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I HATE HIM SO MUCH!but hes my dad.


Question Posted Friday May 19 2006, 6:58 pm

i hate my dad. its not like one of those days that you just got mad and hate someone. i hate him. my mom knows it. if hes not dead by the time im 18 im willing to pay for a hit man to kill him. my mom knows it. he is so mean to me. he hits me sometimes. i hate it! no one understands. and dont say i should tell because i told my mom and shes waiting for my dad to get some money cause hes sueing these people for hurting his leg. so any advice? ANY THAT DOESNT INCLUDE TELLING ANYONE<--although i do talk to my bestfriends about it but i dont think they understand.

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Nallie answered Friday May 19 2006, 9:48 pm:
So, let me get this right. Your Dad is mean to you, and he hits you, but your Mom makes you endure abuse because of pending money? I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but your Mom is also guilty of abuse. You already know the correct advice, but you want someone to agree with what your Mom wants you to do. Nope, that's just plain wrong...follow your gut instinct and tell before you end up in the emergency room, dead or worse yet in prison for life. Sorry, I can't tell you to put up with abuse...even for a million bucks.

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am-bur answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:57 pm:
ugh my dad and EXSPECIALLY MY BROTHER who is way worse does i about the same thing

i didn't wanna tell but i ended up doing that anyways!
not much help that got me!

jmaybe you should talk to your dad about it! if not than yeah i understand! i don't talk to my dad about this stuff either!

im sorry abot whats going on with you and i hope you feel better and don't decide to get a hit man!

but if you ever just wanna talk i'm all ears!

sometimes thats all you need is someone to talk to!

it makes me feel better

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hopeless_n_indiana answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:43 pm:
You are probably right, know one who hasnt expierienced it could ever imagine the horrors of an abused life. Although you feel like you want to kill him, that is NOT the way to go. If you murder your father, you will go to jail, and he will ruin your hope for a better life. Being behind bars is not going to be any better than what your life is now.

You need to get help, if your mom is aware of the abuse and is doing nothing than you must seek help on your own. You shouldnt have to live in fear.

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x0ricanchica answered Friday May 19 2006, 8:39 pm:
well I don’t think you should kill your dad...and because you seem like you really don’t want to tell someone...is there like another reason?...maybe not but if there is something else going on and you don’t want to say or even if its just what you are saying I think that you need to bring it to someone’s attention...umm if you want to you can send me a message because I’ve been in a similar situation and ya it seems like no one understands…but if you don’t want to send a message that’s kool 2 I’m just saying if you wanted to…anyway think about what’s going on...is it going to get worse?...and how bad is it now...if you come up with bad answers I think its time to tell someone no matter if your mom likes it or not.
-hope everything works out
~Rosemarie

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MrDaveD answered Friday May 19 2006, 7:10 pm:
well I am sorry but you just have to tell someone... there is nothing you your mom or he can do... You have to get someone to help... like its not even funny your family needs help...That is the only way...
Peace and Dont Kill him tell someone...

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