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Weird of Not
Is this weird or not? My ex liked babysitting kids for like hours at his church. He never wanted to spend time with me. Plus he told me he was sexually molested by some guy at his church, which to me makes it even freakier he likes watching these kids.
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It's not necessarily weird. After something bad happens in someone's life, they sometimes become closer to church, religion, God, etc. I also don't think he would be going out with you if he were a child molester. So, I wouldn't draw conclusions too quickly.
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Well don't jump the gun. The answer given at the bottom of this page that "he is probably molesting them" is a pretty nuts conclusion to draw from the small amount of information you've given.
For a start this guy probably needs to get some help about his own experiences, could you possibly encourage him to do that?
Secondly it's possible he just feels protective towards these kids because of what happened to him or even that it reminds him of a time before he was molested. Either way ask if you can go with him sometime to set your mind at rest or see what's going on for yourself and/or talk to him about why he likes spending so much time with these kids.
Thirdly regardless of whether his spending time with these kids is suspect or not if he doesn't want to spend any time with you, you're best out of tht relationship- everyone needs to be appreciated and at least feel worth their partner's time.
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Umm, I think that is really weird. Actually I think he is molesting kids himself. But I could be way wrong, and he may just love kids you never know. But you may want to do some investigating.
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All i can say is RUN.
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You have to try to get your ex into counseling or tell an adult, maybe not at the church where it is supposed to be safe to tell, but your mom or dad might be able to help you. Most people that are molested go on to be molesters themselves, so it is important that the kids he is watching be safe. You must tell someone you trust for their sake.
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Hey,
No this is not wierd!! Anyone who thinks this is wierd is insane. It is obviously shown that your bf has some hurt left inside him. Somewhere he is scarred for life now because of the actions of another person. I think your bf might just want to be with these kids so nothing like that happens to them. Honestly it seems to me like he is scared for other kids to expierence what he expierenced!! But if you think it is wierd then ask him about it!!
-Stephanie-
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i would say it is very weird because he is probably molesting them and if not he is keeping his cool the best he can or he might be doing that thing while they are getting bathed by him if he does bathe them
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