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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?
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I dont think its crazy. I think your falling in love for the perfectness in him. Since you dont know him in person you dont know his flaws. Honestly is someone going to TELL you online ohh yeah i cheated on 3 of my girlfriends. You see? Knowing them in person helps you to get some history from the people they know. I dont think this is such a great idea, not to be such a mom or a know-it-all but seriously people get abducted all the time over online "love". Plus you may never meet him so this could just break your heart. I mean who knows it can be some 70 year old dude. You really never know. Anyone can go in disguise online its SOO easy. Maybe chatting's fine but i wouldnt give phone numbers, locations, any info that really shouldnt be given out.
GL!
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I think it is possible your in love with the guy he pretends to be. Most online guys are juss saying a lot of the stuff and dont mean it but if you'd meet him in person and u realli do love him... then its not.... maybe u shuld meet him in person once befor you go all "i love u" on him..... he could juss be faking
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both lol .... just be careful. u neva kno who ur talkin to on the internet. he could b a stalker or w./e
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sumtimes its better to get to know sum1 online... cuz u are judging them on their personality & not on their looks... on the other hand it could be really bad cuz they person may not be showing u their tru self thru a comp... & even if they are u cant get to know sum1 that well thru a comp... chatting... & chillen in real life are different... just like chillen wit sum & living with them is different... u should try not to fall for people thru the internet... it usually isnt a good idea
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Just do what comes naturally, I think I do but I don't entirely know, it sort of just happens.
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No, there is really a very slim chance that you could actually be in love with someone you only met online. Love is something that needs to come from actually meeting and getting to know the person better....in person! The feeling you are having is most like infatuation or a crush, but probably not love. I don't mean to rain on your parade but from past stories being told to me like this, in the end...it never turns out to be love. Sorry, and I hope I was of some help. :)
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Oh, it IS poosible!! Trust me!! Teehee, Hope I helped! :)
-Em
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NO! You can't be in love with him! Didn't your parents teach you anything about "stranger danger?!?" Come on, be reasonable. Actions speak louder than words. You only have the words to judge. You've never met this person in real life, they are just saying all of the right things. Chances are, they aren't who they say they are. You need to be carefull.
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It is possible, lots of married people met online.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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Well i'm not real sure,it's never happened to me.Do you actually know this guy though, like from the past?Tell me what happens cuz i'm alwayz here for you!
.::Chelsea::.
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This isn't what I'd call crazy but Your probably not really in love with him. Right now your most likley just in that "head-over-heals" stage, for him. Though I guess it may be real love but i highly doubt it. Just keep on talking to him and see how you feel after talking to him. See if your feelings change for him... Hope I helped! Good Luck!
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well.. you really could be in love.. but hey you dont want to rush things.. u just have to know your limits, ya know? know that its possible to get hurt and its possible your wrong. the most logical thing i think you should do is get to know him.. you may find that you could be more in love than as of now....
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i think it is possible to find someone you love online...but however i would make a commitment like datin or marriage or nething like that till you actually have met him...or maybe ask him to do something for you thats with-in reason that he can do and see if he really does love you by doing that...
JesusFreak
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umm no i think you cant do that ... you dont even kno if hes tellin you the truth.. how can yuo trust him much less love him?!
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I don't think it's possible to love someone you've never met. When you love someone, you share experiences, like holding hands, going to the movies, laughing with each other, and stuff like that. Seeing someone type "lol" on the computer is not the same as hearing them laugh. That's just my opinion.
And just a heads up, but one of my friends thought that she loved a guy she met online, so she gave him her phone number, and now he calls her a lot and asks her to have phone sex with him.
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I think anything is possible, just get to know him a lot before you say you love him though. And make sure it's not some 90 year old man =P
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