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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: XoI wAnT cAnDyOx
Yahoo: Shuld_B_Blond
Member Since: October 5, 2004
Answers: 39
Last Update: November 7, 2004
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why are you afraid of dogs?

they have bigger teeth then me... bark loud.... kill people... and thas why.

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Ok I met this guy in study hall about a year ago, and now we're really good friends. Last week we were talking about relationships, and he asked me out. Two days later, my parents heard some stuff about him and they told me to break up with him. I did and now I totally regret it.....I'm so lost and confused without him, what should I do????

Please please help me!!

invite him over to ur house and have u and him and ur parents talk so they can understand that tha stuff wasnt tru... hopefully it wasnt... maybe they'll let u go back out with him and if not then i would n e ways but idk im sorry .
~*~*~*~*~*~*~~*~*~*~*Sami~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~~*~

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Will you marry me?

of corse!

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Ok I am 14 and I have a b/f (lets call him Bob lol ). And I have a really good friend (lets call her Sandy). This is the third time me and "Bob" have gone out. The first time he lied to me, and the second time he tried to cheat on me with Sandy. When he asked me out this time, he promised not to cheat or lie, but now I've been seeing some wierd stuff and people have been telling me that he is cheating on me with Sandy again. I'm so confused and I really like him, what should I fuking do!?!?!?!!?


~Tinkerbell~

I have no idea i would ask them about it and if they act weird then DUMP BOB!! lol nice name btw... lol well pe@©e
~Sami~

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Ok. I like this guy (his name is Felipe) and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure because he comes over every single Sunday (to go to church at night) and we hang out (a lot), do stupid things together (climbing trees then jumping down), and basically have a lot of fun. He jumps on my back to give him piggy back rides (even though he's 18 [turning 19 in November] and I'm 13). But then when we go to church, he completely ignores me (not during church but after the mass ends and everyone talks). What's up with that? Does he like me or not?! Please answer quickly! !~*CoNfUsEd GiRl*~!

ask him if he likes you! im sorry but idk his feelings!

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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok?

u handled it fine gurl stop worring

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My cousin is pregnant (she's married and she's 25 so you don't think she's like young and a whore). Everyone in our family is having a hard time to figure out names for the baby. I'm pretty sure it's going to be a boy, but to be on the safe side, can you give me really cute baby names? Besides Michael, Emily, Lisa, Jaquelene, Joy, Jonathan, Julie, and Jason? Because Joy and Lisa are her sisters, Jason is her brother, Jonathan, Julie, Michael, and Emily are her cousins (Emily is me) and Jaquelene is her daughters name so we don't want to have any kids with the same name in our family. She's not that great at naming. She was gonna name her daughter Fern. I'm sorry if you're name is Fern but honestly, a fern is a plant. A flower is MUCH prettier than Fern. Sorry if that was offencive to anyone on here named Fern!! Thanks so much if you can help me!

lol maybe trinity fer a gurl... i love that name... and fer a boi... allen... david... justin... joey.... sean.... dallas....jared...johnny....nick..... james... andy

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1st of all im 17/f...me and a bunch of friends are all going out to dinner and to the movies on halloween and were all gonna dress up and i dont kno what to be... i wanna be something good not like a witch or nething but i dont wannahave some big costume and i wanna still look cute but i dont kno what to be any ideas?

a maide.... or a playboybunnie... or a cheerleader.....

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hi im 13 and this may sound really dumb, but there is this girl i really like. she calls me alot. i like that. she is attractive, not by that much but still i like the whole thing, only one problem.......my friends hate her, she is a year older than i but she is new (so she doesnt really know anyone else) i get embarrased wen she calls around my friends and make up lies to them about how i feel. help.

dont be embaressed that u like her.... get her and ur friends and u to hang out with out them knowing... maybe they'll get to like her.. if not o well its not ur friends that liek her.... u do

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ok me and my boyfriend have talked about making-out but never have..we have been going out 2 months now and I think its long enough..I cannot make the first move..I think that would be the weirdest thing..like he has asked me to make out with him when we go to the movies and stuff but we dont..I'm friends with his ex-girlfriend and she said that he wont just do it that he gets his friends to ask you or something..like I really wanna make-out with him but I dunno how to get him to make the first move..please help!

xo0 KelleY 0ox

next time it comes up in topic be like"yeah well juss to let u kno... i dont make the first move lol"

