Member Since: October 22, 2004
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Last Update: October 22, 2004
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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out??? (link)
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I have been/was a cutter for years. I know it's not an issue of just stopping. What happens when you cut is that your body releases endorphins (like natural heroin) which reduces stress levels almost immediately. Cutting also doesn't necessarily mean suicidal...though it can. I can tell you that medication does help. So does counseling. The two together are probably the best. Starting counseling can be VERY hard, but it may be the best step you can take. In the mean time, just make sure that both your skin & the cutting utensil are CLEAN! The last thing you want are horrible physical scars to match the emotional ones.
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See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help! (link)
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Let's lay it on the line...you're in a gay bar sweety, they know you're gay. From there, it's like any other pick up joint. Don't get all "fished" out if that's not who you are. It'll confuse the relationship. If you feel comfortble hitting on some hot guy in the corner...go for it. If not, trust me, with time they WILL come to you :o)
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Hey guys. I bet you guys are really bugged by me already but I swear that this is the last question today. The 7th and 8th grade Halloween dance is coming up on the 29th and I bought my costume already. And my costume comes with this black rose to give to anyone I want. And earlier I asked about this boy Jimmy (and that I can't look him in the eye anymore b/c my friends told him I like him), and before my friends told him about me liking him, I was going to give him the rose and say "This rose is for the cutest guy at the whole dance" and then I was going to give him a peck on the cheek. But I'm not sure if guys like this type of thing. So GUYS (!) please answer this question! Thankz byebye! (link)
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I hate to say it, but in the 7th & 8th grade guys do not like that kind of stuff. They will think it is weird or corny. Better bet is to try to relate to him on his level. Find out what he likes & talk to him about that. This works when guys are older too.
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Hello, everybody. I'm sorry if this is a bit long. Just for info, I'm 24 and female, so I'm not a slut or anything for having sex. Anyway, my husband recently told me he used to pay prostitutes to have sex with him a few years back (he's five years older then me.) I was disgusted. Mu husband, who has pleasured me with oral sex and beyong NUMEROUS times, has had sex with several women who he barely knew. I need some advice on how to handle this. Is he going to still be fertile? Because I DO want to have kids. - Marcia (link)
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Will he still be fertile? Yes...well into his old age. Would I trust him? Not as far as I could throw him.
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