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what should I do?!
Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!
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Just tell her , if you really don't like her that much , that you just don't like her as a friend . Telling excuses to people can't keep on going forever . Their feelings might just get hurt ...
I'd tell her to clean up her act and stop lying . If you guys really used to be close , then maybe it shouldn't be that you guys aren't meant to be any friends anymore . ( This might sound kinda mean ) But go over to her house once and hang with her and thank her for the gift and such and just say ( it might be good to get her something in return ) say " I feel like we've grown apart and that you lie to much . And , I just can't be your friend anymore . People drift apart . " Thats all I can think of . Excuses hurt worse .
Ally
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To me, it sounds like shes lonely. No one likes to not have friends, be nice to her, yah, she made some mistakes, but it sucks so much to not be liked and not have friends. Accept the gift, be nice and you should hang out with her, maybe start out with waving in the hallways, you never know that it could brighten up her day, see how everything goes. Maybe you could become friends again. You never know in these type of situations.
If she jumps into it that fast, say in a nice way, i don't wanna be lied to again, so lets take this step by step, something along those lines.
Hope this helps!
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*Leah
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Look. She likes you more than you like her. That is fine, and normal, and acceptable. But have the fucking balls to tell her that.
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accept the gift, but accept in in a "wow thanx" way not in a "omg thank you we should hang out sometime". say something like "you didnt have to get me anything"
hope i helped
xoxo
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Explain to her why you two have grown apart. Don't just be like " We're not friends anymore. And we're not friends because you're big liar." Say it in a calm nice way. Ask her to meet you somewhere, accept the gift, 'n then talk to her. Afer you finish talking to her, ask her if she wants the gift back. 'N just go from there. 'N you're right, you can't keep giving her excuses. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped. (sorry if I wasn't any help)
-tori
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When she gives u the gift say u REALLY appreciate it AND that u have a problem that u want to discuss with her..its all about communication...explain to her the situation and how u dont like she lies. If she's a good enough friend she'll accept the fact that she's lied and wont get defensive. If everything goes well dont stop being friends with just becus everyone else doesnt like her..do it becus YOU dont like her..hope everything works out for ya girl! xox kara
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Well it seems like she really wants to be your friend. I think you should give her a second chance just dont trust her you know? Accept the gift..gifts are always nice :)
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