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talking
im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx!
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ok...youre going out with the guy, but you have never talked to him?? um...thats pretty effed up. why dont you try talking before going out?
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It just comes like bring up something he likes that you know some about too. That's what i would do. Then be like, whats going on in your life. that'll kick up a convo.
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your going out with him?? and u didnt talk to him?? why not.. ?? u should really get to know him.. dont come on too strong tho.. if you like him then just be yourself.. and hmm.. if you dont want it to look like you nervous then..
a. try to look him in the eye
b. dont fidgit
c. dont bite your lip
but dont make it seem like your too bored either.. im telling you tho, u shouldnt have to rehearse everytime you want to talk to your boyfriend... just be Y0U !
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Well of course you are going to HAVE TO talk to him...You could start off with asking him what different intrets he has, like his favorite sport...etc.... Then just go on from there. Just start out slow and stay easy going and calm. Well hope this was good advice!
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I think that you should just be yourself and talk to him like you have known him forever. Or just act like he is one of your guy friends. Ask him what he wants to talk about and if he asks for your number or anything just let him know it. Ask about himself and how he's doin and everything should be fine!
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well if ur going out you should have some things to say to each other. Talk about tv, music, health class, things you guys have in common..Just try n act like he's a close friend because guys will like u for who u are and not when ur all shy and jittery (even thogh it will b really hard lol) Maybe you can talk to him with a friend so all the pressure isnt put only on you.
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you've never talked an your going out? well of course its going to be difficult, but its your choice and you like him. Talk about things you like. Usually music is really good. How about scheduling plans?? Like movies, hanging out... anything you want, really.
Good luck
xoxo
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first of all....how have you gone with him without even talking to him before...but if dont wanna appear nervous bring a group of friends with you to talk to him so you dont have to talk to him alone...also think of some things to ask him before you go over n talk to him...
JesusFreak
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