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Q: Whats a good gift to get any guy..I just want to get something for my boyfriend.
maybe you should try to give him cologne but dont make it seem like he stinks.



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Q: I've been looking for a chihuahua for about a month now. I've finally found a breeder and picked out my puppy. I picked out a girl and she's white with light brown specks here and there. She's so beautiful but I cannot pick out a name. I'm picking her up in about a week and I need a name for her. I just can't pick one out. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance.
well you said she's a girl and she's white with light brown specks and beautiful, so if i were to have her, id call her "Cinnamon". Or "Brownie". My chihuahua is light brown and her name is "Brownie."

Good Luck with her name.

Q: is it normal to get your period once a month for only 3 days?
it's totally and completetly normal.

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Q: If you anyone has DDR Max 2 for Playstation 2, please help. Does DDR Max 2 have the song "Candy♥" or "Can't Stop Falling in Love," "Drop the Bomb" or "Its Raining Men." ???? Thanks guys.
No ,but "Can't Stop Falling in Love" "Drop the Bomb" are on DDR Extreme.

P.s. i would know i have the game and have played on the songs lots of times.

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Q: Ive been going out with my boyfriend since the beggining of april and he still seems to think i dont like him alot or that i dont wanna hang out with him. Weve been friends for over 3 years and i was at his house every day last summer. Byt he thinks im not going to be there with him alot this summer. Well, my mom and step dad are both going to iraq, which is where i live closest to him. And i told him the only way we wouldnt hang out is if i cant get a ride from my dads house. My dads house is five minutes away but he wont let me use my bike. So how can i convince him that, i do like him alot, i wanna be around him, and that im gunna try to hang out with him whenever i can?

hug him, tell him how much you like him, tell him how great he is ... and if you are ready you should kiss him, ON THE CHEEK.

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Q: The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?

The more answers, the better!

(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)
dont act so good, talk 2 people a little more, make them know you're smart AND fun!

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Q: So i've been talking to this guy named Greg for about 5 days or so and i think i'm starting to like him. And he likes this other girl because he talked to me about it because he needed someone to talk to and he keeps asking me if he should move on or wait and stuff like that. I dont know what to do because were just friends and i like him and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or tell him...
do wat you want but i would try 2 "think do he like me(you)? Do he act like it?" if the answer is yes to both then go ahead and tell him wat you want. BUT if da answer is no then dont, just try 2 drop hints.

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Q: is it true that if you wax all the time that eventually your hair will stop growing?
possibly

Q: well to start things off i really liked the girl the first time we started going out and we went out for three months and then broke up...she broke up with me because she said that i was to nice and just a great friend and i was not thrilled by this but i lived with it and became her best friend she has ever had but now that i have done that i really want to get back together with her cause she is such a great girl .... this pass weekend i hung out with her everyday and then on sunday i was taking her home and i told her that this weekend has been great and i really enjoyed spending time with her and then i asked if she wanted to give us another shot and she said she dont no...Now i love this girl to death and would do anything for her what do you think she will say ... and do yoou think i made the wrong move?? Thanks I rate!!
i think she'll say yes, and i think you made a GREAT move besides my boyfriend was at first my bestfriend but then, well u would know, good luck and i wish you the best.

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Q: My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice?
tell him that she needs support, tell him how she makes her feel, tell him what's happening.

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Q: Okay, My name is Stephanie and my Boyfriends name is Anthony!! I really want to stay with him he is a real sweety but every one makes funn of me for going out with him!! What should i do brake up with him??

Will rate!!!

Please help!!!
Stephanie
if you care more about your reputation than go ahead, but if you really like him and would put him before that any day then don't!

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Q: ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!!
Don't be afraid, its not good to keep your feelings in, TAKE HIM BACK, before someone else does.

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-Enie78

Q: ((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap

any suggestions on what i should do?
Try to ,sadly, secretly go out. But then again, you're too young for him but sometimes you get one brak, and you must decide if this is THE BREAK.

