Okay, My name is Stephanie and my Boyfriends name is Anthony!! I really want to stay with him he is a real sweety but every one makes funn of me for going out with him!! What should i do brake up with him??
beachpeach answered Monday June 19 2006, 7:18 pm: If you really like him it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks. What is more important: your "reputation" or your happiness? The bottom line is simple : If you like him, stay with him, if you don't like him, break up with him. But don't break up with a guy if you still like him but your worrie dabout your reputation. [ beachpeach's advice column | Ask beachpeach A Question ]
Enie78 answered Monday June 19 2006, 7:06 pm: if you care more about your reputation than go ahead, but if you really like him and would put him before that any day then don't!
GC07 answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:41 pm: Well...if you really like him and he treats you well - then what's the problem? You shouldn't let people get to you. If they do though, tell them "Hey - he's my boyfriend and I like him a lot so please show some respect" or something like that. Why would you break up with someone you like? Breaking up with someone just because others don't like him is not the best choice. Do what you want to do. Live your own life. Don't let others influence you. Because if they do - you aren't being true to yourself and you are wasting your life. Do what you believe to be true. Listen to others if they have legit reasons like they saw him cheating or something of that nature but if they just don't like you guys dating because he's weird or dorky TO THEM -it's not a good reason to break up with someone I believe you really like. Talk to your friends and tell them that you don't appreciate it and unless that have something truly reasonable to say - stop talking about it. I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! - GC07 [ GC07's advice column | Ask GC07 A Question ]
julietJEALOUSY answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:37 pm: If you're happy with him, and he means a lot to you, then staying with him would be the best option, It shouldn't matter what everyone around you thinks or says, it's should be strictly up to you and him. [ julietJEALOUSY's advice column | Ask julietJEALOUSY A Question ]
pinkers answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:31 pm: If you enjoy being around him and have a great time why should everyone else make you break up with him?? if you enjoy him as your boyfriend, there is absolutely no reason to break up with him. Ask your friends why they would want to ruin something that you really like next time they make fun of you about it. Also, ask them if they wouldn't mind you making fun of them and their boyfriends from time to time. I think they will then understand that you don't like it, and they are not incharge of who you go out with. [ pinkers's advice column | Ask pinkers A Question ]
soccergurlie1220 answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:30 pm: NEVER EVER BREAK UP BECAUSE PEOPLE MAKE FUN!!! If you break up because people are making fun of you then why did you go out in the first place. If yo truly really do like this guy you will go through anything to stay together and stay happy. If you break up with him then thats just kinda saying "sorry Anthony our relationship is getting kinda of hard and I don't like being made fun of so I'm breaking up with you, but don't worry I want to stay with you and your really sweet but I don't like being made fun of"
Sorry if I sound mean but I hate these kinda of question asking if they should break up with a guy or not and if you reallly do like him then that thought would nevere cross your mind. [ soccergurlie1220's advice column | Ask soccergurlie1220 A Question ]
LUSHiiOUSadvice answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:14 pm: Just because ppl make fun of you for going out with him doesnt mean you should just drop him like a sack of potatoes. It your going out with him, then you obviously like him..dont just give up because everyone else is making you feel uncomfortable about what makes you happy.
The next time someone makes fun of you for going out with him, tell them "Your arent the one going out with him, so why are you so worried about it? Do you wanna go out with him? is that your problem, your jealous of me so your trying to get me to break up with him so you can have a turn?! I dont think so! im smarter and stronger than that!" -- and if you dont think you can say it right away..practice in a mirror. it always helps.
Take Care ♥ [ LUSHiiOUSadvice's advice column | Ask LUSHiiOUSadvice A Question ]
ihateu answered Monday June 19 2006, 6:14 pm: dont break up with him and dont listen to other people who cares what they think so dont let other people make decisions maje your own
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