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Ok, recently, I've been telling a lot of lies. I've always had a good imagination so it's easy for me to make up a story or excuse very quickly. I noticed at the end of August that if I was asked a question, I said the first thing that came to my mind without really thinking about it. I ended up saying some pretty stupid stuff that wasn't really true. However, I despise being put on the spot so I just let it go. In the past couple of weeks though, I have been making up all sorts of stuff without even thinking twice. I don't do it on purpose, but when someone asks me a question I automatically tell them what they WANT to hear, even if it's not the truth. I hate myself after I do it, but because it's already out there, I just let it be. I don't know if this is a mental issue or not, but it seems like it is, since I don't seem to have much control over what I say anymore. Last week, I was sick and out of school for three days. My teacher asked me if I was so sick I was throwing up, because thats what she thinks of as sick. Automatically I just said yes and then continued to tell her that I was so horribly sick that I barely got out of bed for the whole time I was gone. I didn't mean to say it. I'm close to this teacher and I usually tell her the truth no matter what the case. I've even lied to my mom and my friends. I am scared I am losing it. I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do?

wow i realli dont know what you can do... tlak to ur skool councilor or something



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OKay...well i have this frined and shes goin out with this boy ..and this boy seems to like me more becasue i trust him alot more and everythin and she dont ...but he wants to brake up with her and he is..but hes gonna ask me out..and then ma frined is gunna find out ..and me an her are like sistas it seems..so now i either have to say no or just to talk to him about it ..but idk i really like this boy too an i really wanna go out with him really bad..so plz help..ill rate you and write advice ..PLEASE HELp

-singed
Boys Probs

Dear boys probs~
Maybe you... ur friend.. and her b/f soon to be urs shuld sit down and talk about it... sort out the facts.... and let her kno.... its better you tell her then her having to find out from other people.... that hurts worse.
p.s~ good luck with him!

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ok theres this guy at school that i like but the thing is hes in another grade and i only c him in the hallways and after school when we hang out or stuff well anyways i realli like him but i dont know if he even notices me i mean he looks at me sometimes but idk and my friend kinda likes him 2 and it bugs me to c her go over and flirt and hug him isk and im all confused wat should i do???

I dont get what your asking? tell your friend tht you like him tho and see if she stops flirting with him... tell her its bothering u...

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HOW DO I MAKE SOME GODAME MONEY. GOOD MONEY!!!

come over and fuck me i pay good! lol im j/p... try working at McDonalds!! i love that place... or dairy queen!

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now i need to know... ok theres this "boy" at school and i have a big problem because he is arguing with me all the time and well the argument is about pepsi and coke. he thinks one is better when i think the other one is better and i dont know what to do. if you could help me i would really appreciate it. thanks. tootles.

ummm dont argue juss drink what u like better!! lol nick ur so silly. i love you!

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my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx

its called hey ya lol

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i've been having my period for 2 years already. it has always been normal, and i would get it every 4 weeks. but lately it hasnt been like that!...like i had my period 4 a lil over a week...and then i was off for a week...i would be on it like every other day for that week. and then its been 3 weeks since, and i havnt gotten it!...im scared!..PLEASE HELP!!

Its fine... that happened to me too lol it will come.... probably on the last day of the month..... also if ur not a virgin... maybe ur pregnent....... idk juss something to think about tho.....but dont worry

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I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanks

TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM! you told me in your side note,,,, tell him!!!!If that dont stop him he definatly has no feelings for you.... theres a lotta playas in this world lol but thats juss the way teen guys are..... well good luck with your boyfriend and if he duz shyt with her.... but if she makes the move... KICK HER ASS!!!

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Well therfe is this boy that goes to my school that ik really like but one of my close friends like him also....what should i do.....my friend that likes him really thinks that they might have something togetherf......and i dont think thatg i am all that attractive.....please help!!!

Find out who HE likes.... idk what else to say...

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ALright theres this guy i like and he is really cool. but the thing is i dont talk to him that much and i would like to but i would have no idea what to say to him. anyone got some good ideas??
also i screwed a friendship up but i would like to know if anyone has any ideas of a really REALLY good apology? Thanks bucnhes

Well for your guy problem.... invite him to do something with you... like idk... in medina we go sk8in.... its realli fun..... maybe u have like a get together place at ur place that u can invite him to and get to kno him. And about your friend problems... you screwed it up? well umm lets call him/her joe... say "Joe im very sorry about what i did... i seriously am and maybe you could think about forgiving me.... .im sorry ok?" well idk what else... just say sorry!

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