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Hey, my name is Gabby. I'm your average teenage girl. I would say that I really am good at giving advice, considering I do it a lot. I'm open to any kinds of problems or situations, so if you need advice, just try me. =]

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i am writing a best friends acrostic poem... have any ideas for the b, the 2 e's, the r, the n, and the d?? thanksssssssss


ill rate!!!!!

B.. Brilliant or Beautiful, Bizzare,
E.. Ecsatic, Energetic, Erratic, Excellent, Elegant
R.. Radiant, Rebellious, Respectable, Ridiculous,
N.. Nice, Nerdy, Normal
D.. Dreamy, Diverting, Delightful, Delicate.

I did the best I could. I really hope this helps!

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Is it possible to gain 2 lbs in two days?

Deffinitley.

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Whats the difference between anorexia and bulimia?

arent they technically the same thing because either way you aren't getting food into you system?

and which one would cause the worst effects to your body?

Welll, anorexia is basically starving yourelf, not eating anything whatsoever. Belemia is just as bad, but you eat, and throw it up after you eat, so it's like you never ate in the first place. They are both extremellyyy horrible for you. People die from it. So basically they are both bad for you. I wouldn't suggest either. Hope this helps!

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hey does anyone now how to put pictures and avatars onto your myspace liek under the about me section? thanks

Well personally, I use Imageshack. Go to www.imageshack.us , and then you go to the upload box. You save the avatar, then you choose the file to upload on the main page. Click upload, and a bunch of links will appear on the next page. Copy the link that has the towards the bottom, and next to it, it should say Hotlink for Websites. Paste that link into your about me, and then click save, and whatever, and it should work! Hope this helps!

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i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox

Honestly, I think that teenage marraige isn't the best way to go. Teenagers are too young and hormonal to know what they really want. They'd have to be tied down, and a lot of responsibilities come with marraige, and it'll be a lot to deal with through the rest of your school years. You never know, you guys may end up wanting to split, and it will be difficult if you're married. That's just my opinion. Hope this helps!

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hey. gabby is pretty boss. she is my friend. i love her. x o x o

Hmm, this sounds like a tough situation. I think your friend loves you too. Actually, I'm sure of it. And don't worry, this isn't an uncommon situation, because everybody loves your friend Gabby. Heheh, loveyouu, X.

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someone once asked me if ive ever played 7 minutes in heaven. what is that?

7 minutes in heaven is a game that is usually played at a boy-girl party. It is similar to spin the bottle, but a boy and a girl go into a closet for about 7 minutes to do whatever they want with each other (usually make out, etc.) I hope this helps!

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How do I know if what my parents are doing to me is child abuse? They hit me really bad, but it never leaves a mark. They do throw stuff at me and yell and scream and hit me. They verbally abuse me and say God didn't know what he was thinking when he put me on this earth, and they tell me I'm never going to have a job, a husband, children, or friends and they say I'm going to go to jail. They say they love my sister more then me. They say it to my face. What would you recommend doing? Calling child abuse or reporting it. Is what they do to me considered child abuse?

I think the best thing to do, is to first talk to a councelor at school, because they always know what is best. It may seem akward, but they WILL get you the help you need, and help you through everything. If you are home schooled, then yes, you should probably file a report, because it's not fair for you to be hit, and screamed at, because no person relaly deserves that. I really hope this helps.

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I want to make a new screenname but have no idea what it should be! I'm female 14 and my name is Denise. I want my name to be in the sn. Please give me a whole list of ideas! X's and O's are ok in the sn.

Well, there are ALOT of options. If you want just your name, which a lot of people do, it could be things like:

DENISE x
Denise x
denise x
(or add however many x's you want)
x DENISE x
Denise x0x

You know, things like that.
Or you could add things like,

its denise xx

Or things like that. I really hope this helps!

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ok. i`ve been knowing thiss guy.. since 6th grade and i`ve fallen for him. *since 6th grade* but i was a fat girl and he wasn`t so he didn`t like me. we were kool, kinda friends i guess, but you can tell he didn`t like me cause i used to ask him out all the time. well throughout middle school, my like for him got stronger and stronger. and i lost weight during summer b4 9th grade. well in 9th grade, he started talking to me more, and more. and we evolved a friend ship. he had a girl friend, but she could nvr do nething durin the weekends, so i used to do stuff with him all the time, and he used to cuddle with me. well they broke up and we started talkin, and he asked me out on his birthday. well we broke up but even tho we were broken up we were still actin like we were goin out. he had another g/f and he cheated on her with me and was still tellin me he loved me, and i cheated on my b/f with him. well now he has no g/f and i have no b/f and we tell each other tht we arent goin to get one. but i dont understand why WE D0NT G0 BACK 0UT. i mean we tell each other we love each other, and spend each minute with each other, everyday @ school and everyweekend. but he is goin off to a school next year tht is like 5 hours from here. only gonna come down once a month, but idk. we`re at the end of out 10th grade year. and we have been talking since october of 2004 so almost 2 years. but we don`t go out but we act like we do and everyone at school thinks we do. please i need advice.

You should tell him how you feel. Let him know about all of this. OR you could ask him out, and tell him the reasons. I agree with you though, and I do think that you guys should be going out. You have the rest of they year, and the summer for a relationship, and if it is a strong relationship, you could try the long-distance thing. I hope this helps!

