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this really stinks!
okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?
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Yes her boyfriend should come and YEAH tell him you like him. If you really like him tell him soon!
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You don't tell him that you like him that couldmess some things up for you You should go to the movies, but ask your friend if she wouldn't mind bringing her bf along. Make sure tobe yourself around him.Good Luck! and I hoped I helped you!
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okay, well i was kinda having the same problem and we went to the movies and stuff like your going to do, and i just went for it and i told that i had liked him for a long time and i thought her was a great guy and i liked him a lot.He really respected the fact that i tld him the truth. and now we are boyfriend and gilfriend. So my advice to you would be to tell him because he might like you to but he dosn't know that you like him. I think its better to let someone know that you like them rather then not letting them know.GO FOR IT!!!!!
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uuummm.....ok, don't tell him that you like him. that may open a window for him to take advantage of you. and you should go to the movies, but ask your friend if she wouldn't mind bringing her bf along. and just be yourself around him. if you are supposed to go out w/him, then your time will come. :)
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hey there!
My personal advice is to go for it. Most guys really respect and like girls who have the guts to come and talk to them. If you make the
first move and tell him how you feel, I am positive he would really respect you. He would say "Wow! what an amazing girl to come up and talk to me!" Story: So my friend was in love with one of her guy friends. She had been inlove with him for about 5 years or so. She has NEVER told him how she feels. Now, the guy that she is in love with is graduating high school and going out of state for college. She had wasted all of these years not tell him. Just recently, about 4 weeks before he is leaving, she told him how she felt(with my encouragement hehe), and he was speechless because he said that he had felt the
same way. It's a good thing that you decided to seek some advice here, because that's quite a dilemma you have there! :D In the meantime, become his friend.It's a win-win situation, because you would gain a friend in the process. Should you decide to wait for him, becoming his friend would allow you to get to know him
better. The familiarity that's bound to
result from your friendship should dispel any form of shyness you might feel. At the same time, he would be able to get to know you as well, and that would definitely raise the chances of him approaching you and telling you that he likes you.
I wish you all the best!! Good luck!!!! :P :P
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If you don't feel comfortable hanging around then knowing that he likes your friends then you should avoid that situation. There isn't anything you can do to avoid hurt feelings, he feels the way he feels. You have a good friend who won't do anything out of respect for you (and her boyfriend), but you can't change hte fact that he likes her.
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Deffinitly tell her to invite her boyfriend. Most likely she wouldnt dump her current boyfriend for the guy you like. Because, you like him. Tell your friends to sit so that you'll be able to sit by him. Or, you could always have your best friends boyfriend talk to your guy, and see if he's into you. The guy wont be freaked out by it because it will just be "guy chat" know what I mean? He wouldnt pay all th attention to her, it would be rude if he did that. This is what you should do if the guy chat doesnt work, tell him you like him, and if he doesnt like you, be like ok, and the next day { so that things arent awkward between you} go up to him and tell him you dont like him anymore. lol, it actually will most likely work. Good Luck love. hope I helped.
-Brina
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