my name is amber
i used to get on here alot
bt the thing is changed and differant now, so yeah
but i'll answer any question and give you my best way of ahdling it or like yeah you know?
ha well, i've gone through alot, like more than most kids my age have, so i pretty much think i can relate to alot of stuff
so, like yeah, if you ever want to just talk, i'm here and listening
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Can someone help me find step by step pictures and instructions for making a fishtail braid on the net?
I've tried to find it by myself but the instructions i got sucks.
thanks in advance!! (link)
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you can try
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip462.htm
this one might be better
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/articles/0,,625851_694251,00.html
well i hope i help
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My hair is brown with blonde streaks, but i want to change it for summer, please tell me how you dye your hair with kool aid and tell me how much it works i mean how well it works , like if it gives off a realyl good color, or is really weak ...and can you dye your hair with hawaiian punch? (link)
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i would totally not use kool-aid
i used to do that when i was younger, and it siffens your hair, and it normally doesn't come out, exspecialy if you do it the right way
my advice would be to go to a local drug srore, or wal*mart or Target or something
and buy hair color there
kool-aid isn't good
trust me
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Hey, I really want to get my ears double pierced but I'm really scared it'll hurt and I'll cry lol. I was about 7ish when I got them pierced for the first time and I cired. And my friend says it doesn't hurt, pintching your ear hurts more then piercing it. So basically does it hurt??
WILL RATE? (link)
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well i guess it depends on how well you take to pain,
personally i doubt you will cry,
i mean it hurts, but NOT that bad, just pinch your ear hard, for a split second, and thats kind of what it feels like
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okay well im 13/f and I KNOW i have a problem...#1 i have REALLY bad anger issues...for example once i punched a wall and fractured (spelling?) my fist all because i couldnt see my cousins for a week or so longer. i've also threw things around just because i was told something i believed in strongly about was wrong. i take temper tantrums and yes its immature but the thing is i dont really realize what im doing..when i have my little fits its like all this energy and i dont know its just weird, it freaks me out a little. OK now heres the thing as soon as im done takin my fits or throwin somethin punchin a wall i will b perfectly fine 5/10 mins later i will act like nothing ever happened sure i'll have a headache but i wont be pissy or anything. Im also like that throughout the day...i'll be really pissed off for god knows what 5mins later im the happiest person in the world...5mins after that im mad again or im sad and depressed or something and hey maybe theres nothing wrong with me but maybe there is and its starting to get annoying when im all happy and then im depressed....
- thanks and sorry if you think im crazy -
~ Rosemarie (link)
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well my brother is like that,
he got diagnosed EBD
which is emotional behavior disorder.
well my parent are stupid and didn't get him the help he proabably needed, now my brother is a complete idiot,
i'm not saying thats what you have, but maybe get your self tested or something,
talk to one of your parents about it, and just see if they can like schdule you and apptment, and if they say nothings wrong, just keep telling them, thats it's bothering you and you want to get it checked out.
well i hope i helped
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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live. (link)
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you have alot of reason to live,
i promise you, maybe things right now arn't good, but try your hardest, think abut your future,
maybe you cant and i'll you see is darkness but thats okay, your human, your probably going through alot right now
BUT i know for a fact it'll get better, maybe not today or tomrrow, or newxt week, BUT i promise you in years to come, your goning to be so glade that you didn't.
i've gone through so much stuff, that i've wanted to comit sucide, i talked to my coach who i was really close with, and he tought me that " today might be bad but tomrrow is a better day"
and he made me look in other people point of veiws,
let say you do kill yourslef, think of all hte people your goning to hurt, YOUR FAMILY YOUR FRIENDS.
i know i don't know you, but i can tell you give it time, fight through it, but don't kill your self because i KNOW it will get better!
and i yes heaven is a better place, but sucide is NOT the answer to get there, the lord decided when you die, and now i don't think it's time,
i don't know what you belive in, but the Lord loves you, and please just don't kill yourself
well i hope i helped, if you ever just want to talk or something, drop somehting in my inbox
i'll listen
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ok i know this isnt a question but i am the one that posted the one about the 3rd grade and u r totally right it is summer and i should not stress well any wayz we broke up and i am totally happy and i think i have already found some one else
much love and you give great advice
keep it up (link)
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thanks i'm happy for you =]
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i'm thinking of making a "sister cd" for, well, my sister.
i can think of barely any songs that would fit, any ideas? (link)
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well i do know this one song
it's called "My Sister"
by Reba McEntire
it's country, but i think it's a good song!
hope i helped some!
