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Alrighty, well this is about that boy Jake that i wrote about before. As I said Jake calls me everyday and I like him a lot, but yesterday we were talking on the phone and hes like god how come you never call me or talk to me in school? Im sick of your sh!t I always have to call you but w/e forget it im sick of it and Im not calling you anymore! And he was yelling at me and all and I was telling him im sorry and all and hes like w/e it doesnt matter if you call me now or what i dont care. Well i said the reason i didnt was because i didnt know if he wanted me to, and he said that was the stupidest thing he has ever heard because he doesnt know if i want him to call me so thats not an excuse. And he kept saying that it didnt matter because the only reason that i would start talking to him was because he said something. So today I was looking for my friend during homeroom and i went up to him and asked if he saw her and he just walked away from me! I dont know what to do im so upset, i left school early because i was feeling sick worrying about it so much and i could focus :(!!
Someone please help me
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Call him and tell him to get over it your sorry
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if ur firned didnt care then he wouldnt have tooken it so personally. i think u should call him tonight and say just tell him how u feel and tell him that u truly are sorry adn should start calling more then u do0.and if he doensnt get over it and forgive you then just give him some time to co0l off and let him realize that he was to0 dramatic. and he'll eventually tell you hes sorry....hopefully
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Don't you just love moody guys? You care about him, and that's why you feel bad. If you call him (or even better, talk to him in person) say what you're feeling. If he starts to yell at you again, just try and imagine what what going through his head. He might think that you're embarassed to talk to him or something. And if he does explode on you again, would you really want to be a friend to someone who treats you this way? I hope you make a good choice about him, I know you will. Good luck, and hope I helped you out. -Ce
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I say to talk to him and work things out. You can't let this go. He can't be mad forever. When you do get back together and he gets over everything you should call him very often and talk to him in school. That way this wont happen again between you two.
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Damn! I'd say I know how he feels, but there's no way of justifying why he is so angry. I'm going to guess that he hasn't talked to anyone about how he felt. He just pictured what you thought of him, and because there was no contact with you or anyone else to disagree with his idea of your opinion of him, it became more and more distorted until it lead to his outburst. It's like if you thought someone might be talking behind your back and you never confronted them. You'd never forget the idea of them doing it so the might would turn into a definite in your eyes. Anyway, that's my best guess and explanation. There are other possibilities, but I think this is the most likely.
As for what you can do, probably nothing. I mean, if he refuses to talk to you, anything you said wouldn't matter because it wouldn't be heard. I'm guessing anything you could do would be ignored just as easily. You already apologized and explained yourself, that should have been enough. He's too self-involved to see that. You're just going to have to wait until he cools down or comes to you, though personally after an episode like that I wouldn't want anything to do with him. That type of explosive anger can't be good in a friendship let alone a possible relationship.
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