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my bestfriend wants to go out with my x-boyfriend when i asked her not 2 hang out with him in the first place because i don't like it. i pretend to be ok with it but thats only to avoid a fight. should i be ok with it and move on or am i being over reactive?
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I could totally understand why u wouldnt like that! ok the whole cliche of "well he is her ex and they arent together anymore" is just wrong. as your best friend she should have respect for you and your feelings.you shouldnt keep your feelings bottled up inside of you. tell her how u feel. im sure if she was you she wouldnt like that.
wish you tons and tons of luck!!:)
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Liza
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Yup, it's all right to be a little bit mad at your bestfriend since she's going out with your ex-boyfriend. You might still have feelings for your ex and it's probably hard for you to see another person, including your bestfriend, going out with him, right? Just talk to your friend about this and tell her that she lied to you and went out with your ex when you told her not to. Hope I helped and good luck sweetie :)
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Of course you're not being over reactive, but she's your friend hun, and you really should tell her how you feel and that you didnt tell her straight up b/c you're such good fiends and you didnt wanna fight. I guess she blocked it out about you asking her not to hang out with him because she liked him and didn't care what you said or she forgot. Remind her and politely ask if she remembers your last talk about this. But then again, why does it bother you so much? I would feel he same way but after awhile it wouldn't bother me as much. What I think is maybe you're not quite over him and you don't want her taking him away. Just be aware that if she likes him, you can't stop her and she might still hang out with him whether you talk to her or not. But she may want to go out with him while still respecting you. Just tell her what you told me! Sry this was so long and thanks for asking me, hope I helped and you can ask me any other ?'s you have! rate me plz.
~Angie
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