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He broke up with me
My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..
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Try seeing other guys again... or maybe taking a vacation... and if you dont see him for a while you may find that you think about him alot less.. and even if you are in love "Cheating is not right!!" you should always be loyal to your partner.. but yeah.. id say the fact that you hardly ever saw each other means you made little effort to see each other.. so maybe you arent as in love as you think you are..
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Hang out with your friends go shopping that always makes me feel better. Im sorry about everything. Talk to sombody about it and it helps trust me ur best friend will be the best to talk to. Best of luck to ya! <3 American Girl
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well... there's no real way to erase that... just talk to your clsoe friends and see if you can find another person you love
p.s I'm sorry.. i know what it feels like
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You have to try not thinking about him anymore. Go hang out with some friends, watch a movie, go to the mall, and just have fun, knowing that you aren't thinking of your ex-boyfriend. Yes, it will take time getting over him and you need to move on. Maybe you can try meeting new guys and start talking to them? Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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O.K- First of all, did you give him the letter? If so, what'd he say about it? If not, give it to him. Hun, the way I get my boyfriends off my mind is to get some of your best girlfriends and go somewhere REALLY fun. (Bar, amusement park, etc.) Have the best time you can and you'll forget about it. But you have to remember to cooperate here. If you sit around and cry and sulk all day, you're just going to get worse. It's O.K to cry but you HVE to move on. I know how tough it is, sweetie but you have to rust me, O.K? Best of luck!
~~~Kayla~~~
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Well theres many ways to get over a guy ive been through this before.. and maybe you just got to get out with some friends for the day like tha mall and movies and like some of your friends stay to night at your house watching movie to for get about him then aviod him like go around flirting with guys you know and you think you would like it might take a while but its worth a shot Good Luck -Ashlee-
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The best thing to do is just search for other guys. Flirt with other guys. This will help keep your mind off of him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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Okay this happened to me, except we didnt cheat on each other... well anyway i know how u feel, but i just had to stop thinking about him and get him off my mind. After a few months i finally stopped liking him lol. So you just need to be patiant. You guys broke up for a reason, and theres just some things you cant change. Good Luck &heart;
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i know it'll be hard but try seeing other guys or just have some fun w| your friends to try and get your mind off of him. but also don't beg him because the more you do he'll relize how much you want him back and he'll just think of you as a backup ..try and act like it doesn't bother you and he might get jealous .. lol but just do stuff to get your mind off of him =] <3jazz.
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if he wont go back out with you ask him can ya'll at least be frinds therefor you and him can still talk on the phone so you can feel a little better.
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Try to go out and see all the better people out there for you, like the mall, or even places like your school. You never know who may be out their, but make sure your having fun, cause then it wont be so hard=) ♥ Julia
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o gosh this is hard lol! well hunny u made him do it! do sumthing to make him happy and then ask him to please take you back but if he doesnt you better back off! don't bother him if he dosen't want you! It's HIS loss not urs! hope i helped!
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Oh, breakups suck. I'm so sorry. I'd say just give him a little space. And as hard as it is, try not to think about him right now. Think about all the other guys that are out there now! Or, try this. Take a shoebox, fill it with the things that remind you of him, and bury it. Or have a little ceremony and pretend like it's gone. It will give you a little closure. A little wacko? Sure, but aren't we all sometimes? I might be able to help a bit more if I knew why he broke up with you, so feel free to IM me (askchristeena) and I can try and help a bit more!
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