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Ex-girlfriend i want back
well to start things off i really liked the girl the first time we started going out and we went out for three months and then broke up...she broke up with me because she said that i was to nice and just a great friend and i was not thrilled by this but i lived with it and became her best friend she has ever had but now that i have done that i really want to get back together with her cause she is such a great girl .... this pass weekend i hung out with her everyday and then on sunday i was taking her home and i told her that this weekend has been great and i really enjoyed spending time with her and then i asked if she wanted to give us another shot and she said she dont no...Now i love this girl to death and would do anything for her what do you think she will say ... and do yoou think i made the wrong move?? Thanks I rate!!
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OK, your doing several things wrong here...
First off, your putting her on a piedestal,
you actually stated you'd do anything for her.
I think the main reason you are so in love with her is you can't have her, people wan't what they can't have. This is also the very reason she doesn't want you, because she CAN have you, and she knows she can. She's basically established dominance over you,
she's the prize, you have to work for her, this is NEVER good. Don't know how much you've dated other than this girl, but if you've dated a few girls, have you noticed how the ones you don't like always end up liking you alot?
This is where something called "The Game" comes in play, even if your head over heels with a girl, don't let her know that, cause then your no challenge, be a challenge! Almost all people who are succesful when it comes to dating, act hard to get, it just works. Also, try hitting her with some neghits (negative comments), though keep it funny, always funny, never mean.
In Conclusion, let her come to you, make her work for your approval, because then she'll actually want it, need it even. Oh, and NEVER, EVER, take advice from your Mom, your Sister or any close female friend when it comes to girls.
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i think she'll say yes, and i think you made a GREAT move besides my boyfriend was at first my bestfriend but then, well u would know, good luck and i wish you the best.
HOPE I HELPED!
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Tell her you've still had feelings for her since you broke up and you love her. You'd do anything for her and you think she's a great girl. Tell her that you've been trying to be friends, but it's difficult bc you love her {I'm just assuming its hard}. I would just tell her everything you feel for her. I'm pretty sure most girls would be screaming OMG!!inside if a boy just said that to them. Good Luck, there's not much you can do but express how you feel and give her time.
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aww, well, they do say if you want a good relationship with someone is to be there friend & get to know them better, but yeah just tell her how you feel about her, bassicaly what you just said, good luck!
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