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boy trouble
ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok?
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u handled it fine gurl stop worring
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well i know how you feel . i think you handled it greatly, you told him the truth you arent ready yet , when you are just tell him maybe you'd like to qo on a date or somethinq (just a suggestion..lol)
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x ` O AriiElLa*
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yes..u did what any1 w/a good heart would do. U let him down gently. Some ppl would have been mean about it and like would yell at him saying ewww ur ugly, no i don't like u, but u handled it the nice way. If u like this guy more than a friend, but don't want 2 be in a relationship just yet, then tell him that! Good luck on this guy, and I hope I helped ya!
-bEcKy-
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I think you handled his questions perfectly. You seemed to be considerate of his feelings and I applaud you for it.
Although I really dislike the fact that you sort of led him on (not that I dislike you, just what you did). You shouldn't flirt back if you don't like him. The guy could get the wrong idea. It's like setting him up for failure.
So many girls do this, and I really don't understand why.
Didn't mean to be offensive, just trying to be honest.
-Farren
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BELEIVE ME YOU SO DID THE RIGHT THING. YOU NEVER DO KNOW IF YOU DID THE RIGHT THING RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WERE MEAN AND LIKE YOU FEEL HORRIBLE.BUT YOU DID WHAT YOU THOYUGHT WAS RIGHT SO DONT LET ANYBODY TELL YOU WHAT YOU DID WAS WRONG BECAUSE IT WASNT.DONT WORRY YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!HAVE FUN AND HAKUNA MATATA IF YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS
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You handeled itgreat you said what you felt and were nice about it but if things do change ask him if hes still open for prom.
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You handled it fine. If your not ready for a relationship the he should understand that. Or if you both wanted just go to homecoming together as friends.
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