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I NEED HELP =/
ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO??
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I'm sorry to be the blunt one here, but... they don't have any interest in you. They done, finished, there's something about you they don't like and it bugs them. But not all is lost my poor friend, There's other people out there. this is a good chance to explore new things in life. New people, new opinions, for rutines. How do i know this? you may ask, well it happened to me becuase of my my opinions and just being myself. I'm sorry this happen to you but it gets the bestof us. Confront them and just ask them why, then in the next weekend make your own plans. you'll be better off. hope this helps
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you talk to them about it if there your friends than they should understand where your coming why are they leave you out anyway if your all friends
Jazzy**
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just try to make some new friends and have fun without them. you never know they might end up being jelous and want you back but you have the chance to turn them down then
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ok you really need to ask them y they're doing this.. if they still have a bad attitude then here what you should do........ invite the friends your not so mad at to the movies or something, then soon your other friends will ask why didnt u invite me?? you just say " well you didnt invite me to places" then talk to them, make a deal
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if they were your real friends they would invite you to things if there doing this to you there not worth your time
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well uyu need to find out if they are your real friends. if ther not then yu need to find ppl who will include yu not disclude you!!!!! tlk to your friends baout leavin you out!! n babe dont cry, bc in teh end everything will be okay. yu just gotta be nice.. im rele strong in bleivein in carma. n i feel liek if sumone is mean. bad things will happen to them. thats hwy i always try to be nice. yu just gotta put a smile on!! tkl to your friends n see wats up. make sure yu dont say the wrong thing though!! bc people can misunstand you n then yu can get innto alot of drama((past experiances)) i hope everything turns out okay
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hey, you have to ask them why they dont invite you anywhere. ask them normally tho like not in a winey voice so that they feel bad for you. another thing you could do is invite people places. dont just wait to be invited! also invite everyone and dont exclude anyone on purpose cause you knwo how they feel. cait♥
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i know just how you feel..i am in the same situation but hey there isnt much you can do about it besides find some new freinds because it sounds to me like they dont deserve you..and if that isnt an option for you then i say you try to organize some like outings of your own and then you will be with them...goodluck
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gurl do not mind them...those are not your friends...there is more people out there you can meet..they is not the only people you can be friends with..Stop crying...and dry your tears...you was born alone you can be alone...they is not that serious...be strong...you ain't no sucka...act like you don't care and find new friends trust me....IF ANY THING HAPPEN E-MAIL ME......HOLLA....ONE LUV..
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The next time you see them ask them straight out why they are doing this to you. If they get mad or say something smart ass like , well sooorrrry didnt no you wanted to hang out, then move on to find new friends. Im sure your an awseume girl and you can find better friends then how they've been treating you. Hope all goes well.
X0 EM
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Well, not to lecture you, but they don't sound like very good friends if they leave you out all the time. You could talk to them about how you feel, and what they are doing to you. You could also find other people to hang out with, if your friends keep doing this to you, because they aren't really your friends when they ALWAYS leave you out. I hope this helps!
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if i were you...i would invite a really good friend that doesn't do that to you, and do something w/them everyweek. or you could say, hey guys i'm free next week if you are doing anything. and say that untill they invite you.
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ok. well theres a couple things you can do. 1. you can talk to them about how you feel left out and how you want to be included. or 2. you could ask THEM if they wanna go out on the weekends... If they are FRIENDS to you they would include you and be a good friend. But, dont take me wrong, im not saying their not good friends im just saying if their your friends talk to them and ask them why
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Directly ask them what their plans are...if they avoid answering they're doing it on purpose. If you really want to keep them as friends, confront them (calmly) and ask why they leave you out. Otherwise, find some friends who actually want to spend time with you.
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talk to them; ask why they don't invite you.
Ask them if you all can go to the mall or too the movies or something.
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make plans with them before they get a chance to make plans with someone else.
xoxjess
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instead of them all going out before thewy get a chance to like ask them thursday if they wanna come over or hang out then theyll hang out with oyu and wont be able to make plans without you specially if there going to your house
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well ask your friends why they dont invite you, and tell them how you feel.maybe they didnt relize how you might have felt. soo just tell them how you feel.
hoped i helped!
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Well, let them know you feel left out. Don't make a big deal about it to them, just say you want to hang out with them. Or if you don't want to tell them, then this weekend, invite them all somewhere and ask them all if they want to go to the movies or mall. If you ask them if they wanna go, they can't really say no unless they're busy.
Good luck.
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