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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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i don't think it's wrong for u to cry about that. why wuldn't u? u miss the things u used to do. who wouldn't? it's not selfish. xo kelly
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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please (link)
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i know exactly how u feel except i'm 15 and my mom doesnt have cancer. i threatened to kill myself so many times because it was too much. my friends were all happy and i was the odd one out, i still am. i think u just need to stop letting things get to u just ignore them unless u absolutely need to deal with them. have a "fuck it whatever happens happens" typa attitude. instead of watching ur friends be with them n ask them for help before u lose them. as for suicide, it's not the answer, even if ur just thinking about it vaguely don't put it on blast online. some overly concerned person will call the cops and have u put in the hospital. trust me it's happened n it's not cool. good luck tho. xo kelly
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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
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hey, i cut too. it's the worst thing u can do. i hate when people tell me to use the rubberband trick or putting ice where u wanna cut until its numb because for me it doesnt work. u culd try therapy or counselors at school but that doesnt always work. it didn't for me. if u have any real close friends or family members u can talk to or cry to or relate to that's been the best thing for me. it doesnt always help but u start to feel the weight lifted off ur shoulders from all the built up pain. i can't really tell u what definately helps tho because i still do it. sry =/ xo kelly
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(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys?? (link)
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theres nothing wrong wit u, u just relate better to guys. thats normal for some people considering a lot of girls are stuckup bitches about everything. sometimes guys are more laid back and easier to get along with for some girls. xo kelly
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Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting (link)
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ur definately not overreacting. they had no right to juz let 2 girls sleep in ur bed witout askn or tellin u. if i was u i wulda just pulled the girlz out my bed n slapped them or somethin n kicked them out. just try talking to ur mom n her boyfriends son about it n how much u don't appreciate their lack of respect towards ur thingz n space. sry if i aint help.. xo kelly
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okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!! (link)
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in my opinion i wuld tell her one last time how u feel about everything and then let her do her. if she doesnt listen she's obviously not going to anymore. she'll learn the hard way after she gets taken advantaged of by that guy. maybe then she'll realize u were right and go back to her sweet lil self but until then id stay away from her. especially if she's not even friends wit u enough to stand up for u to her friendz that don't like u. they're little girls they probably just think they're being cool but they'll see. she prolly assumes ur jealous because of that too. they think theyre cool but it's just illegal and stupid. she's fuckin her life up don't let her fuck up ur's too. xo kelly
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Am I bi-sexual, or bi-curious if i fantasize about doing more then making out with some of my girl friends? (link)
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ur probably bi-curious to see what it's like to test how u really feel if u like guys or not. i guess a lot of people do that? idk. i doubt ur bi-sexual especially if u've never experienced a girl before. xo kelly
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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....
what do I do..
and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me? (link)
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hey i think u shuld definately meet him. cuz really, what's the harm? if he was a bad guy ur cousin wuld've told u. if ur scared about it just ask ur cuzin to casually invite u over or whatever when he know's rob's coming over already so it won't be as awkward because ur cousin is there. and i dont think it's bad u sent him a pic. wuldn't ur cousin have pic's of u around his house somewhere anyway? he was bound to see u somehow if he was determined, u just helped him out a little. sry if i didn't help.
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