January 3 2005, 11:15 pm: wow you remind me of myself. i am the only daughter and i have 3 brothers though i have not had mine yet my mom and i kind of had a talk about tell her she should be find and i don't think she will do that baby stuff becasue she knows how you will act. I say tell her if you don't then by the time your older she will know you had it sometime and never told her so i say tell her and get it over with take it from me [ xXSunSweetie17Xx's advice column | Ask xXSunSweetie17Xx A Question ]
bball470gh answered Monday January 3 2005, 10:41 pm: you should tell her when you feel comfortable talking about it with her, its not really that bad but dont feel like you have to force yourself to do it. hope i helped xox sara [ bball470gh's advice column | Ask bball470gh A Question ]
StrawberryHEARTsyou answered Monday January 3 2005, 2:28 pm: You need to tell your mom .,. because being a mom that is the most important thing to her. Yes so your growing up everyone does and if she knows that you are to she will treat you with alot more respect. Plus isnt it hard to hide all teh effidence and buy all the stuff on your own?
I would just tell her it maybe embarassing but beilve me it gets better!
Christeena answered Monday January 3 2005, 1:12 pm: Tell her. It's a great step for a mom to have her daughter expirience her first period. It's not that bad when you tell her, trust me. [ Christeena's advice column | Ask Christeena A Question ]
soccrchick answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:07 am: You should tell your mom. She won't be like that (or at least I hope not) You might not want to tell your friends if you don't want other people to know. But you may want to tell your mom, but its up to you.
earthlynomad answered Monday January 3 2005, 4:33 am: Yay!! you're a woman!!!
My sister didn't tell my mum for a few months and there wasn't a problem.
If you don't feel comfortable telling her, then don't...it's your body and you need to be comfortable with her knowing. However, you probably should find an older friend or cousin or aunty to talk to about it, just in case...And just in case you don't here's some elderly sister advice:
* Never flush tampons down the toilet (or pads)
* Don't sleep with a tampon in
* Change your pad every four hours or so...
* Definitley tell someone if you get yellow discharge or really bad cramps...
* Tim tams are the best period food
:) [ earthlynomad's advice column | Ask earthlynomad A Question ]
lazy_one answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:42 am: i think it is safe not to tell her. i wouldn't tell my mom either. i am an only child and obviously her only daughter. i kno how you fell bout not wanting to tell her. [ lazy_one's advice column | Ask lazy_one A Question ]
OcherryfaerieO answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:16 am: It might not hurt if you didnt tell your mom, but i wouldnt reccomend it. If you have any problems in the next few months she'll need to know, and it'll be easier just to tell her now, rather than her finding out... or even you telling her later. And (this is highly unlikely) but suppose you're in a car crash and your uterus and stuff is hurt... your mom might need to tell the doctor if you've started yet, and if she says No then the doctor might do things differently and mess up, because he didnt have correct info.... i know how off the wall that is, but hey it could happen. I'd just mention it to her casually like if you and her are watching TV together or sumthing just say "o ya Mom i started my period yesterday (or w/e" It'll be better telling her now than in a couple months... if she knows you've had it for awhile and havent told her until just then she may get really upset. Hope this helps! feel free to ask anything else!
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