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My name's Allie . I'm 14 and I play guitar in a local Sacramento rock band called HushKeepSilent . I love rock and my fave bands are - Gooser , Five Minute Ride , Fear Before The March of Flames , From Autumn To Ashes , and others .

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

Naw you just haven't found that special girl yet . A lot of little freshman haven't kissed girls yet . Same with the girls to . I just turned a freshman to and I know a lot of freshman guys who haven't kissed girls yet .
Hopefully someday youll have a girl soon .
Ally

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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!

Just tell her , if you really don't like her that much , that you just don't like her as a friend . Telling excuses to people can't keep on going forever . Their feelings might just get hurt ...

I'd tell her to clean up her act and stop lying . If you guys really used to be close , then maybe it shouldn't be that you guys aren't meant to be any friends anymore . ( This might sound kinda mean ) But go over to her house once and hang with her and thank her for the gift and such and just say ( it might be good to get her something in return ) say " I feel like we've grown apart and that you lie to much . And , I just can't be your friend anymore . People drift apart . " Thats all I can think of . Excuses hurt worse .
Ally

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i have a dance this friday and i dont know wut to do w/ my hair. i have straight, thin, brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanks!

I'd say ( like how my older sister does her hair ) put your hair up in a fancy , knobby bun .
Or , if you want your hair down keep one of those wispy curling irons and wisp your hair in a bunch of curls .
Of just curl the ends of your hair so the ends flip out .
Or if you're rocker ( which doesn't seem likley ) brush your hair so its hanging down and blow dry it upside down . It makes it so its kind of curly/messy/cute at the same time .
Thats what I usually do . But , I have really short hair . Which might not be a good idea to do with long hair .

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Hey, do you guys know any styling products that you can put in your hair while its damp and makes it straight when you blow dry it? Thanks

I can't really rember the name , but it's called something p. jelly . It might feel a little disgusting , but put it in your hair when its wet and just sleek it down .
My friend Erica has the worst curly hair ever . She uses it . Or putting baby oil in her . It makes so the hair is to thick to curl-up .
Either that or use vaseline . Thats what I use to straighten and sleeken my hair after my hair has been flippy all day .
Just an idea . And it works to so hope my advice worked!

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if anyone cuts and they want to stop i would be happy to help you if you want. i used to cut myself and i havent done it in a while. i can explain to you why you do it if you dont already know(like why it makes you feel better). but if you want you can im me at blinkbabe2469. or my advice column is xForeverxForgottenx if you want to do it that way. but if you want help or you're depressed then i'll listen if you need someone. i know what it feels like to be alone...or atleast feel alone.

I used to cut myself also . I stopped . I learned that it was damaging myself and it just didn't help me out...
I firgued out why I did it . Because I thought that I hated myself and I thought that I was ugly . So , I just did it . It also gave my self-happiness to know I could hurt myself and leave scars .
But , I stopped . I was ruining my life and putting pity on myself . I wanted to kill myself . I wanted to be gone ... well hey instant message me sometime on AIM ToPullTheTrigger ,
Ally

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Is there a really great site for downloading mp3's that has a really good variety and works? If n e one has some sites, lemme know plz

www.purevolume.com
or the best is www.realplayer.com

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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*

A lot check out these great local ( emo/rock/indie bands ) from Sacramento :
Gooser www.purevolume.com/gooser
Self Against City www.purevolume.com/selfagainstcity

Five Minute Ride
www.purevolume.com/fiveminuteride

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hi every one......im Tripp...and im in a band...and we REALLY suck ass....we practice like every day and shit...but we still suck like really bad....so if u know n e thing else we could do....tell me.

haha well ... I don't know what to tell you .... turn up the guitar , etc. - bass . I'm in a band - actually a popular from where I'm from local band out of Sacramento called HushKeepSilent . Either that or get some great lyrics and or replace the people with better members . If its the singer that sucks turn up the guitar , etc. bass , and lower the mic . Thats what this one local band from where I'm from called Ghost Ride does and they sound half-way decent .
But , if its the important things like - guitar , bass , drums .... buy earplugs . Haha I'm kidding . But , just do your best and hope for the best . If the singer also sucks write the greatest song lyrics and hope that makes up for sounding bad .
Ally

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whats that band that there nickname is A7X??

AVENGED SEVENFOLD
CD : WAKING THE FALLEN
HIT SONG : " UNHOLY CONFESSIONS
haha sorry I'm upsessed with them . I've seen Avenged Sevenfold upteenth times before they went major!
Ally

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hey everyone--

i really wanna play the guitar. Accoustic. Can anyone who's experienced tell me if its hard or not? thanks for all the help xoxo

Hey I'm Ally and I play electric guitar in a rock band called HushKeepSilent . I started out on acoustic guitar , and I've been playing for about 4 years now .
Yes , any instrument is hard to play . All I can say is keep at it and don't give up . It took me a while to learn how to play!

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