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i need myself out of this pickle and live a happy life
i am 16 yrs male.ilive in india.according to the indian culture rajasthani people do not believe in love marriages.and they are totally aginst it.i had a girlfriend who is rajasthani.she loves me too.but her family came to know this secret relationship before the right time.for which she has to break up with me.but i know she still loves me.also she wanted me to hate her because she always used to think that her family won't let me marry her.and it will make me easy to forget her thinkin that she never loved me.the problem is that now she is saying that she does not loves me anymore. she thinks that her this attitude will make me hate her.this is for sure that i love her in a true sense and she loves me too in a more advanced and her love is more then i love her.one major problem is that i don't have any contact with her.she will not even call on my cellphone.please help me.i know i can be a succesful carreer holder in the future and also i can convince her family too. only if she gives this relationship a second chance and to make her believe that i am the only one for her.
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that's soooo sweet. you should tell her parents this, that may make them think higher of you. as for her........ i would call her (after you talk to her parents)untill she answers you. she knows she still loves you, she's just trying to make it less painful for herself. maybe evn ask her parents to talk to her......good luck
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Have you told her parents of this? Or your parents?
I do not mean to sound unfeeling, but you are 16- you still have to go to college, find a job, then start a family.
And both your parents might feel that is true; what you feel is very important to the both of you, but if you love her it means wanting the best for her, and respecting her decision also.
Give the both of you spme time; channel all your energy right now into working well inyour studies, show your parents and hers your potential.
Good luck and hang on.
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Well if you are truly in love,
I'd show up at her door in a heart beat,
confess how you feel, probably in a calm manner (to her parents), convince them you really are in love with their daughter.
If she loves you, she'll accept you back,
and she'll let you talk to her.
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