|
Should I give in?
I didn't know which catagory to put this in so I just placed it here...I'm 14/f and i feel everyday like i'm making everyone's life miserable. Everyone says I'm a crybaby and too dramatic and that no one wants to hang around with someone like me. I feel useless and I'm wondering if I should just quit...leave...whatever way you wanna put it. I just dont want to bug anyone anymore...that's my question. Should I quit?...plz and thnx
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?
NO. Okay, NO is my answer. I do NOT want to see another teen give their life away because they don't feel their wanted. I used to go through this all the time.. "I'm worthless".."No one cares". SOMEONE cares, SOMEONE loves YOU very much [okay, so here comes the Religion.. just thought i'd prepare you]. JESUS did not die because he WANTED to.. no, he died because he loved YOU. DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME?! HE LOVED YOU! Okay, so you probably think i'm crazy, but i'm just telling you the truth. I've seen/heard about TOO many teens giving up their lives & i'm so sick of it. NO ONE is worthless, i don't care what anyone says, NO ONE is worthless. No one deserves to feel that way [and yes, i know people feel that way, though.. i struggled with it for awhile].. you WiLL make it through this, and you'll be glad you did.
Nikki.
]
YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE UP ON LIFE... I MEAN THATS ALL YOU HAVE.. YOU NEED TO PUT SOME CONSIDERATION INTO COUNSLING...AND ITS SO NOT FAIR FOR YOUR FAMILY/.. THEY MAY NOT SAY IT ENOUGH BUT THEY LOVE YOU.. TELL THEM THAT THEY NEED TO MAKE U FEEL APPRECIATED A BIT MORE... I PROMISE THIS WILL MAKE THINGS BETTER..
CORi
]
no
never quit its normal to feel this way most people do.
But think about the future and what it has in store for you.
the people that say stuff like that are just tring to put up dawn anyway.
]
NO,
don't please!
i had problems to where all i wanted to do is lay down and cry untill i die.
but don't it's not worth it, you gotta think about your future, don't you wanna get older and have kids and a husband with a good job. you should remember those things
and it's just wrong. You think now that your making there life miserbale. but if you where to die, think about ohw miserable it would be afterwords. i don't know how close you are with your family
but there is at least one person who cares!
i sorta no what your going through, i used to want to kill myself then i talked to my coach about it,
and then i relized just because it's bad now, doesnt mean it will be later
and if you ever need to talk i'll listen!
]
There's no need to quit. You're 14 and female, your hormones are all over the place, you're becoming aware of yourself and your place in the world and it can be a scary place. You also sound as though you are a sensitive soul, and that is no bad thing, there are not enough people like you.
Try to keep a diary and write all your feelings down, it sounds as though you don't have a big enough outlet for all your emotions at the moment. Within the next couple of years you should find that everything starts to stablise and you will be feeling much better about yourself. If you are dramatic, how about turning it to your advantage and join a drama group? You could be the next big star. Even if you're not, it's another outlet.
If you can channel these energies you are experiencing, you will probably find that you have more control over them, people won't be so wary of hanging around you and you, in turn, will start to feel better about yourself.
Hope that helps and the best of luck to you.
]
Don't quit. Whatever you do. I know you feel like your making other people's lives miserable, but if you weren't there anymore, I'm positive people wouldn't be thankful. You seem to know what your doing wrong, so try and change the things that bother people. Don't change yourself, just tweek some things. Try being a little less dramatic. As for being a crybaby, you can't help how emotional you are, but if you're crying because you don't get what you want, go off and cry in your room, that way people won't get annoyed with your crying. (btw I'm not saying you are a crybaby or dramatic, I'm just going by what you said.) Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy <3
]
never quit.
if you try you automatically have a bettre chance then if you don't.
worse is that at young ages 12-17 people say theses decisions are most important, but say a suicidal person survives, for like 10 years, then thinks and reilizes, "I WOULD HAVE KILLED MYSELF OVER THAT!!!"
everything is a prolouge to the next thing.
you quit there and you never start the book.
]
no u should never quit in anything never quit!!
-Molly
♥ Well first off hun you shouldn't quit. If you are having problems talk to your friends. They might be able to help you. If they are judging you because of this they may not be true friends.
♥ Don't hold in your feelings! Find ways to avoid crying though. Like cry if you need to but when you feel it coming try and think of better things. If that doesn't help through a party so you can have a good time. Your friends will be more likely to see past the crying.
♥ Last, but not least...don't change anything about you to make people like you.
-Cheyenne
]
No! Never give up! People are just taking you forgranted, which is a horrible feeling.
Sweetheart, dont end your life, run away, or anything, tell them how you feel.
If they dont listen, keep telling them,
go talk to a counsular, at your school. I promise that will help. I promise.
Your not bugging people either, most likely they are just busy, but dont ever give up.
you matter.
i hope things get better.
ill pray for you.
<3
]
they tell you that your a crybaby and too dramatic because they want you to change it.. should you quit.. no. they don't want you to quit either.. they just want you to become a better person by stop being a crybaby and a drama queen.. hope i helped <3
]
quit what ? being a drama queen ? hmm ya mabe you should. you probably wont get no where acting like that. i used to be that way but i learned not to care about the little things in life. if someone calls you a name or if a boy breaks up with you who cares ? your 14 you still have highschool and prom and other things like that. if your friends do something that hurts your feelings be strong and dont cry about it. dont pick fights or start anything with anyone and mabe people will think diffrent about you. just tell everyone your trying to change.
ps dont do nothing to hurt yourself no one in this world is worth doing that over :]
xO-KAYlA
]
NO DO NOT LEAVE. Whatever you do DO NOT leave. YOU can change, you don't have to kill yourself. Show your friends that you can change and tell them that you'll need their help and also apologize and say you didn't realise you were being so dramatic. PLEASE don't do something over something that can be changed.
]
More Questions: |