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-Enie78

Q: me-almost 13, f
guy1-13
guy2-13

today of all school days was very different. i've been pretty good friends (FRIENDS!) with guy1 and guy2 but today.. idk. anyway, in one of my classes i had to work with guy1. i was really into the work but then i noticed guy2 come over to check my answers. then guy1 got all territorial and pushed him back. they went on like this, kind of trapping me in the middle, for about 5-10 min.

they were being really immature and they even had an armwrestle to see who was stronger. guy1 got pissed off because guy2 was playfully grabbing me. not so playful for me.

well, things got pushed up to another level and guy2 was hugging me and grabbing my waist and legs. theeennn he would smell and pplay with my hair. you see, im the kind of person who gets taken advantage of, so i would just ignore it and pretend i didnt notice. other times i would slap his hand with a smile, because i didnt want him to think im mean. aahhh its hard to explain.

sigh

after that i soon found out that guy2 wouldnt talk to me if i was fat and ugly. i called him shallow.

time was running short and i didnt want the paper for homework so i asked guy2 (smart). he said he would give me the answers if i'd "be nice". i was like, define nice and he said forget it. i begged for the answers and finally agreed to "be nice".

he gave me an answers or two and then he got behind my chair and sort of put himself overtop me (representing thee position). guy1 (you should know the fact that guy1 & 2 are good buddies) told me that guy2 was most likely going to rape me some day--he was joking around. and then guy2 was like "maybe... i could probably think of worse"

wow ooookkkkkk.

next class: my assigned seat is next to guy2's. he was still being a jerk and he grabbed my ass when i didnt look. and he would stroke my back when the teacher was talking.

he doesnt ALWAYS do this; but today i guess he just didnt care.

dont you hate when you know a friend is doing something wrong but you dont want to tell on them? if i told a teacher/counsler anonymously, HE would know i sold him out because im pretty much his only target. its like i want him to stop but i dont want him to hate me as a friend because im such a people pleaser.

no ratings for people who say i have to talk to my parents. they wouldnt exactly understand and i hate talking to them about things like this.

what should i do?
WOW,thats hard try 2 tell the dude who touches you wrongly that you dont want him to do that anymore, but use a "not-to-loud-but-not-too-soft-sound.

Q: Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Sammy ok? So Sammy recently has started like leaving me and kinda ignoring me. Today she even started hanging out with my enemy! Like 2 weeks ago we started hanging out with a girl named Natasha and ever since she has been doing all these things. Oh and I already talked to her a billion times. It's like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I just start hanging out with different people?
It's hard to say this but, hang out with other people and let her,sadly and unfortanatly, let her go.

P.S. I hoped I helped cuz it's happened to me and it worked.

Q: I'm hoping that I could get a guys perspective on this (girls can answer too).
Well if a guy that you've been close friends with for several years says to you that he hopes you won't get involved romantically with anyone from the city you live in (and he lives out of town); does that mean anything?
If he just thought of you as a friend why would he say he hopes you won't date anyone from your town? Unless he's thinking that he wants to be with you?
Does anyone have any insight into what he was hinting at?
ps- before I forget he also keeps asking me if I want children; and he's never had any.
He's totally into you, maybe even obsessed, well... just act normal but be aware that he likes you, im not sure but almost exactly.

P.S. Im 98% out of 100% sure!

Enie78

Q: okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?

ill rate high =)
You don't tell him that you like him that couldmess some things up for you You should go to the movies, but ask your friend if she wouldn't mind bringing her bf along. Make sure tobe yourself around him.Good Luck! and I hoped I helped you!

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Enie78
A true Mexican with A LOT of ATTITUDE! A TOMBOY is 1 way 2 describe me, 1 out of a HUNDRED... or maybe more. NICE and yet still MEAN and BAD. It all comes naturally but i can still HELP OTHERS.

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