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i dont know what to do
Hello... I have a problem, i hope that you can help me.. thanks in advance.. I really like this guy in my class. I only have one subject with him, my teacher lets him to sit beside me so that i can help him once in a while because he's a korean and he doesn't understand everything though he can speak english.. We became close, he's a really nice guy.. I really really like him... My problem is, he has a gf, but i'm not sure if she's here in the philippines or if she's in korea.. I don't want to ask because we don't talk about our love life and he doesn't talk about his gf either.. What would I do? I heard that koreans are not allowed to have a gf/bf of different race or nationality, and im filipina, is it true? I'm not sure if it's true.. And is it also a nice idea to tell him what i really feel about him? Please help... 6 days to go and we won't see each other anymore because it's nearly vacation and we have different course... I will surely miss him..
Thank you so much....
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This is a tricky one. First of all, I know many Koreans that have girlfriends of different nationalities. However, some more traditional families or people frown upon other nationalities dating their own. There is no real way to tell whether or not this is how he thinks besides asking him. Most Koreans are fine with dating other nationalities.
Since you won't be seeing him after the next six days, I don't really see much of a problem in telling him your feelings. If he doesn't feel the same way, then you won't have to see him again, if he does then you can proceed from there. On the other hand, telling him may cause him a lot of stress. Especially if he returns the feelings, he may not know how to handle this and stay faithful to his girlfriend. If you feel that it is okay to tell him, that it won't cause him too much stress, then by all means go ahead. If you don't feel that now is an appropriate time to tell him, then ask to exchange emails, phone numbers and im information. You can communicate over the vacation and maybe get to know him better. Just because you are taking different courses doesn't mean that you have to lose touch.
I understand your sense of urgency, however, you should understand that there is time if you need it. I think that if you really believe that you won't see each other after school ends then you should tell him, otherwise you will be left wondering "what if?" and that is worse than being embarrassed or rejected. In the end, it is what we fail to do, rather than what we go through with that we most regret in life. Hope I helped. If you have any other questions, just ask. Good Luck.
Love, Rainbow
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Well.. if he has a girlfriend, then I would leave him alone, dont mess with a guy who has a girl already. It doesnt matter if she lives here or back home in korea. He's taken, and thats all that matters. And no, koreans can date any race. Race doesnt even matter.
But anyways I suggest not telling him how you feel, you'll find someone else :)
Since he has a girlfriend, it would be in your best interest ( and his ) if you just let your feelings pass for him, and move on.
You can tell him that you think he is a great person, and that you enjoyed having a class with him.
hope i helped.
take care..
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im not sure if its true that koreans are not alot to have a bf or gf. but the best advise i can give you is to ask him. if you like him the way you say you do thats probably the only way to find out. or ask one of your friends to ask him. :/
hope i helped.
love kayla
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