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hey. ok im like really scared because my parents have already been in a divorce once and i think it's going to happen again. my step-dad smokes pot and my mom is like an alcoholic and always comes home late. he always says that he's moving out and going to get a lawyer but he never really does anything. and like if he moves out then me and my mom have nowhere to go because my dad moved away. and my mom is also like really mean to me. i dont know if she cares where i am or what i do but im just scared where im going to end up, advice?
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im really sorry about your situation.
are you an only child? if you arent and have an older sibling you need to talk to them about it. if you are then you really need your dad right now. call him and tell him whats going on. also if that doesnt work you should go to a social worker/therapist to work through your issues with your mom. i really hope things get better for you... good luck!
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I know this is rough but the best thing you can do for yourself is call a social worker or someone who will put you in better care with a better family, trust me its whats best for you
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Hi Sweetie
You're in a very rough position, and I'm really sorry for that.
Both your mom and your step-dad are drug abusers, and from what you said your mom is also emotionally abusing you.
Do you and your dad have a good relationship? I think you need to call your dad and tell him what's going on.
I think you also need to talk to a teacher, or a school counsellor. An adult should really be informed of what is going on. They can really help to guide you in the right direction.
Always remember that none of what is going on with your parent's is your fault.
Take care,
Brenda
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Your mom is probably really stressed with the divorce, and all the problems with your father. Tell her how you feel, and suggest getting a family counselor or something to help you with all your family problems. I'm sure your mom cares about you, she's known you all of your life. My parents are divorced also, as of four years ago. My mom was always so stressed with everything, it did seem sometimes like she didn't care, but she did the whole time. Your dad probably cares about you also, so just talk everything over with them. God Bless and I'll be praying for your family!
-mystical_breeze
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I think you should first talk to your mom tell her how you feel and if that doesnt work...if things are good between you and your dad you should find him and tell him whats up... if your mom doesnt care where you and what you do then she doesnt derserve you and you should not be there... but however if you and your dad are not close you have to get out of that house because all of what is happening will affect you in later years...aight well peace and cheer up cuz you got alot to live for...
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Maybe you should talk to your mom and tell her what's on your mind.
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