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ok see i know 3rd grade is way to young but any wayz i had this boyfriend in third grade we went out 4 ever ( u kno what i mean ) and we " BROKE UP" but then we went back out. but the day we went back out he moved on that day. Now I am going to 7th grade but it is the summer after 6th grade. ok any wayz he came back to my school in 6th grade ( last year ) and this summer he asked me back out. so now we go out. but i dont understand why he likes me this summer when he didnt over the school year. now i really like him but i think he likes my best friend and yes he has went out with her before but i went out with him first and she knows it. but we are not mad at each other or anything. but she goes out with my ex boyfriend any wayz. so back to my question. how do i kno if he really likes me i think he does but i am not sure? (link)
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well, hum?
when he asked you out, did you try and convince him to ask you out? or did he just ask you out?
if you convinced him, *WELL SINCE I DON"T KNOW*
then i'd be a little curious to wonder if he does like you,
if he asked you out without you convincing him to ask you out, then it's a differant story,
maybe the reason he didn't want to go out with you during the school year is because he was moving. and you know the story about how long distance relationships are hard.
and why don't you ask your best friend about him, see what she says, and if she does like him,
and if you have enough curage than talk to him about it.
but i'm not trying to sound like a PARENT or whatever, but try not to stress out on it to much
you going to 7th grade, i promise you if it doesn't work out with you and him, you'll find someone WAYYY better,
pluse it's summer, if it's gonna stress you out during the break, maybe it's not worth it.
well i hope i helped,
keep my updated, i'd like to know
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i'm fifteen yrs old. i'll be sixteen in 3 months. which isn't very far away. in november i met a guy and i really liked him. we talked for a whole day and then he asked me out. I said yes and i fell wayy hard. we had a relationship like no other. we deffently fell in love. he was 17. his birthday is in like two weeks. when we broke up i made an agreement with myself to get him back because i really did love him.. we were apart for a month and he dated people and so did i but we always found ourselves making out and holding hands every chance we got and talking on the phone everynight and still saying i love you. then he went out with my best friend and this completely killed me. one week later they broke up because she cheated on him and then he asked me back out. i didn't even hisitate to say yes. i had the love of my life back. this time we've been together for 4 months. it's been nothing short of amazing. we've seriously been through everything and we have an undying love for each other. last week my mom told me that she didn't want us dating any more being she thinks he's too old and she thinks he s a loser because he droped outa school. ive tried talking to her about this before and it worked. but she said this time her mind is final. this guy is really my everything but his friends don't like me. they think i cheat on him and stuff and are constinaly telling him he can do better. well we've been trying so hard to stay together and now he's ready to just give up. i think he got this idea from his friends but even tough we broke up last night.. nothing's changed.. i think he's coming over tomorrow to talk to me about it and i even wrote him a long email... if i dont get him back i swear i'll die. any advice for me...
i'm not goin gto move on so don't bother telling me that...
any questions about anything just ask. (link)
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aw, well i really wishi could give you the best answer, but i kinda understansd. i lost someone who i thought i couldn't live with out.
i told myself i wouldn't move on and i'd wait.
i'm not telling you to move on, becuz i know how hard that is,
since your mom doesn't really agree, i'm not sure how i can tell you what to say to convince her, just because i've not had a mom to do that with
but if yawl are stll togather bring him over for dinner or to wathc a movie with you mom, maybe she like him more
but if he really loves you and you love him, his friends won't get in the way
if youk now you haven't cheated oh him, try not to worry becuz as much as they try to convince him you did, you know the truth, so that should make you feel better
well i wish i oculd help you more, but i hope i did in some way..
keep me updated =]
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i became being belimic a little bit ago because im starting to dislike my eating habits. dont worry im probably going to eat reguarly soon. i havent researched it that much but i was wondering how throwing up is bad for you? i mean, the food goes down in your stomach and takes nutrients out of the food but all it does is make the rest come up again. whats wrong with that? the excess food exit the body later anyway. just in a different way. (link)
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well i don't no much about it either,
but i know it messes up your teeth really badly form all the acid
but yeah
well i hope you stop.
and i hope i helped in someway
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I didn't know which catagory to put this in so I just placed it here...I'm 14/f and i feel everyday like i'm making everyone's life miserable. Everyone says I'm a crybaby and too dramatic and that no one wants to hang around with someone like me. I feel useless and I'm wondering if I should just quit...leave...whatever way you wanna put it. I just dont want to bug anyone anymore...that's my question. Should I quit?...plz and thnx (link)
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NO,
don't please!
i had problems to where all i wanted to do is lay down and cry untill i die.
but don't it's not worth it, you gotta think about your future, don't you wanna get older and have kids and a husband with a good job. you should remember those things
and it's just wrong. You think now that your making there life miserbale. but if you where to die, think about ohw miserable it would be afterwords. i don't know how close you are with your family
but there is at least one person who cares!
i sorta no what your going through, i used to want to kill myself then i talked to my coach about it,
and then i relized just because it's bad now, doesnt mean it will be later
and if you ever need to talk i'll listen!
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omg you only have 18 feedback out of 73 answered questions?? i hate how people dont rate nemore.. (link)
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aw! yes i agree i hate how people don't rate anymore, i try and aanswer as many questions as i can, sometime i get to busy. nut i always rate when i ask a question, and its normally a 5!
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Please, don't use so many explanation marks. (link)
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wait?
oh well im sorry thats just how i type but thanks for the though.
