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my name is cindy and i go to highland
E-mail: coolkid
Gender: Female
Location: AZ
Occupation: Actress
Age: 15
AIM: girlygirl101
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I was wondering what you could do or use to hide your tampons in school, like how to discreetly take them from class to class just in case. Because I live in fear of what will happen if I don't... :S

Any ideas? (link)
so when i wear a jakcet and i need to take one out of my backpack i pull my sleve down and use my hand to slip it in my sleeve and noone notices!!


When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?! (link)
this may not help AT ALL.
so sorry if not.
but heres a site
http://www.capegateway.gov.za/eng/directories/services/11457/9669
:]


my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and at school there's these 2 kids that pick on me and talk bad about my mom constantly and iam about to get fed up with it.Today the boy Justin is the worst he took my purse and ran around the classroom with it and he took my soda and shook it up and he told me that my outfit I was wearing looked like a nurses uniform.The girl told me that I was mean becouse I told on them.I feel like fighting both of them what should I do? (link)
this may not help AT ALL.
but here are some sites:]

http://www.nobully.org.nz/advicek.htm

http://www.bullying.org/splash_page/bullying.cfm?sRes=768

http://www.stopbullyingnow.com/


Does anyone know the degrees of murder like the law terms? (link)
Yes, there are varying degrees of murder, and different states define these degrees differently.

First Degree Murder is the most serious. Most often, first degree murder is categorized as "deliberate" - that is, the defendant made a clear headed decision to kill the victim - and "premeditated" - the defendant actually thought about the killing before it occurred (the period for this can be very brief).

Some states consider killings committed in specific ways to be first degree murder. Although these vary by state, they can include killing by poison, by lying in wait, and by torture.

First Degree Felony Murder - A killing that happens during the course of the commission of a felony, even if the death is accidental, will be considered "felony murder" by most states. However, if the killing happens during certain felonies, again determined by state, it will be considered "first degree felony murder". The felonies most often included in this category are arson, robbery, burglary, rape, mayhem and kidnapping

sorry thats al i no.


kay well heres the problem

i feel like im living a lie! Im not tyring to brag or anything but my social life at school is good! i have the greatest friend and i laugh all the time and stuff.. im pretty well knownd specially for being happy and laughing all the time!!

but the lie is that im not.. I HATE myself! i go home a cry myself to sleep almost everynight! its because of what my brother did to me! i have flashbacks and he still bothers me and when he touches me and when i think about it i break down and cry!

i mean i used to cut myself! I DONT ANYMORE! and the thing is like it gets soo bad at home that i wanna comit suiced BUT I DONT WANT TO DIE! i just want the pain of what im going threw at home to stop!

it makes my stomach feel all weird and makes me sick to my stomach and its feels hard to breath!

am i depressed?? should i see like a therpist??

because like suiced I DONT BELIEVE IN but its on my mind alll the time!

and there is no way at school people could no about this! it would be like the BIGGEST SHOCKER are school well the people who know me has seen

what do i doo!!

please i need some advice!! (link)
okay.
i am ALWAYS know to be happy and chipper.
but i know how ya feel.
i dont have any of those problems.
but if i am ever sad.
everyone thinks its odd.
i dont no what to say.
and sorry this isnt advice.
but GOOD LUCK:]


I went to the doctors in like february and the doctor said I was going to get my period really soon and to be ready.

I still haven't gotten it.

Why is this? I mean i know they can't really tell when you're exactly going to get it or anything. But i think she just said that because i had hair down there. But i've had it for a while. and I've had discharge for about a year or 2 now. I just don't know when i'm going to get it. does anyone know why i havent gotten it yet and is that like weird? 14/f (link)
i have the same problem
NO ITS NOT WEIRD:]
sorry this isnt really advice


so i have had discharge for 2 years. i wanna no when i will start. please tell me i am not lucky. i want to start. someone please tell me ALL about the period (link)
try


Where can I learn the Electric Slide, Cotton Eye Joe dance or the Robot? Or can anyone give me instructions on any of them? (link)
robot- pretty much you stiffen up.
KEEP YOUR BACK STRAIGHT. and slightly bend your upper half over. then put your arms in 90 degree angles and rock them


I do everything I am suppose to to lose weight. I eat healthy and in smaller amounts, I excerscise often and I monitor my weight on my scale. I am 14yrs old, 5ft 4in and 143 lbs.! That is so huge!!! Why doesn't anything work? Some people might just say it could be some muscle but I am so flabby and huge I look more like I weigh 200 lbs. Please help me! (link)
studies show that if you dance you loose 300 calories in 30 minutes:]
try that.
go out with your friends and boogie on.
sorry if this was totaly useless


i am 14 years old, i weight 115LBS and i am 5,'1 1/2"..... am i over weight or just over concerned.. i also have a big stomch like i am pragnet but i am not. how would i get that down to a little more toner?

