ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO??
if i were you...i would invite a really good friend that doesn't do that to you, and do something w/them everyweek. or you could say, hey guys i'm free next week if you are doing anything. and say that untill they invite you.
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will u really talk to her to help me. thats proves humanity is akive in this world. please e-male me ankur_ghosh_82@yahoo.co.in
wut do you want me to do??? talk to your old gf??? :)
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hi, thanx for your advice.i am that same indian whoms you answered the question.the thing which you said to do is quite risky.i fear one thing that they will get her married before i stand on my feets,i.e-before i start earning.u know this is an indian religious family who thinks all these things are pure shits.and i fear to talk to her family.cause this will create prblm in her family again.she also told her frnz to tell me not to call in her house and talk to her family.she has already lost her dad.and her grandma runs the whole family.they also face some financial prblms.
for wch the whole headache is faced by her grandma.and her grandama is the main prblmin my relationship and in her life too.she also said she hates her mom for a certain reason.and she does not feels so comfortable wth her family as her family members tortures her a lot.comin under this family pressure she is now sayin tat she does not loves me anymore.but i know i can convince her family. i just need her to say tat she still loves me.tats the hardest part to do for her.cuz she knows tat once she says tat she loves me i will force her 2 cont. this relationship once again,wch she does not wants to do.this is a major prblm.and i don't know wat to do,at the same time i am scared to tak to her family , cuz somehow they WILL torture her again.i am pissed and i don't know wat to do.
oh boy! geeze. you have a major problem! maybe if you talk to the grandma, she will understand your problem. but try talking to your gf first. or maybe her freinds, and tell them that they have to try to convince your gf to talk to you. good luck. :)
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theres this guy that loves to hang out with me. id hang out with him too but he stinks.. i mean really really stinks. its a horrible smell!!! and he's always always following me... so since he's always around me, is there a nice way i can tell him that he smells really bad? lol. thanks xoxo
for a gift you could give him a bunch of soap or something, or once in a while just wave your hand in front of your nose to give him a small hint.
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im the person whose boyfriends mom died.
well i told him he can talk to me about anything but when he talks about his mom i have no idea what to say.
he was in 1st grade when she died. she died of breast cancer and lost her hair. she was always in bed and so he couldnt really talk to her.
it 100% breaks my heart and i have no idea what to say so i feel like an idiot. what can i say? i cant even relate to what hes going through! i love this kid but he wouldnt know from the way i respond. help us please!!
just tell him that everything is going to be fine, and that she will always be w/him no matter wut happens. tell him that she is always around him and his family, and when ever he needs to talk you'll listen. :)
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do???????????????????????
first you should talk to him and tell him wut you feel. then if he still does wut you told him not to....drop him. you can do sooo much better then that. and yoiu never know....sometimes he might mean wut he says.
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i just turned 15, (female obviously) and i haven't got my period yet.. is this normal? and also i hate talking to my mom about things. i just get so embarrased. when i do get my period, idk how to talk to my mom. i like get so nervous thinking about it. i know im gonna feel soo uncomfortable and idk what to doo
don't worry about it...evry1 gets their period at different times, my cousin didn't get hers until she was 16. and w/ur mom. i'm the same way. just calmly explain to her that you want to be able to talk to her about these things w/out her freaking out on you. hope that helps. :)
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I asked a question about a month ago about my situation with an ex-boyfriend who I became pregnant for, and then lost the baby. (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=421121)
Not long after, he called and apologized for everything, and gave me his side of the story. I finally showed him ultrasound pictures and he saw how depressed I had become, and after hearing it from soo many people he believes me. He says he would have been there for us, which I believe, and we are now friends. He's helping me deal with my loss.
But the last time we talked, he asked about getting a second chance. I don't want him to think I'm this easy to get back, but at the same time we've been through so much, and I think he's learned his lesson. I still care about him, not only because he's the father of my child, but I care about him as a person.
I told him if I did give him a second chance, it would be a long time from now because I'm not ready right now after what I went through. Do you think he deserves a second chance? I need an outsider's opinion on this. Thanks!
if you still really love him, but you don't want to look easy, then you should make him wait. but if it were me, and he left me in a time of need, then i wouldn't go back w/him. you nevr know, he could do the same thing all over agian.
:)
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I accidently stabbed myself on my left hand, and I think i got a vein. It's extremely painful, and is now a lump and looking a bit blueish. Is this serious, or just one of those things? What can I do to reduce the swelling?
