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worriedteen
I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanks
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TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM! you told me in your side note,,,, tell him!!!!If that dont stop him he definatly has no feelings for you.... theres a lotta playas in this world lol but thats juss the way teen guys are..... well good luck with your boyfriend and if he duz shyt with her.... but if she makes the move... KICK HER ASS!!!
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Sweetie if you dont have trust then you shouldn't have the relationship. I say leave him and find someone you can trust.
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yeah i have had the SAME problem! he turned out to be a jerk grrrr! he cheated on me so i forgave him then he went back out with the other girl while we were DATING AGAIN! so i dumped him then he went around saying he dumped me and then he went around saying we never went out. so if i were you i would dump him and move on! hope i helped!
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i think that you should find out where this girl lives and then you should spy on him or set him up with one of your friends and if he does something then dump him
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You have every right to be worried!! I think that's great that you gave him another chance and he should seriously get with it and taken that for a warning. Talk to him and tell him that if you catch him doing things or even there that he's doing things with another girl, then your calling it quits. Good Luck!!
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If you love him and he loves you. He will totally understand how you feel. It's not fair for you to feel this way...Call him now and tell him your not comfortable with the idea of him going to study with a girl he's cheated on you with...It's going to take you time for you to trust him again...Please, talk to him about this as soon as possible! Ask him how he would feel if it was the other way around. I'm sure he'd be freakin out too.
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Um, if he cheated on you the first time, why the fuck didnt you just break up with him there and then? Did he give you a "A free fuck" card or something and said "I'm cashing this in" seriouslly if the fucker cheats on you dump him.
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OMG. I used to have the same problem. You should act over protective and a little jealous, after all, he did cheat on you with her! You should've told him not to go because you don't feel comfortable. I wouldn't! Why go through all that pain from thinking of what their really going to be doing. If you don't trust him, your relationship won't work. If he doesn't even try to understand how you feel about that, he's not worth it. I know it hurts. I know what your going through, but after what he did, he shouldn't be hanging out with that girl. But people learn from their mistakes and maybe he's being honest with you. Always, always go with your gut feeling on this.
***Of course you can talk to me about this. Anytime!!!!
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you guys need to talk. say " u cheeted on me 1ce so how do i know u arent going to do it again! make a decision me or her. even if she did need help on sum hw, talk it over or help her over the phone!" and its true, he could just talk it over on the phone. i hope i helped and pleez pleez pleez rate me!
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You need to confront him and let him know you're uncomfortable with the situation. He sounds like a jerk, to tell you the truth, and he might brush you of. If he does this, I'd recommend breaking up with him. You deserve a better guy than that. Bonne chance!
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I wouldn't trust him. I'da dumped him after he cheated and never gotten back together with him.
~Laura~
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ok well i would say u have to trust him but then again guys r soO hard tO trust..but just b srtr8 up with him or even have a friend ask him or sumpthing jus try and trust him and if he does do sumpthing he isnt tha 1 for yah thur r alottah fish in tha sea!..i odnt kno if i was ne help but i tried!..
-xO Jessie
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