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I am a senior in high school and I have a lot of experience in ALL types of areas! I am here to help anyone and everyone that needs it! I do not judge and I try to help you to the best of my ability! Thanks everybody!
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So I'm about five feet tall and a size 12/14(13/15) in jeans. I was wondering where a good place is to shop for close that fit me that are still fashionable?
A lot of clothing stores would have your size. The only question is your age. If you are young, you can try Limited Too, the Gap, Target, Kohls and things like that. I'm 17 and I shop at Target and Kohls all the time. If you are a little older and want to be "fashionable" try Hollister, American Eagle, Abercrombie, Abercrombie and Fitch, Aeropostale, LVL X, Up Against The Wall, Hot Topic and things like that. They have small sizes and really cute things. I'm sure that whatever you pick, you'll look great in!!! I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! - GC07
I was wondering if anyone knew who sang a song I think (Im not that sure it`s called this) CHAIN HANG LOW. I know it`s a rap song & it`s kinda like skids sing it that`s all I know.
Haha. Great song. Funny too. The artist is Jibbs. I hope I helped! - GC07
Does anyone know what car LC from Laguna Beach first car was or the one she used her senior year? or the one Kristin Callavari drives.
i like both of these cars and dont know their names. thanks.
To help with the LC thing, I just found on this website: http://www.tv.com/lauren-conrad/person/342154/biography.html this: Lauren wants to get a 330ci BMW. (which I think she has in the show The Hills now) and I'm guessing in Laguna Beach, Lauren drives a 4runner. Kristin drives a white BMW X5 I think. I hope I helped and I love their cars too! haha. Let me know how it goes! - GC07
when the oc opens up on "episode 5 : the outsider
what song is that
id really appriciate it!
Sorry that I don't know the song that opens the episode but here's all the songs played in the episode - maybe you can find it from this condensed list: http://www.theoc.info/trackslist.php?episode=5 I hope I helped a bit and let me know how it goes! - GC07
Oh goodness do I need help! I have a myspace, and I've been trying to find a music video, or song anything at all, but cant find it. If you can find "Hear You Me" by Jimmy Eat World. Please tell me were i can get the url for the music for my myspace. Thanks so much! Anyone who helps will get a 5 :)
-Brina
There is myspace music. Try and look there and see if JEW has a myspace (they probably do) and see if they have that song accessible. If so, you can add it to your myspace by loging in and just pressing ADD below the song title. Only, myspace music is just the song. If you want a music video, you can find some at www.singingfool.com and see what they have and just copy the url link into any section in your myspace or www.videocodezone.com. There are tons more if you type in "myspace music videos" in google but those are the ones that I use! I hope I helped and gave you a starting point! Good luck and let me know how it goes! -GC07
okay heres the thing
about 6 weeks ago i was having really bad cramping, pains in my breast, soar all over, felt really sick, then i started my period, ive been on my period for 6 years or so now, and never felt that kinda pain at all, for the last 6 week s though ive been on my period and it hasnt stopped, and the whole 6 weeks ive been having blood clots,NOW 6 weeks later i feel soo tired, and even sicker, everytime i stand up i feel like im going to faint, and i feel really dizzy and cramping. i just start crying for no reason, and i feel really stressed out, and ive called 5 differnt gynocologist's to see and the soonest i can get in is middle of august, Should i maybe go to the hospital? or just wait, i really dont know what to do.
If your period has been going on for 6 weeks straight and you are having serious affects - I would not only schedule the earliest appointment with a gynocologist (and make sure you tell them you would like to speak directly to a nurse because it is an emergency - I work at a doctor's office so I know this can be done and that you can get an appointment asap like that day or the next usually) I would also go to the E.R. This is a serious problem that should be dealt with as soon as you can possibly can - You might have ripped something or something in your body may be seriously wrong. So please go and get help as soon as possible. Don't freak out, I'm sorry if I'm scaring you but trust me, the best things you can do right now is 1. Go to help asap and 2. Stay calm. You might just have a really heavy period, they might just prescribe you medicine or some kind of pregnancy pill to help reduce your period, or like I have said before, this might be really serious, either way you need to go and get help asap. Let them know it's an emergency. I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! I hope everything is okay! Good luck! -GC07
i'm thinkin aboout being a foreign exchange student but i don't know anything about it! i need all of anything you know about it! please help i'm desperate. i also was wondering if you knew if the programs you go through will check out the family you are going to see and see if they are ok if you know wat i mean?
