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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please
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Okay first off, the answer isnt killing yourself... my mom is a cancer survivor its been 5 years, and i bet that they got much smarter with that stuff in 5 years so theres a lot of hope! I am really sorry about that :( . now i cant help with other problems u have because i dont know what they are but just dont kill yourself use a stress ball, if its school work go to extra help, if its friend situation talk to them!! you have a long life ahead and it could be a beautiful life, dont ever think suicide. Oh and NEVER compare youself with anybody most people have situations where they cry at night and have a bad time at home or somthing and you would never ever guess it. :) <3 becki
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im soo sorry about your mom..tell her how much you love her and allways spend time with her..dont threaten your life its such a Loss to others!
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im sure ur sick of hearing this but i go thru that too...ive been trying to change but it hasnt really worked...talking to people help...but so does doing excersizes or going for a jog or something....if u ever wanna talk with me...feel free...all my info is on my page..
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i know exactly how u feel except i'm 15 and my mom doesnt have cancer. i threatened to kill myself so many times because it was too much. my friends were all happy and i was the odd one out, i still am. i think u just need to stop letting things get to u just ignore them unless u absolutely need to deal with them. have a "fuck it whatever happens happens" typa attitude. instead of watching ur friends be with them n ask them for help before u lose them. as for suicide, it's not the answer, even if ur just thinking about it vaguely don't put it on blast online. some overly concerned person will call the cops and have u put in the hospital. trust me it's happened n it's not cool. good luck tho. xo kelly
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Look i was going through the same thing (feeling like everything depended on me and i was so depressed) i cried at least 3 to 4 times a day.. I know everything seems terrible but i promise things will get better,but you will have to want to make them better you cant just be ok with the fact that your depressed you have to want to overcome this depression (its a very terrible illness). I know it sux right now but killing yourself isnt going to help anything with your mom or any other problems it will make them worse can you imagin how your mom would feel if her 13 yr. old dies before she does.. Dont do that to her think about what you have to live for H.S. graduation and having kids if you want them! Try to overcome this time in your life by talking to friends... KeNnIe
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its ok just dont kill yourself ppl need u.think about the friends u have how hurt will they be and your mom she needs u especialy now and its just a phase when u get past it u will be sooooo happy u didnt kill yourself. u r only 13 u deserve to have many more years in your life.its ok to cry when things are bad but sometimes u have to look at the good things u have in your life and dont say u dont have any because u kno u do u have friends and life and i dont kno u but im sure u have some kind of talent.talk to your friend about it and maybe they can help u.and all these ppl that responded to your questoin wanna help u so just hold on k.EVERYTHING WILL BE OK.
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please please please .. IM me.. i really wana help you out.. (( PreShuzMisTake x )) *aSh!
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no thats the wrong thing to do take ddep breaths and tell some one u dont kno WELL but make sure u atleast kno them....its easier that way
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Ok first of all when life gets you down you cant turn to killing yourself. Think of how many people you'll hurt and think of the great future you could have. You could try to see a counsiler (there really not so bad and they keep everything confidential) or you could find a adult or just a friend who you really feel confortable with to just talk to about things. Not just about killing yourself but about the reasons you want to. That might get some of the stress off you chest for a while. Then try to get your mind off of everything bad. Go see a movie with friends go bowling...Nething! just please dont kill yourself. It really isnt what you want to do. Hope I Helped
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you need to get help. tell ne one you can that your are suicidal just get help. soon!
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Personally, I think you should reconsider the whole suicide thing. I was 13 not too long ago and I thought about suicide, and so did some of my friends, (i didnt find this out til recently), i think its just part of being 13. It must just be an extrememly emotional age. You don't want to kill yourself, your young, and in a year or two you'll be out having the best time of your life, but for now just try to smile, remember your friends are there for you, and don't let anything get you too down.
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Babydoll...I know when you have feelings like you do nothing anyone tells you seems to matter. You at least reconize you have a problem and are now seeking help by telling us what you feel. This is really good. You are depressed. do you have anyone close to you you can talk about your feeling to? I am telling you right now the best thing for you is to go talk to someone you love and trust. your so young hunny. Things prob dont look like they will get any better. Belive me they will. the age your at now and untile you 17 or 18 are going to be tough. belive me I went through it. I am 22 now and things are just falling into place. I am very happy. If you stick it out darling things will fall into place for you too. You may want to think about seeing you MD and telling him about you depression. they maybe able to put you on something to lift your spirts a bit. Please call me or e-mail me if you need to talk at all. if you e-mail me I will give you my cell number you can reach me on it anytime your having a hrd time. Hope I could help...xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxox Christin
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*Your are in a stage of depression, ask your doctor to subscribe you pills for it. But please don't go killing yourself, because you are blessed with living and there's so much more to look foward to in the future.*
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I understand exactly how you feel. Im 17 and ive been a cutter since i was a sophomore in highschool. Everyone says you need to tell someone whats going on. and believe me it does help. But another thing that helps is writing. I have so many journals and notebooks that i write in when i get depressed write out everything you feel. Hide them lock them away. Another way to express your depression is art.Art is a very goood way to express how you feel. Honestly Death is not the answer. Believe me for a while ithought it was but its not. We should talk more. Talk to me on aim on mandah2433 or email me at mandybabie2433@yahoo.com
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Okay, Killing yourself is not the answer. Being 13 is hard and then having all theese things happen in your life is harder. But you shuldnt kill yourself cause that would bring more pain to other people. You need to tell your doctor or an adult that you know and can trust. Its probally going to be hard but you need to. Your depressed you need an Doctor's help to get over it.
You might think that a doctor cant help you or they will never help you. But your wrong! They help thousands of people each year to over come their depression and They can help you!
Hoped i helped! If you wanna talk send me something in my inbox.
--Julie
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i really wanna help you. Maybe we could talk sometime. I cant really make u change ur mind about life. But try to find a certain goal in life-lyk for example I live for the animals-i want to save the animals out in this world and open an animal resuce center. But i cant do that if im not alive. just think of how happy you'll be once you have accomplished something in your life lyk my example. And please don't cut or take pills-no one wants you gone. Im so trying to help. If you wanna talk more-leave a note in my inbox and i will try to help you. hope ever thing gets better. hope i helped a little
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That is too much too handle on your body. It is better to let some things you don't really care about go, so you can clear out space in your mind. Trying to kill yourself will not help. Suicide will send you to hell. It is better just to go to god. Confide in him and he will help you. Believe me,I know! Try your hardest to talk to your family and tell someone you love about what is going on. Your bestfriend can help you through the crisis and give you much-needed support! I hope you can find a way through my advice! Good Luck and God Bless You!
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okay i can understand why u feel this way im only 14 and i feel that way all the time unwanted alone and like noone wants to be best friends with me... ive thought about suicide but then when i thought about it more and more it seems like a selfish thing to do. think of how your friends would feel and yes if u were thinking i have no friends, if u go to school you have friends if u died the whole town will be affected ive lost a friend in highschool that i barely knew and eveveryone knows who he is now. now if you are hurting your slef you should really think about seeing a councilor or something, maybe they can find out just what is making you feel this way. maybe you lost a boyfriend you really cared about or friend but time heals and killing yourself isnt the way to go. it doesnt just hurt you it hurts everyone around you and i say this with all seriousness. think twice about it and look at your future, youll make the right decision.
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okay i wanna help u...but i dont understand...wit what u said...r u sayin ur mom has cancer or what..im confused im sry...talk to me on aim Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX or email me goddess_jessiepoo_69@yahoo.com i would like to help u more..
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