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I was rapped..what do i do?


Question Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 5:48 pm

When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?!

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Additional info, added Thursday March 23 2006, 7:41 pm:
(im 13 now).

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dumblondedancer1 answered Sunday April 16 2006, 8:11 pm:
this may not help AT ALL.
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JoeyGirl123 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 12:33 pm:
Dont feel like no one will beleive you, because they will. Tell your parents or a gaurdian, or adult you trust because they will take it into the law and give the man that did this to you what he deserves. This has to be taken into someones hands who can help. Tell someone immediatly. They will beleive you.

xoxox

ps
if all of the people on this site beleived you, im sure someone else will

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KrisLuhYouAlwayz answered Saturday March 25 2006, 10:17 am:
well really i think you should tell someone because if you dont then something bad might happen to you.If they look on the phone bill they'll se his number anyways

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am-bur answered Friday March 24 2006, 6:42 pm:
hey!
okay i had the same feeling! still sorta do!

when i was younger my brother did the same thing to me! he hasnt actually raped me! but he'ss pretty much taken it too every level!

at first i never thought of anything i was ten.. i didnt no what he did to me was so wrong!!

im 14 now! and i relized what he did to me was SOOOO wrong! and that i cant stand him!

i finally got the guts to tell someone! i was afraid they wouoldnt believe me either! or think well its ur fault because you let it happen for Four years with out saying anything!!!

well dont feel that way!!.. to me i think you should either find a teacher at school that you can seem to trust alot! or someone out side of school! anyone that you know is easy to talk to!!
... if i where you i wouldnt go up to a conslor at school about it first... its probably gonna be really hard to talk about it at first! i know it was for me! and i dont no ur conslors.. but i know that they'll ush into it and im sure you wanna ake this slowly!! ....
im hope this is some kinda of help to you! and if you ever wanna just talk about it or how you feel you can email me or w.e! because this happened to me! and sometimes i just wanna tell someone for them to listen and stuff!!

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summerGIRL_xo answered Friday March 24 2006, 4:58 pm:
you definetley need to tell someone. even if your scared or worried or don't know how to tell them, it is the best way. i gurantee you, if you are serious, they will believe you because rape is a serious matter. this guy needs to be taken away from you & convicted. so tell a trust adult - your parents, gurdian, someone close to you, before it happens again. good luck!<3

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looneytune1561 answered Thursday March 23 2006, 7:52 pm:
well first of all why the hell does he keep calling you?? does he think you wanted it?? go to your guidance cousolor and tell them that it happened too long ago for him to get in trouble and ask him/her to keep it private..you probably just need someone to talk to to express your feelings about what happened..tell someone that you dont need this person to get in trouble ( only if you dont want him too ) you just need someone to talk to.hope i helped and im sorry for what happened

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Teza answered Thursday March 23 2006, 7:38 pm:
Rape is a very serious thing and no one should ever make a joke about it. You need to talk to someone who you can trust very well and who will belive you. You need to do something about this because this may not be the last time he does it. He might be doing it to other girls as well so you need to tell someone.

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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday March 23 2006, 7:31 pm:
Rape is not a joke. It's not a topic ANYBODY should fool around about.

Your life might be in danger because of this guy, please tell someone for your life!

Call the police on him, stay close with your parents so that you can feel safe, get this creep in jail.

-TheTeenGirl

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday March 23 2006, 6:43 pm:
If people don`t believe you then take care of it yourself..You go to the police station yourself to get this guy caught this is a horrible thing to happen to any female..Most of the time when girls mention this its TRUE..Alot of girls wouldn`t lie about such a thing..

I recommend maybe telling mom first because that can be more comfortable for you depending on how close you are to them..

I don`t know how long ago this was but it sounds like it might of been a while ago so he might not even get in any trouble since you really have no proof..

&hearts;Dez

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SweetxxIntoxication answered Thursday March 23 2006, 6:29 pm:
Being raped is no joke. People should believe you, before you tell friends, tell someone like your parents, or your school counselor, and answer whatever they ask, they can get you help and keep this guy away from you, and prevent this from happening to others.

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