Well first of all, I'm sure the organization definately is very particular on what family are you to stay with. They would want you to be very safe for the time you are at that family's house. I believe the organization drops by and sees your upkeep every once and a while as well. The foreign exchange program is about showing people culture and the world. It gives you a different perspective on different countries, people and cultures. It could be very eye-opening and fun. You would be going to a different school, with different people for a period of maybe a few months, however the times of how long you will be there and where you are going and the organizations "check up" days, where they check up and see how you are doing, is all based on the program that you register with. I do think that with each program there is "host families" that you stay with (pre-approved safe housing for people like yourself). You either pick the family or they pick the family for you, usually by compatibility - or at least enough to be able to kind of get along, even though they will be different too for your educational sake. But anyways, I would do more research on these different programs since I'm really giving only the basics to you now. Here's some websites that I found that could help you (I find these on Google - any search engine can help you really)
http://www.cci-exchange.com/
http://www.ayusa.org/
http://www.afs.org/AFSI/
I hope I helped! I think the foreign exchange student thing is really cool of you to do! Good luck and I hope you have fun and you learn alot -let me know how it goes! -GC07
Theres this guy that I work with (I work at Worlds of fun, an amusment park were both 14) well anyways i really like him. hes one of the people that dress up as the snoopy characters (lol i know its funny) and i work in the gift shops so sometimes ill see him. that last time we talked we talked and kinda flirted a little bit. and the other day we walked passed eachother we just stared at eachother it was like neither of us could take our eyes off of eachother lol i know it sounds retarded but i really do like him but i dont know what to say so him when we talk please give me advice about how i can show this guy that i like him and hoe can i terll if he likes me?
You have many choices. You can be flirty or you can be forward. If you choose to be flirty, when you talk to him (which can be anything from what's his favorite sport to school to music to ANYTHING you can think of) Look at him in the eyes, put your hand on his arm, make sure he knows you are hanging on every word he says, make sure he knows you are interested. If you want to be forward, tell him. Say your cute, your sweet or the big one, I like you, wanna hang out sometime outside of work or maybe go on some of the rides at your work since you work at an amusement park. Now, to figure out if he likes you. - Does he do everything I have mentioned above? Does he seem like he cares and is interested? From what you have said, it sounds like you both really like eachother and that you both know that but just to shy/nervous/excited to make the next step. The fact that he looks at you non-stop and talks/flirts with you, it seems like a relationship bigger than a friendship. If you want to see where it goes, get yourself built up, dress up, put makeup on, shave your legs, wear something cute, anything that makes you feel more confident and make that move. Ask him out, or make it so he can't refuse you. Flat out ask him, do you like me? or see if he responds to anything I've already said, if he does, he's interested, if he doesn't maybe he just wants you to be a good friend. Good luck! You can do it! You are a beautiful person and anyone, even if it's not him, will be lucky to have someone like you, so never give up! I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! - GC07
I have to audition for A MIdsummer Night's Dream on Sunday. I have to prepare a Shakspearean monologue that is more than four lines, but less than two minutes. I want to use this monologue:
http://www.mirroruptonature.com/shakespeare-monologues/female/amnd-1-1-226-helena.pdf
I learned it for school. My question is, do you think it is a good monologue for an audition? If you don't can you reccomend another one? Thanks. I'll rate high.
I think this is an amazing monologue to audition with! It shows all sorts of varietys of emotion, which usually scores well with the judges. Great job! I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! -GC07
If a person truly believes in Jesus and knows him as Savior, that person understands that it is not possible to be a true Christian and embrace false religions too. Therefore a person can not be a Christian and a Buddist or Hindu or any of the other false religions for that matter. To believe one can is just another false religion conjoured up in yet another mind of a human being to suit that persons self indulgence. It's weak way of thinking because there is no bases for truth.