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i hate my dad. its not like one of those days that you just got mad and hate someone. i hate him. my mom knows it. if hes not dead by the time im 18 im willing to pay for a hit man to kill him. my mom knows it. he is so mean to me. he hits me sometimes. i hate it! no one understands. and dont say i should tell because i told my mom and shes waiting for my dad to get some money cause hes sueing these people for hurting his leg. so any advice? ANY THAT DOESNT INCLUDE TELLING ANYONE (link)
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ugh my dad and EXSPECIALLY MY BROTHER who is way worse does i about the same thing
i didn't wanna tell but i ended up doing that anyways!
not much help that got me!
jmaybe you should talk to your dad about it! if not than yeah i understand! i don't talk to my dad about this stuff either!
im sorry abot whats going on with you and i hope you feel better and don't decide to get a hit man!
but if you ever just wanna talk i'm all ears!
sometimes thats all you need is someone to talk to!
it makes me feel better
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OK My mom just got fired because she had a blood clot in her lung and now can't do anything. My dads job dont pay enough. We have the bills and my dads ex-wife is a jerk. She makes us pay child support and now that my mom is not working we will only be able to pay her. Then we will have to hunt to get food. The bodem line. I dont know how to help her. I just wanna die. What can I doooooooooo? (link)
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im really sorry baout this
i know you feel bad!
and you dont no what you can do!
im not sure how old you are but see if you can get a job!!
but if you cant just be there for your family! tyr not to complain about your hungry even if you are!
and about the dieing part! dont think that way! times may be rough now but they WILL and i PROMISE you willl get better!
and if you die THINK of how much worse your family will feel??
well i hope i helped =]
and if you just wanna talk you can ask me in my
INBOX
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Ok,well today,i took a bath,shampoo'd and conditioned my hair,then put this serum that stops split ends.but recently (every once in a while) i've noticed my hair has been falling out.a couple of mintues ago,after my hair was dry (by the air) i put it to the side and combed through it with my fingers.i got about 10 strands of hair! i was so scared!!! my sister's hair fell out,but thats probably only because she dyed it so much.no one else in this family has had this happen!should i worry and go to the doctor,or is this normal?! (link)
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well im not an expert!! i dye my hair!!
and at times i'll find stranges of hair! but you have to remember that sometimes it will fall out!!
and that like yeah! i would suggest talking to your parents about it!!
i dont no your parents so i dont no what they will say! but if they problem continues then i owuld try and do something about it!!
and it might be the serum? your using for your hair
but then again im not an expert!!
but i hope i helped you in some way
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I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions? (link)
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well you could be sending him mixed signals
if you get on your friend s/n he thinks its your friend and he might think your friend likes him instead of you!
i know you probably dont want to tell him but be like
well i have been talking to you and it wasnt her! i was just pretending and make a joke and say you where like bored if you dont want him noing you like him yet
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i have known my this girl ashley since like 1st grade we were like best friends up until the summer going into eigth grade we had so much fun together we never stopped laughing and with my other friends we grew apart but nothing wood ruin are friendship or atleast thats what i thought during the summer going into 8th grade we had a HUGE fight like it was crazy but the weird thing is i dont remember what its about or who started it but it was big so big that its almost then end of 8th grade and even when i walk by her in the hall there is anger in are eyes we havent even talked since the fight and were going to high school next year and i really wanna just be friends again but i dont no what to do i refuse to talk 2 her because then it would be to acword so i need to no what to to 2 be friends with her again other then some cheesey answer like talk it out should i even try to be her friend anymore idk please help!!! (link)
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well im a freshman now in high school!
and if she was your best friend then im sure it WILLL mean alot to you if yawl are friends again!
high school will be difficult! but if you have a good friend to experiance it with then it wouldnt be so hard!
i no you dont want to here talk to her! but this happend to me and my friends and the WHOLE reason we where mad at each other was her fault!
but why dont you call her up one day and just be like hey! i no we dont really talk! but how bout one day..***like during the week after school or during the weeked** yawl go out and get something to eat and just talk about stuff!!
if yawl have a good time and there not alot of tention or anger and yawl can laugh then the friendship is really there!!
but i htink you should really try that! i did that with my best freind after we hated each other NOW every other week we go out just to talk and stuff!!
but i really hope i helped you and i hope things work out for you!
kepp me updated if you want!! i wont mind anwsering anything else!!=]
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one of my bestfriends died and i need a song to put up on myspace to show i miss her and care!
please help
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aww i am really sorry about your loss
but i know amanda perez song
ANGEL would be good! i cry sometimes still when i hear it! im not sure though if its on her music site
well acctually i just looked it up! and she doesnt have it on there=[
but i hope i helped some!!
take careee=]
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How old do you have to be to work at blockbuster?
I looked on the website but couldn't find an answer. If it helps I live in San Diego, CA.
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well i live in Georgia! and i went and ased them and they said 18!
for like llegal reasons and stff!!
but it oculd be different where you live!
soo if you want go down to the store and ask! but yeah
hope i helped!!=]
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