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My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!!
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Sorry I know I'm a horrible person agreeing with your mom and everything but I do think she's right. First of all if you date guys you'll only think about pleasing them and you'll forget about your future (education). Second guys around your age don't even know what they want.
Third guys only use u even if they say they love you. Fourth why do you need a boyfriend? Just to fit in or to prove to your friends that you can get a boyfriend or to prove to yourself that you can actually get a guy. Take my advice you don't need a guy 2 feel better about yourself.
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I'm 13, (soon to be 14) and I can't date til I'm 16, too.
But there isn't much you can do. You know, mom's are mom's.
You don't want to lose your mom's trust between you and guys. Just try to invite a' guy friend' over, and let them get to know your mom. And maybe your mom might trust you with guys.
This isn't exactly the best advice. But that would be something I would do to convince my mom that I'm not that young.
Hope I helped. =]
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At least when you 16 you can date im 17 and i still can;t date...funny isn't it...well,your mom is tripping prove to her you mature to go on a date and bring the date to meet your mom....if that don't work...just wait till you 16...2 more years..becasue if you go on a date behind your mother back that's like a half of trust is lost....so be wise...THINK....BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING STUPID TO LOSE TRUST FROM YOUR MOM...HOLLA....
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i have this problem as well.. try to resepct their opinions though. and understand where tehy are coming from. whatever you do, dont run in your room balling your eyes out yelling ITS NOT FAIR. that will get you absoleutly no where. besides those things - these sites should help you =)
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The trouble with 13 year olds, you are too old for child like activities, but you are too young for more mature things like dating. It's difficult to be the age that you are. You probably won't be able to change your Mom's mind, so in that case you won't have a choice but to live with her decision. The next best thing to dating would be to ask her if she would allow you to meet up with a group of people--or several friends at one time to see a movie, come to your house or so on...this is usually safer than dating one on one.
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Hun I'd listen to your parents, now a days you can't trust guys because they say there in love with you...then you say your in love with them!!! It turns out that the guy will probably hurt you, guys will get there way into your life so they can do whatever it takes to break your heart!!! Trust me I've had experience on this....I'm 17 and a female...hun I'd take my advice and listen to your parents I didn't start dating until 16. Take care.
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Most parents when they set an age for dating they stick to it. You only can talk to your mom and ask her to explain to you why she will not allow you to date right now. Other then that the only thing you can do is sneak and do it behind her back. Good luck :)
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Just sneak behind her back and do it or just bring her on the dates you go on if she's there and or ask your dad
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Well maybe you are. Nobody needs to start with drama. She just doesn't want you to get into sex early or to get hurt by some guy. If I were you, I'll just wait. Make some really good guy friends and have them hang out with you at your place. Your mom might start to trust your decisions in that area. She might see that the guy is okay and won't try anything stupid with you. I don't know. Dating causes trouble..emotional problems. If you can't possibly wait, then date secretly...
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hey. a lot of people have this problem. the best thing to do is to talk it out. discuss rules that you can follow if you go out on a date. let her meet the guy and his parents first, be home by like 930, have a cell phone with you, etc. group dates are a great way to get started. try being more responsible like when it comes to school, homework, and cleaning. pull your grades up and finish your homework early, and when your parents tell you to clean something do it right away. this will prove to your mom that you are responsible thus proving that you can responsibly date. if this doesnt work, you should just ask her if she ever liked someone at her age and wanted to go out with them!! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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hey, well you have to gain her trust first. the more trustworthy you are, the more responible you are. when your responsible you can take care of yourself. when you go out your mom wants to know that you are going to mkae the right descisons. so build up the "trust-o-meter" with her. cait♥
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nagociate with her. Like suggest group dates.
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sneeking is always an opption
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hope this helps!
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