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I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions?
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well..the first thing you should do is like have your friend introduce you to him (to make it a little bit more easier) or introduce yourself to him (if you have enough confidence). i mean after the introduction he will know you. then you should take it one step at a time like when you guys pass in the hall just like say hi to him. then you guys can like hang out during lunch or afterschool. thats what i would do if i were in your situation. hope everything turns out good! have a great summer! bye
-.christina*
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Just start a conversation. Ask him about himself, since you said you don't know anything about him. Or, you could talk about current events, even something as stupid as what the cafeteria served for lunch today, whatever. Talk about the test you had yesterday, What book you want to do for your book report, anything. Ask him questions and get to know him. Say a couple things to him every day and eventually you'll probably start getting into longer conversations. One thing I would suggest is not talking to him on your friends' screen names, just talk to him on yours, because otherwise he won't know who is really into him. I mean, he could fall for one of your friends if he thinks that you were her. One other thing I guess you could do is talk to his friends to find out exactly what he's into, and things like that.
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You should just start small talk with this guy. Like, when you see him, just even say hey, or give him a smile. You could casually build it up, and have a normal conversation. If he's in one of your classes, then ask him something about the class, like what the homework is, or how to do something. I also think you should go on your own screen name, and talk to him. Just be like, this is so and so, I go to your school. I think I've seen you in the halls, or something like that. Once you start the online conversations, it will be easier to do it in person. So, I hope this helps!
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well i think you should stop talkin t him on your friends sn... it isnt really making him like you anymore and if you really want him to like you alot then you have to start talking to him...become his friend and someone he just cant get out of his mind. flirt constantly and just act like yourself... make sure he gets to know the real you and just act yourself<333
hope i hhelped
-paige♥
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well you could be sending him mixed signals
if you get on your friend s/n he thinks its your friend and he might think your friend likes him instead of you!
i know you probably dont want to tell him but be like
well i have been talking to you and it wasnt her! i was just pretending and make a joke and say you where like bored if you dont want him noing you like him yet
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Start up a conversation and try to get to know him better and find similar interest
and if you like him nothing is ever ridiculous!
if this dontr work out i dont know what will!!!
hope everything goes badass between both of yall
suggestion:
go bowling everyone loves bowling even if yall dont know how its always a fun experience for everybody!!!
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Just start a conversation easily with your friend or something...hang out somewhere. and you never know after a while he gets to know u he might lik you too!
Good luck!!
-Steph!
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Be friends with him! If your friend is already friends with him, then suggest that the 3 of you see a movie, just for fun, so you can get to know him better.
You could always tell your friend that you like him. Maybe she/he could find a way to get you two to start talking.
Don't ask him out just yet. Once I asked out a boy when I didn't really know him, & of course he said no which was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Don't rush yourself into a relationship. First you have to become friends with him. A lot of times, friendships turn into love.
Just be yourself around him, and try to walk with him to class, or talk to him in school. If he thinks you're funny or really nice, I'm sure you two will become friends. If you two become friends, you'll have a better chance of going out with him than you would if you didn't even know him and asked him out.
If he's going to sign up for any after school activites, then sign up too. Try to make him laugh a lot & make some inside hokes with him. Smile at him a lot and once you've became friends, flirt with him just a bit to give him a hint that you're interested.
If you need more detail on anything, just ask.
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