Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Sammy ok? So Sammy recently has started like leaving me and kinda ignoring me. Today she even started hanging out with my enemy! Like 2 weeks ago we started hanging out with a girl named Natasha and ever since she has been doing all these things. Oh and I already talked to her a billion times. It's like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I just start hanging out with different people?
JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Saturday May 20 2006, 8:22 am: Never stay some where you not wanted. i would have told you to talk to her but since you tried that. just hang out with different people she'll realize she miss being your friend and shell come back
xoxDaneCookRox answered Friday May 19 2006, 10:26 pm: Yea you might just wanna stop being friends. She probaly just doesnt want to be your friend but she doent wanna be really mean baout it so she is tryin to just give hints and hope you relize it. It might hurt but sometimes you have to let poeple go.
Vendetta answered Friday May 19 2006, 7:52 pm: Yes, that's happened to many people. The best thing is to not cling on to the friendship. It is obvious she doesn't want to be your friend; she said it, after all. Just move on. [ Vendetta's advice column | Ask Vendetta A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Friday May 19 2006, 7:04 pm: Yeah, the same thing happened with me, so I'd suggest hanging out with different people until she's ready to talk to you again. Even if she's being really mean, doesn't mean you have to be the same back and take it as she hurt you. Don't show her the satisfaction that you're upset, and try to still be polite though if she ever talks to you. If she's ready to be friends again, then just do what you feel is right. Wait for her to come to you, and then tell her that you were hurt.
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Friday May 19 2006, 6:13 pm: im going through something like this as well. i think that you should start hanging with different people. besides the fact it may get your mind of of "sammy", you never knwo what you have been missing out with these girls. or even guys. im sure that her not wanting to be your friend anymore is not the case. and she prolly feels that even if that one girl is your enemy - she isnt hers. if sammy wont tell you what is wrong, then you cant force it out of her. and if she is willing to just ignore you out of the blue without an explanation, then that shows that she is a bad friend. Even though it will hurt right now and prolly be a little lonely - the best thing you can do is just let her go. It's the hardest thing to do in almost every case, but it is also the best course of action in a lot of cases. dont bug her about it, and dont keep telling her you feel left out. she will most liekly get annoyed and snap. then start freaking out on you. [ i know, sounds wierd, but hey - its the truth ]. as people get older change happens. and people change with it. you can help it - its something that happens. i know sometimes ( a lot of times ) its hard, but i guarentee you will feel better about it. and who knows - maybe she will end up crawling back to you. hehe, good luck and dont let her bring you down
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