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i know this may sound stupid but what does it mean when someone is outspoken??

thanks in advancee!!

ps
5s for anythinggg!

It means that they have a lot to say about everything. They always just say what they think or feel, not really minding what other people think. It also means they can be very critical or controversial. Hope this helps!

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I get angry a lot now...for many reasons...I scream at my dad. Like today, just now, I woke up late, which puts me off schedule, which made me mad, so I started screaming, then I cut myself on my wooden drawer, and I slammed my foot down so hard, that I now have a bruise on my heel. I am afraid I'll go off like this on my friends, and they'll all leave me. What I need is someone to love me unconditionally, and someone to help me stop getting angry; At least that's what I think. Please help! I feel embarrassed about this, and am afraid I embarrass my dad and maybe will embarrass my friends...

You have anger issues. First of all, you should try your hardest to stop hurting yourself. It's very dangerous. Also, you should maybe look into Anger Management, which I think is probably the best way to go. Hope this helps!

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I've been using Limewire to download music for some time now. Is it illegal since it's free?

Yeah, Limewire is illegal. A lot of people have it though, so I don't really think you should be too worried about getting caught, etc. Hope this helps!

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ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO??

Well, not to lecture you, but they don't sound like very good friends if they leave you out all the time. You could talk to them about how you feel, and what they are doing to you. You could also find other people to hang out with, if your friends keep doing this to you, because they aren't really your friends when they ALWAYS leave you out. I hope this helps!

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I will rate 5s! Sorry its long. But 5s FOR ANYTHING! JUST PLWEASE HELP. ok so i wear daily contacts that you throw out every day .. wwhen i have sleepovers i just keep them in if i fall asleep and replace them in the morning - its always been fine. so on friday i did that & everything was good. during the day my left eye kind of felt irritated, but that has been ahppening a little bit lately with me and others because of spring/allergies and stuff. then when i took it out it KILLED. i couldnt open my eye it felt like there was something in it. then when i finally could open, it feels irritated and i keep crying like theres a hair or an eyelash or something in it.. so my questions is what could it be?

what is wrong with me??? is there something in my eye?? it wasn't ripped when i took it out.. is there a cahnce the one from friday could still be in there [but im positive i took it out & it doesn't look like there's a contact in my eye unless its hidden]. and whatever it is, how do i get it out??? or is it an infection? FIVES FOR ALL!

Well, if you're positive that you took it out, I don't think it's still in your eye. It's probably an infection. You need to see the doctor right away. I hope this helps!

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ok i need some serious advice on how to make it so that i accually wake up when my alarm clock goes off because normally i just shut ot off and then go back to sleep... and i cant move it because there is no where else to plug it in. and ive tried moving it away from my bed but then when it goes off i just get up, bring it near my bed, and go back to sleep. i have no idea what to do... i cant go to sleep earlier because i cant fall asleep till 11, i dont get ttired till then....would some one help me please?

Wow. Try setting a bunch of alarm clocks all around your room. Maybe then, there'll be so many at the same time, that you'll have to get up to turn them off, and they'll be so loud you won't ignore it. Hope this helps!

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i keep seeing people with these tan braided bracelets. why does everyone have them? do they mean something or something like that? thanks.

They're mostly likely hemp. It's just a regular bracelet, but instead of string, metal, etc, they're made of the material hemp. They don't mean anything. They're just popular. Hope this helps!

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today was our 8th grade trip to chicago. i was told that i wasnt alowed to go. so i couldnt go and all of my friends went and then they called me on my best friends cell phone and it sounded like they were having a blast.

Aww, well nothing is really wrong with you. I understand how you feel. Something similar happened to me, and nothing is wrong with you, you just feel like you're missing out. It's also a bit of jealousy, but there are plenty of more good times to come. Things will get better. Hope this helps!

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14/female// hi. i hope that you can help me on this. okay, i have known this guy for a little over a year now and i really like him, but i dont know if he likes me back. when i am in class, he comes over and sits next to me and talks to me. he always seems to want to walk with me in the halls with him and we seem to have a really good connection. we laugh together and it is a bunch of fun. i know for a fact that he likes this other girl in our grade. they used to walk in the halls together and he used to talk about her when she wasnt there. but lately i havent seen them together as much lately. im sure he still likes her, but is it possible that he likes me? what can i do to make him like me more? thanks in advance! :]

Yes, it's very possible he likes you. I can understand if you don't want to, but I think maybe you should either tell him how you feel, or casually ask if he likes you in a 'hidden' sort of way. Or just even ask him who he likes. I can see why you wouldn't want to because you wouldn't want to ruin your friendship, or make things akward, but sometimes taking a risk is the best way to know how he feels. Maybe even ask a friend who is also friends with him to find out what he feels. Many guys also just feel like you're their "best-bud", but if you plant the idea of you two in his head, he may start to realize he likes you, or think about you more oftenly, etc. Those are my suggestions, and the things I would do, so I really hope they help!

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Is this weird or not? My ex liked babysitting kids for like hours at his church. He never wanted to spend time with me. Plus he told me he was sexually molested by some guy at his church, which to me makes it even freakier he likes watching these kids.

It's not necessarily weird. After something bad happens in someone's life, they sometimes become closer to church, religion, God, etc. I also don't think he would be going out with you if he were a child molester. So, I wouldn't draw conclusions too quickly.

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