Thanks.. i will rate (link)
so i just went on a website for you.
its through seventeen magazine and it tells you if you are overweight.
and it said no.
:]


no matter how much sleep i get, i always seem to have bags under my eyes. i heard it once somewhere that allergies can affect this and i have allergies. does that really have anything to do with it? if you have any solution on how i can make them go away of any info about this please help me. thanks (link)
well;; my doctor told me to eat fruit.
he said it will help
and he also said the 2 hours before you go to bed not to look at a computer screen or TV


My sister is a tiny girl. She's 13 years old, 5"1 and 89 lbs. I'm concerned that she's unhealthy. Is this a healthy weight for her? (link)
i am 13 also and i am 5'4 and am 90 pounds.
its not unhealthy
i asked my doctor


i have been getting discharge for about 6 months, and i asked waht it was when i first started getting it. i was told that it means that i am going to get my period soon. but it has been a half a year and i still dont have my period. why is this and when will i get it? and please don't say, "oh you are so lucky not to have your period don't worry about it it will come when it comes it isnt something you want." because that is not my question. my question is why i haven't gotten it even though i have been getting discharge for a long time, and when will i get my period. (link)
dont worry
i am still having mine too.
you get it for 2 years


I just recently got a haircut so before anything dont tell me to go get one please.

I just have a lot a lot of hair and major split ends.

I already have repairing conditioner.

Is there anything else i could to to help them?

thanks =) (link)
mee too.
after i get a hair cut it doesnt get better
so.
what i do is brush my hair in the shower.
it works way good.
brush out the conditioner


ok let me start off by saying my name is meghan and i am 14 and i am an 8th grader and i feel so embarrassed when my friends talk about their periods well the problem is that i have not started mine yet and i don't know what is wrong with me but i play soccer all year and i have no clue if that has something to do with the issue.well i am 5'0 and 125lbs. and i have "boobs" and i have hair down there and i know that this sounds weird but i will do anything just to get my period.i promised myself when i was younger i would never kiss a boy until i got my period and now i don't think i can wait that long!PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
meghan2492 (link)
WOW.
mee too.
i am 5'4 and weighh 90 pounds.
and you sure are tiny too.
my mom said it has to do with all the activity.
and you need a certain amound of pody fat.
i am the same way.
i REALLY want mine.
i no how it feels.


Could someone tell me the best thing to use to whiten my teeth. Brushing with whitening toothpaste doesnt satisfy me and i want some thing quick and easy. I have already tried Crest Night Effects Whitening Gel and its really messy and hard to apply. Is there anything easier to apply that i could get at walmart? I have thought about the whitening strips but i am unsure. Thanks in Advance! (link)
OOOHH!!
i did the same thing.

tooth paste;; and the notmal night affects.

night affects TOTALLYY annoyed me.

so i used crest white strips there awesome!
and also try trident white gum!


Hey Im almost 14 and I still havent gotten my period yet. Is this normal? (link)
me either.
dont worry about it.
its fine


My guy friend puts his hand on everyone's shoulder (guys and girls) when he's talking to them or whatever, standing or walking through the hallways. What's up with that? (link)
my friend from school so does that.
he says its just a way to ''bond''


i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy (link)
call the POLICE!


Okay, I know I shouldn't have but I did!! Everyone told me not to do it but I did it anyway. I popped about 4 pimples because they were huge and just staring at them made me feel grossed out. When I popped them it swelled up and had puss coming out of them. Is there anything you can use to make the swelling stop and to shrink or not to show real badly. Please don't tell me to use coverup, makeup and all those acne scrubs. Tell me an ingrediant something you can put on the pimple that you can make out of everday items. thanxz, please hurry!! (link)
use Clean and Clear um......what is it called its like in a clear container and it is small...it helps a TON with pimples it also makes them go away FAST!!




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