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i really like this guy
Theres this guy that I work with (I work at Worlds of fun, an amusment park were both 14) well anyways i really like him. hes one of the people that dress up as the snoopy characters (lol i know its funny) and i work in the gift shops so sometimes ill see him. that last time we talked we talked and kinda flirted a little bit. and the other day we walked passed eachother we just stared at eachother it was like neither of us could take our eyes off of eachother lol i know it sounds retarded but i really do like him but i dont know what to say so him when we talk please give me advice about how i can show this guy that i like him and hoe can i terll if he likes me?
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If you want him to know that you like him, flirt with him! Laugh at his jokes, nudge him, stare at him, that kind of stuff. You will know that he likes you if he does the same, chances are he probably already does if you guys have been hanging out on the job together!
hope this helps :)
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Hi, flirt back then. Do things like:
1.Brush your hair back
2.Use eye contact
3.Smile and give him a wink with your eye
4.Touch his arm a wee bit
5.Start playing on your words
If you were flirting and you really were flirting then something like "your looking nice today, nice enough to eat". Do you see what I mean? Daniel.
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If you are walking to like someone where to eat or you are on your break and he is too then just say you want to go to like lunch? if he says yes then just take it from there!
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What I would do is like is to be friends like ask hime if he wants to go get something to eat with you. And just be really good friends with him and then he should express his feelings about you but some guys are to scared to express thier feelings. So after you guys are friends for awhile. Be like I like you alot I hope you like me 2 and if not we can just be close friends and maybe the relationship will bloom.
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Well i don't really think there is a correct way of flirting..girls have different opinions..what i would do is just keep flirting with him haha. I read in a seventeen magazine (I think it was 17) that if you like a guy ask his friends about him, and his friends will probably tell the guy....or in your case other workers he hangs out with. When your alone with him or something you can ask if he wants to go get like a burger with you at lunch break or something...or to go see a movie after work (If your uncomfertable with that, you can get a bunch of other workers to go with you guys.) You can also give him your phone number. If he calls you a lot, he probably likes you..and if he talks/asks about you to other workers..
Or, if the workers with you gossip a lot, you can tell one of the workers, and then she tells someone, and then it gets to him..
but don't ask one of your workers to tell him cause i just htink that's being cowardly.
GOOD LUCK! Can you tell me what happens? I'm so interested in it now!!
P.S.- you can work at amusement parks when you're 14?
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You have many choices. You can be flirty or you can be forward. If you choose to be flirty, when you talk to him (which can be anything from what's his favorite sport to school to music to ANYTHING you can think of) Look at him in the eyes, put your hand on his arm, make sure he knows you are hanging on every word he says, make sure he knows you are interested. If you want to be forward, tell him. Say your cute, your sweet or the big one, I like you, wanna hang out sometime outside of work or maybe go on some of the rides at your work since you work at an amusement park. Now, to figure out if he likes you. - Does he do everything I have mentioned above? Does he seem like he cares and is interested? From what you have said, it sounds like you both really like eachother and that you both know that but just to shy/nervous/excited to make the next step. The fact that he looks at you non-stop and talks/flirts with you, it seems like a relationship bigger than a friendship. If you want to see where it goes, get yourself built up, dress up, put makeup on, shave your legs, wear something cute, anything that makes you feel more confident and make that move. Ask him out, or make it so he can't refuse you. Flat out ask him, do you like me? or see if he responds to anything I've already said, if he does, he's interested, if he doesn't maybe he just wants you to be a good friend. Good luck! You can do it! You are a beautiful person and anyone, even if it's not him, will be lucky to have someone like you, so never give up! I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! - GC07
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if you like him. tell him before you miss your chance
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well just go up and talk to him. ask him like how many kids has he seen or like how his day has been. ask him to hang out with you on your break or ask him out. you can do that. ask him if he wants to go out to lunch sometime. talk to him about TV shows or music or life. whatever he likes. if he likes you he'll find every reason to talk to yoou. he'll find every excuse in the world. he will flirt,
Notice how he behaves when he is around you. It really is not that hard to tell if a guy likes you if you can look at his behaviour objectively. If he is very friendly and talkative (more than he usually is) when around you, or if he is the opposite, shy and avoids you (when he usually isn't) then he probably likes you. Watch him watching you. Does he stare at you for a period longer than normal? If he tries to be near you and suddenly takes an interest in things you like, he likes you.
If he talks to you and acknowledges you in some way, this is a sure sign he likes you!
If he tries to make you laugh or says stuff sarcastically that he thinks is funny, again he most likely likes you.
Lastly, if he is nervous around you, he likes you. good luck!!
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