Yes that is true. But at the same time if you have respect for all of different religions as well. Because a lot of religions' beliefs overlap eachother. I wouldn't say that any religion is a false religion. People believe what they believe. It's personal. I don't think it's right to say that whatever people believe in is "false" or wrong. Everyone is entitled to there opinions and views, however open they are. Everyone needs some respect in my eyes. Different religions are mostly just different forms of the same God. The one thing is that everyone has something bigger than them to believe in. Is that so wrong as to believe in a higher power? Christians believe that Jesus and God is the higher power while Buddhists believe Siddhartha Guatama, Jews believe Abraham and God etc. This reasoning does not make a person self indulgent - it makes the person aware of all worldly aspects. You live in this world - you can't deny it. I respect in you that you have a strong relationship with Jesus but at the same time don't you think he would want you to have a sense of well roundedness and understanding of all different types of religion? Because Jesus was a Jew right? But he is the basis of Christianity instead. I don't think that I will be able to completely level with you on this subject and I am not trying to corner you or say that you are wrong, because you aren't. It's understandable what you are saying. Just try and think of it in this way and maybe you can come to a sense of a deeper understanding of this. It doesn't really matter hugely either way because all that matters is that you believe in someone higher than you. In the end, if you have that, no one is wrong. All the fine details don't matter as much. For example, in the Da Vinci Code, how Mary Magdalene is the assumed wife of Jesus, that's a religion, a belief is somethihng that could have happened but does that change how you think about your Ultimate reality? You still believe in a higher power right? If it does, your faith probably isn't as strong as it should be. When I was writing about the Buddhists and the Christians a few questions back, I was just trying to show that it's not what my religion is, it's just the fact that I understand either way, because a lot of religions are insanely similar. I'm sorry if it offended anyone, confused anyone or anything. There was no means by that at all. So my deepest apoligies if so. No accusations or judgements at all, just a thought. =-) I hope I helped in the sense of maybe showing you another side of something. -GC07
Where do you get a layout like this one
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=46367441
I will rate 5's. THanks
I would message this girl and ask her where she got her layout because you think it's really cute. If she made it herself, maybe you can ask her if she can make one for you. If you don't know this girl or you don't feel comfortable asking her online, try some websites on myspace by typing in the myspace search "myspace layouts" or something like that - you'll come up with some cute layouts - maybe even better than that one! Also try www.createblog.com and look in the myspace layouts. They have a lot of choices as well. Maybe that will help you to be able to get closer to where you can find it. ( because it is a really cute layout ;) hehe) I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! -GC07
I really want longer hair, is there anyway to speed my hair growth? I want my hair to be healthy, so how many times a week should I wash my hair? People say wash it everyday but I don't think that's good..And they tell me to wash it in cold water? Should i listen to them?
A shampoo and conditioner that helped me grow my hair longer quicker is Garnier Frutis - Long and Strong. Also try the gel, that works well too. Also, you can get your hair trimmed every month to month and a half ish. The number of times you should wash your hair should depend on how oily your hair can get. I need to shower almost every day sometimes every other day. Most people wash their hair everyday but its actually healthier to shower every other day. It saves your natural healthy oils to your hair so your hair doesn't dry out. If you have really oily hair, I would wash it every day probably. You could probably get away with everyother day though. If you don't have very oily hair, then lessen the times you shower, unless you are dirty or go to the pool or beach because chlorine and/or sea water can dry out your hair incredibly and if you're a blonde - turn your hair green. ew. haha. I don't really know much about the cold water thing so I can't really help you too much there. But if you want a reliable source, look online or go to a salon and ask the people there. They would definately know. I hope that I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! - GC07
My boyfriend is for the most part amazing. We have been such good friends for so long and this year we started going out. The only problem is that he's a touchy feely kind of person....he always was and I knew that going in but now that we're dating I find that it bothers me more than it used to. If we're out with a group of friends he'll play with another girl's hair for example or give her a hug. It's not that he's not caring towards me because he is, it's just that it bothers me. When I told him how I felt he seemed surprised and said that he didn't know that he was doing anything wrong and that it meant nothing. This has been going on for a while though and other girls have commented to me that they would be mad too. Am I making a big deal out of nothing? He also said that it's just a part of his personality....
No. You aren't making a big deal out of nothing. This is definately something. I know you said you talked to him about it but ask him if he could try his best to try and downplay his "personality", reiterate to him that it hurts you. He'll try and change his ways if he cares about you. Also, "personality" is a weak accuse. All I can say is try and talk to him about it again- seriously. One question is though - do you trust him? If you do, then it could be that you just don't trust other people with him, which is completely understandable. If you don't trust him however, there is a problem. Try and talk to him about it again. Really get into the details this time. Tell him what you think would help, like with things he can do and stuff. I have faith that he will respect you enough to try and downplay some of his ways. Tell him that you two are in a relationship and that, though possibly harmless, it's a bit unnerving. Ask him to take all that touchy feely stuff out on you ;) haha if you want. You have the complete and understandable and reasonable right to be worried about this. So don't worry, you're not overexagerating. I hope that I helped and that this makes sense hehe and let me know how it goes! Good luck! -GC07
omg, i was at my friends party, and it was a dance and she goes to a different skool than me now and she has a whole bunch of other friends frum skool now. At the party their was a few guys i danced with. One of them i REALLY liked, and every1 else thot he liked me 2, and he sed he wanted 2 dance with me. After the party, i thot i'd never see him again and i really wnated 2 so i added him on my msn list. All i sed 2 him on msn was hey, and did you like the party and he responded. There was absolutely NOTHING 2 talk about, and now hes gonna not like my personality and think im boring or sumthing.He's a really fun guy, and there's tons of other pretty more fun girls in his class.I have a HUMONGOUS crush on him. I'm really shy with guys i have a crush on and i dont know what to say. Can you please help me on what 2 say??!!
P.S. some things about him are he's funny, pretty loud, nice, and sometimes hyper i geuss... and please don't say just be urslef only if u REALLY mean it.
