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cant talk good with guy, please respond !!
omg, i was at my friends party, and it was a dance and she goes to a different skool than me now and she has a whole bunch of other friends frum skool now. At the party their was a few guys i danced with. One of them i REALLY liked, and every1 else thot he liked me 2, and he sed he wanted 2 dance with me. After the party, i thot i'd never see him again and i really wnated 2 so i added him on my msn list. All i sed 2 him on msn was hey, and did you like the party and he responded. There was absolutely NOTHING 2 talk about, and now hes gonna not like my personality and think im boring or sumthing.He's a really fun guy, and there's tons of other pretty more fun girls in his class.I have a HUMONGOUS crush on him. I'm really shy with guys i have a crush on and i dont know what to say. Can you please help me on what 2 say??!!
P.S. some things about him are he's funny, pretty loud, nice, and sometimes hyper i geuss... and please don't say just be urslef only if u REALLY mean it.
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Well first I would try to be more self confident. You are an incredible and beautiful person and he sees that. If he didn't, he wouldn't have asked you to dance. Also, guys are really attracted to self confidence. Probably one reason why it was so awkward on msn was because you BOTH like eachother and you BOTH don't want to say anything dumb. Some topics that you could start that are always good are: music, sports, tv. Even though you don't want me to say it, its true. Be yourself. Relax. Alot of people can see thru fake people or nervous people. Talk to him, joke with him, connect with him on a bunch of different levels. Talk about your favorite interests, comedians, whatever. Open up to him. He'll appreciate it and probably open up back. Ask about his friends, school and family to see if you guys have anything else in common. Just small talk. Be friendly. Don't scare him - don't over exaggerate about things is an example of this. He seems like a nice guy so don't feel or be afraid that he is going to make fun of you. Just be cool. Be who you are. He'll love you for it, cuz he already has shown interest in you so you must be doing something right. =-) I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! - GC07
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Well, let me say this first: I love you! You're the first person to ask me a question. All of my other questions are public questions. I love you. Feel free to feel special.
Here are some topics that you can talk about with this guy:
- your family (and the stupid, funny things they do)
- school (like you can talk about stuff that happened there like fights, or anything that might interest him, or you can crack jokes at some of your teachers, or some annoying freaks at your school.)
- talk about some of your sad experiences. It might make him want to make you feel better about them, so he'll stay with you longer perhaps.
- Talk about funny stuff, scary stuff, sad stuff, any stuff, as long as it keeps a conversation up.
-If you two ever meet in person again, try to be pretty loud like him. Jump out, go wild, and be crazy. But then show your sensitive side. Show him you care. Oops sorry, I'm giving advice on how to become his girlfriend.
-Also, don't get too caught up telling him about your life, ask him about his. If you two can tell eachother everything and be okay with eacother, you two should be perfect.
Sorry if I didn't help. I'm more of a suicide person, since I actually went through that phase. I like boys, but none like me, so I'm unexperienced with your question. But if I was talking to my crush, I would talk using the stff above.
Hope I helped!
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Just try to start a comversation, a casual conversation. You can im him and be like "Hey, the party was really fun" or "You are a great dancer!" or something like "Chillin at th eparty with you was fun, maybe we could chill again sometime" Just be casual and don't make him feel pressrued. Just make the whole situation relaxed. If he senses that your not nervous or anything, he will feel more at ease. If you run out of things to talk about while imigng him just ask him questions like "Do you like school?""What do you do on the weekends" or things like that. He'll like that you want to really get to know him. Good luck and feel free to ask me any more questions antyime!
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