Thanks.
evry1 that answered this is right! go osee a doctor. it could be infected, or a dieses. trust me, my cousin is a nurse. :)
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okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?
ill rate high =)
uuummm.....ok, don't tell him that you like him. that may open a window for him to take advantage of you. and you should go to the movies, but ask your friend if she wouldn't mind bringing her bf along. and just be yourself around him. if you are supposed to go out w/him, then your time will come. :)
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okay well.. my mom she is putting me on a pill. and before i go on it i need a exam at the ghynecologist (sp?) she said it was only partial but im terrified. is there any way i can make this experience less scary, i tried using a tampon before and i was crying hystericall cause i got so scared and it hurt. please help me
im 15
thanks ill rate high
my friend went through the same thing. i actually went w/her for morall suportt. if it makes you nervous, then see if you can get a women dr. for it. just take your mind off of it while your in there. don't worry. :)
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what is a gynocologist, and what do they do???
a vaginal doctor. they just check you to make sure that evrything is ok down in that area.
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Hey, I was just wondering, I walked 2 miles today, at a normal pace, could i have lost a pound from doing that?
you might have. it just depends on wut your body thinks. but don't go on a calorie diet. my friend did that, and it turned out really bad! just go at your own pace. but if you exerzice make sure you eat healthy and drink a lot of water. :)
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so, does being sexually active, in a doctor's opinion (like they ask you when you go), specially mean HAVING SEX, or does it mean having any kind of sex (ex. manual or oral)?
any kind of sex, no matter wut kind it is.
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Hi all I am 28 years old and I have a daughter who is going to be 9 this year and she has been asking me how babies get into the tummy and what pads are for and I am having truble getting the right way to say it...As I dont remember my mom talking to me about it...But I wont to be the one to tell her so she will be able to talk to me about anything....I was not comfertable talking to my mom and I wont my daughter to be able to talk to me.......if anyone could help me please do.thanks
if i were you, i would wait a little longer until you tell her. she's to young and needs time to grow. plus, you don't want her running around school telling evry1 wut she has learned. if you want to tell her now though, i would sit her down and explain to her the short versoin. and as she gets older, you can gradually expand wut you have told her. hope this helps. :)
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i am 16 yrs male.ilive in india.according to the indian culture rajasthani people do not believe in love marriages.and they are totally aginst it.i had a girlfriend who is rajasthani.she loves me too.but her family came to know this secret relationship before the right time.for which she has to break up with me.but i know she still loves me.also she wanted me to hate her because she always used to think that her family won't let me marry her.and it will make me easy to forget her thinkin that she never loved me.the problem is that now she is saying that she does not loves me anymore. she thinks that her this attitude will make me hate her.this is for sure that i love her in a true sense and she loves me too in a more advanced and her love is more then i love her.one major problem is that i don't have any contact with her.she will not even call on my cellphone.please help me.i know i can be a succesful carreer holder in the future and also i can convince her family too. only if she gives this relationship a second chance and to make her believe that i am the only one for her.
that's soooo sweet. you should tell her parents this, that may make them think higher of you. as for her........ i would call her (after you talk to her parents)untill she answers you. she knows she still loves you, she's just trying to make it less painful for herself. maybe evn ask her parents to talk to her......good luck
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yea ok.... im 16 and i cant find a good bra that like fits me and stuff.... like i want a push up but i need it in a 34D or 38D and all that i can find one in is C's and then they are too small... does anyone know where i could find a good one??
victoria secret.....they are a little pricey...but they are soooo worth it.
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hey i was wondering what are some different excersizing things that help you loose weight too? see i can't run for at least a month because i have really bad shin splints and the doctor said to not do excersizes that would put pressure on my shins. ex: riding a bike. but i really don't want to ride my bike if at all possible, but i want to keep doing a good excersize and i dont' mean just like sit ups and stuff. what is something i can do while they have taken my running away!!??? plz!
if it were me, i would look at all of the other sports.....like swimming, or a sport that you could do w/your friends. ex: golf, tennis,ice-skating...etc. :)
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This might be a long one. But ill rate 5's for your time.
I'm 14/f
There is this guy(14/m) that when im around him, i feel like I cant breathe, speak or move. He is so hot and beautiful, and he is the nicest person iv ever met. He is my sister's best friends cousin (Sorry if youre confused about that one lol) He seems to act deifferent around me than my sister. I want to think that he likes me, but we kindof like avoid eachother. My question is how can I act myself when hes around? How can I feel more comforable with him, and get his attention. I guess I'm too shy. Well thanks for answering the best you can!
if i were you, i would just act like he is one of my other friends, but drop a few hints once in a while, if you notice that he does. and don't change the way you look or act to get his attention. if he likes you for you... he wouldn't want you to change anything. :)
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I am 15/f. I am not sexually active and I am a virgin. The most my boyfriend has done is finger me. I'm not sure if I can explain this but I will try. The inside of my vaginal area, the folds inside the lips, are now for some reason outside of the lips. Before, the lips touched eachother and now they are apart because the inner part is sticking out a little further. My urine smells different and sometimes my vaginal area is uncomfortable. Any clue to what this can be or if I really need help?
if it were me i would get it checked. it could be something major. and don't worry about your mom. she will be mad at first, but then once she realizes that it could be bad, she will do wut's right.
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