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Gay pride america
See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help!
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Dude, I agree with Kimbert546. YOU think you look straight. If you are a handsome guy hangin around alone with a beer in your hand with NO woman on your arm. There is no gay person there that thinks you are straight. Just be yourself!
Gay or Green with Dots...doesnt matter, man.
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Maybe instead of waiting to be approached you could approach someone. The worst that could happen is they say no thanks and you never see them again.
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try approaching ppl yourself so that they know that you arent straight. Try meeting new ppl, youll find someone soon enough. I hope I helped
x0x fatiima
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approch them! if ur serious about finding someone else take ation for urself! dont worry about being approched, just do what u gotta do and it will all work out!!
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well all you can do is just be you .. there is nothing wrong with being you and people are attracted to that
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Maybe you could try the approaching if you are the one out on the prowl. I am a bi-sexual chic and believe me, I know what you're saying. I see hot chics everywhere, in the grociery store and wherever and I just don't know how to approach without looking retarded. But good thing you go to gay bars that's a good start. I can't go to bars because I have a baby. So maybe try to do the approaching, and if you're too shy, then keep on going and hoping for YOUR NIGHT. It's gotta happen sometime.
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Maybe you should dress more like your gay and then people will know the truth.
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try to be a bit more gay. or u should walk up tp the guys and offer them a drink. or just have a conversation with them. if they don't come to u, u have to go to them!! good luck!! i hope u fing=d your self a man. if u have more question ask me
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go approach guys urself... almost everyone likes a bold and friendly person... dont be depressed... you'll find sum1... & you'll be happier with ur relationship with him... than the one u just got out of
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Apprach Someone on your on you can do it without havin the mapproach you... g/l
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Let's lay it on the line...you're in a gay bar sweety, they know you're gay. From there, it's like any other pick up joint. Don't get all "fished" out if that's not who you are. It'll confuse the relationship. If you feel comfortble hitting on some hot guy in the corner...go for it. If not, trust me, with time they WILL come to you :o)
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act like they act, gay.
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approach them! dont be scared, take a chance, whats there to lose!? im sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend, but try and be happy and have fun!
Alexandra x3
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Maybe you concentrate on it too much.sometimes if you want something too bad, you cant seem to get it.Try to approach some of the other guys, dont wait for them to approach you.Try not to worry about it as much.Go out and have fun.Hope i helped.
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Well, im not a stereotyper or anything. i really dont care whats someones preference is, but try to dress "gay" with flashy clothes and bracelets and in pink or something bright. i know, sorry its a stereotype, but i know it will get you a hot new man!!
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uhhh well i dont know how you look when you go in them. So i dont know much but why dont you try aproaching someone, its probably not the fact that they think your straight its probably the fact that they think your shy. Im glad that you put your self out and dont care what people think of you. My friend Jason is gay and this used to happen to him but after he went up to someone then it stopped. Just try it wear something you think that they will think your cute in. And aproach someone with confidence. Hope i helped a little and dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
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