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i know this is in the wrong subject but im desperate!
Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting <keep in mind im a total neat freak, just the thought of there nasty bodys on my clean sheets irk me! and if anything in my room is moved i will notice and go off!>
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ur definately not overreacting. they had no right to juz let 2 girls sleep in ur bed witout askn or tellin u. if i was u i wulda just pulled the girlz out my bed n slapped them or somethin n kicked them out. just try talking to ur mom n her boyfriends son about it n how much u don't appreciate their lack of respect towards ur thingz n space. sry if i aint help.. xo kelly
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no you're definitly not overreacting!! Your room is a place where all of your possessions and things are kept! you could have some valuables in there that could be very private and sacred to you! It's definitly not ok that he let them in there! and to make things worse, what kind of father would let his 13 year old son bring in 2 random girls from the club and have them stay the night with him?!?! that's pretty shitty! if i were you i would just talk to him and be like "you know i dont appreciate you letting random people stay the night in MY room!!!" and if he tells you it was bc you were in the basement, then you can tell him that he shoulda waken you up. also, if it's HIS house that you n ur mum are living in then you really have no say in it because you're in his house and that would make it technically HIS room. so you can just talk to your mum about that and ask her to talk to him about it and tell him not to do that nemore. but if it's at your MOM's house that you're living in then i suggest you say what i told you to say to him before.
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You have every right to tell people whether or not to sleep in your room! Tell him that you don't want girls you don't know sleeping in your room and that there shouldn't be girls sleeping over a boys house at the age of 13 anyways! Say if I'm not allowed to do anything of that sort, not that I'd want to, but if I'm not allowed they shouldn't be either! Be OUTRAGED about it. Tell your mother! Tell them all that it's morally irresponsible! And, that if the girls are over age, anything that they do is called STATUTORY RAPE. And your Mom's boyfriend can get in serious trouble and be charged with allowing them to do all that.
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ur NOT over reacting AT ALL. i would be so freakin' PISSED if that happened to me. ur 16 u deserve ur privacy!!! try to lock ur door at night or somethin' cuz that's ridiculous!!!
hope that changes.
~Reenie~
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You have a right to be mad gurl!thats your room and your have every mind to be mad if i was you i would tell them to stop and explain urself or show those two chicks you mean buissness hun!
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I would talk to your mother about how her boyfriend and his son are completely disrepecting you and your home. There is absolutely no reason strange girls should be sleeping in your home, much less your bedroom. I am sure it is hard enough already to share your home with the boyfriend and son. Your mother should be the one to deal with this. She needs to set some boundries for the new men living in your home, otherwise they will contiune to do as they please. I hope your mother agrees with you.
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step by step solution
1. go into his room
2. find his wallet/money stash
3. extract a fair amount for renting your room for a night
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Your are NOT overreacting i would be piss as h-heck. (not sure if were alloud to curse on here) That was wrong of him to do sleep in your room for now on and put a lock on your door that only you have. hope i helped! If you have any other questions feel free to ask or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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ouch... that sucks. one way to make sure that they never do it again is to
1)sleep there yourself
2)get a lock
you can yell at people all you want, but it can't change that they've already slept there. but you can make sure it doesn't happen again. tell your mum about it, but make sure you hit the source... your mum's boyfriend and his son. his son is probably more important. when you tell him he may just brush it off... but at least he heard you. and make SURE make SURE make SURE you tell dale or whatever his name is.
~accolade~
:)rate me please!
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Ugh!! What assholes.I would talk to your mom about all of this. They have NO right to be in your room what-so-ever. Good luck--hope no other nasty girls go in your room. ;)
-xXoBrianna
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You are definitely not over-reacting. Your room is your own personal space. They have no right being in there. You should go in there and tell them to get the hell out of your room! Tell your mom about it. Get a lock for your door, so this never happens again.
(Don't forget to wash your sheets.)
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You really do not have to be a neat freak to not want two nasty girls that you don't know sleeping in your bed. I would be extremely pissed. Talk to your mother about him, and telling her that you need some space.
And go and buy a lock for your room.
It's just wrong that your mom's boyfriend and his son make you feel the need to keep your door locked to the room in your own house. You really need to sit down and have a talk with your mom about this situation.
Your not overreacting at all.
oh, and that wasn't the wrong subject.
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