sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it.
advice_now_2334 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:26 pm: im not trying to be mean but you are still younf and theres a 10% chance that yall are guinna get married. he probally loves you dearly and he probally wants to marry you and he probally loves you with all ur heart but chances are yall probally arent gunnaget married. but answering ur question, yes it seems like he does wnt to marry you. [ advice_now_2334's advice column | Ask advice_now_2334 A Question ]
BashfulBowler answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 3:43 pm: Well...depends on how old you are. But my guess is hes not that serious. He mite think that he is but hes not gonna propose or anything. Its just fun to talk about ur future with anythere person. I had a boyfriend that i planned my life out with, but it was just a fun thing. Now we are broken up and i seriously doubt we will actually marry. So my guess is hes not so serious that he will propose. Hope i helped a bit! [ BashfulBowler's advice column | Ask BashfulBowler A Question ]
MelikoDee answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 12:49 pm: Look it seems to me that 'Bob' is too shy to bring up the topic and is relying on you to make the first move.
He has obviously been dropping quite a lot of hints.
I suggest you be upfront and ask him either 'why' or ask if he has been thinking about marrying you.
Somehow build up to the question rather than being TOO upfront and scaring him away. Ask him first if he likes the idea of marriage and what his views are regarding it, then continue to build up to it. :) [ MelikoDee's advice column | Ask MelikoDee A Question ]
Casiaroox answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 10:51 am: maybe he thought that you brought that up because you wanted him to be the groom... or maybe he said that because he was thinking about it too and he DOES wanna be your groom. you should ask him about it and see if it meant anything special. [ Casiaroox's advice column | Ask Casiaroox A Question ]
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