Well first I would try to be more self confident. You are an incredible and beautiful person and he sees that. If he didn't, he wouldn't have asked you to dance. Also, guys are really attracted to self confidence. Probably one reason why it was so awkward on msn was because you BOTH like eachother and you BOTH don't want to say anything dumb. Some topics that you could start that are always good are: music, sports, tv. Even though you don't want me to say it, its true. Be yourself. Relax. Alot of people can see thru fake people or nervous people. Talk to him, joke with him, connect with him on a bunch of different levels. Talk about your favorite interests, comedians, whatever. Open up to him. He'll appreciate it and probably open up back. Ask about his friends, school and family to see if you guys have anything else in common. Just small talk. Be friendly. Don't scare him - don't over exaggerate about things is an example of this. He seems like a nice guy so don't feel or be afraid that he is going to make fun of you. Just be cool. Be who you are. He'll love you for it, cuz he already has shown interest in you so you must be doing something right. =-) I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! - GC07
I took a picture on my cell phone. I want it on my computer. How can I transport the picture from my phone onto my computer??
I email it to my computer. To do this you act like you are sending the picture to someone and instead change the numbers to letters and type in your email address. It'll send it straight to your email and then you can save it to your computer by right clicking. I hope I helped and this way helps you ALOT if you don't have a digital camera especially. Good luck and let me know how it goes! -GC07
What are some Buddhist beliefs about the end of time? I've heard of some people who are both Christian( savior) and Buddhist (just some of their principles). Has anyone else heard of these groups? Thanks!
The only thing that I know about Buddhism and the end of time is that 1. they believe in reincarnation and 2. when the world ends, the world will go to complete destruction with murders, violence, theft etc. It is also very possible that people can be both Christian and part Buddhist. In a sense, that is what I believe. I don't want to limit myself to one religion because I believe in a bunch of different aspects of every religion. People might think that it is a well rounded and a certain way of respect to all world religions. This kind of thing is very common and I bet even you, if you study other religions, you will believe in some things that they believe as well. Does that make sense? I hope so. I hope I helped! Good luck and let me know how it goes! -GC07
Are energy drinks bad for you? People say after the energy wears off, it all crashes and you feel SOOO tired. And how much energy does it give you? And is Red Bull or Rockstar good brands of them?
I'll rate wicked high.
I like Red Bull if I need a little zing. haha. But I don't think they are the best for you - like the others have said. There's really only one thing I know for sure about energy drinks - if you drink them to fast, like chug them, it's really bad for you. You'll go like crazy for a few minutes and then you'll go to complete exhaustion/sickness sometimes. But like sip at it and it'll come strong. Red Bull does that to me. I haven't tried any others but I hear Monster is okay and Rockstar and Tab tastes like pee. hahaha. It depends on the energy drink on how much it energizes you. As for other bad qualites other than taste and the rate of how you drink it, check the nutrition labels and go from there. But I would assume that energy drinks are not real great for your body. Just like coffee is. I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! - GC07
ok well my boyfriends birthday is coming up like really soon but i have no idea what to get him.
guys are so hard to buy for and i need help plz! lol
Oh yes. Boys are IMPOSSIBLE to shop for haha. First of all, he'll like anything you get him but think of his favorite things or things that you know he needs or would like. Some categories could be: Music, Brands of Clothes, Movies, Cars. Or an even cuter than is something relating to the both of you like a photo album or a picture frame with a picture. You don't even need a material thing anyway. Take him out to dinner or a show. Anything he likes. A Picnic? Go Kart racing? Rock climbing? Kings Dominion? I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! -GC07
My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice?
Now why her boyfriend may seem like he trying to help - it is very likely he is the reason why she cuts so much. She cares about him and doesn't want him to hurt himself because of her, which leads to depression. Tell him to cool down on those types of comments. His heart's in the right place but tell him to try and approach it differently. Also, give him other examples on how he could possibly be hurting her more and tell him to try other approaches to it. Try and be more encouraging then persuasive. Uplift her, make her happy, tell her how much she means to you - things that wouldn't make her sad about herself so that she won't relapse into cutting and eating wrongly. Make sure she knows you both are on her side and always there for her. Be supportive. Never leave her side. She needs both of you now more than ever. Show her how you both care for her. I hope that I helped a bit. Let me know how goes and Good luck. Stay strong - both of you. -GC07
Can anyone direct me to a website of a store (ex. best buy circut city) that sells something that I can attach my ipod nano to so it will play on my car stereo?
I have a nano and I got my car thing at the Apple store. It's called an AirPlay - or at least that's what it says on the thing. It attaches to the bottom on your nano as well. It works amazingly. You can program it to numerous different stations. It's amazing. But I'm sure if you type in "AirPlay" or something like it at any store like Best Buy, Circuit City, Ebay etc etc. Target even, something will come up. Try Google. I hope I helped and I hope you find the AirPlay! It's amazing! Good luck! Let me know how it goes! - GC07