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Okay, this is really dumb but...

Question Posted Monday January 3 2005, 6:20 pm

I have a boyfriend, Justin. We have been going out for what will be two months tomorrow. Anyways, he came over Friday to hang out and stuff. When he went to leave he said he would call me when/if they got home. It's Monday and he still hasn't called. Now, I'm the type of person that totally stresses over things like this. I'll play out every situation in my mind and possible outcomes.

Of course, they did have to go back and paint a house, and they are moving, but that wouldn't be it I don't think. What if he doesn't like me anymore or he doesn't want to talk to me? Ah, I'm totally stressed and it's so dumb. I just, can't see myself without him and I don't know. I know I'm being totally stupid, but could someone offer some advice? What should I do or what could have possibly happened? Thanks! And if you want a little more info, IM me! askchristeena


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Additional info, added Monday January 3 2005, 11:22 pm:
Edit: I just talked to him online. He said he didn't have any time to call, but he will call tonight. Then he said "bye babe." =).

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lyDia_LoU answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 3:34 am:
Honestly, you are over reacting. It's a guy and guys don't think about stuff the way we do. So don't worry! If he doesn't like you then he'd show it more then just forgetting to call! Soo yeah he still likes you.. stop stressing! Hope I helped! >lyds

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hyperNerd05 answered Monday January 3 2005, 11:41 pm:
well see there you go if he couldent call you then he couldent call you next time dont work your self up and just call him

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lipsRHoT2kissU2's answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:43 pm:
First of all you have to stop worry-ing, this is all messing with your head. The first thing you should do is call him! You have to get in touch with him. After the 20th call, call his cell, if he has one, or his parents cell, make sure they don't suspect anything!!!! If he never picks up then go to his house if you can!! I hope it works out for you!!

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sohojules26 answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:42 pm:
You have to call him yourself!! You need to see why he hasnt called you, because he may have something decent to say, but if not, leave him, there are plenty of better guys out there=) &hearts; Julia

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StAr answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:29 pm:
Call him up and tell him how u feel....yea it might be hard but u have to sumtiim just pick up the phone and call the worst he can do is . . . . nvm just call him and ask y he hasent called u

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xoxsweetashley91 answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:42 pm:
I would also think something like that, but he probably got really busy and couldn't find time to call you. I wouldnt worry because when he does call, he will probably say they ended up having to paint the house then, or had to finish packing or something. Dont worry about it, when guys say they'll call, they usually leave you wondering for a few days. Please Rate! Hope I helped!

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