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i'm 13 i'm a male dirty blonde hair hazel eyes 4' 11" i'm good with helping people with proplems and i am good with sports

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Is this weird or not? My ex liked babysitting kids for like hours at his church. He never wanted to spend time with me. Plus he told me he was sexually molested by some guy at his church, which to me makes it even freakier he likes watching these kids.

i would say it is very weird because he is probably molesting them and if not he is keeping his cool the best he can or he might be doing that thing while they are getting bathed by him if he does bathe them

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I'm 17/f and I've known my best friend, Ryan (well, ex best friend) literally my whole life. Our dad's were best friends in high school and they live next door.


Well, Ryan and I used to be really close. We hung out all the time and were really good friends. We hung out with the same group of people and I thought I knew everything about him. About 2 years ago, I was in his room waiting for him to get out of the shower and I was just looking around when I found LSD tabs and pills that I couldn't identify.


I waited for him to get out and I asked him about it. Turns out that he had some friends that I didn't know about and he had been into drugs and such for a few months. I couldn't believe what he was saying and even more so, I couldn't believe that I didn't suspect anything.


He told me not to say anything to anyone but I refused and said that I at least was going to tell his older brother and see what he thought about it. We argued about it for a while and he told me that he did not do it that much, it wasn't a big deal and that he would stop. So I trusted him and didn't say anything.


Long story short, I shouldn't have trusted him. His parents put him in Rehab a while after and he's supposed to be clean now.


Well, we haven't been talking as much lately and I don't really see him at the usual parties and friends' houses and things but I just thought he didn't want to see me because we had gotten into a big fight a few months ago (reason to why we weren't talking).


I was at the mall yesterday and I saw him there with a guy named Zach. This guy was the one that had gotten him into drugs. Seriously, he's the biggest druggie anyone knows.


Know I don't know what to do because I'm not certain he's doing drugs again for sure. But, I don't want to keep it from his parents again because I don't want it to end up like it did 2 years ago. And, I'm not sure how he'll take me asking him about it considering we don't really talk anymore.


What should I do?

i am very sorry this was long try this it may help you
i am not sure you will like my idea or any thing so just hear me out or whatever:
i dont tell many people my sister is on pot ok i dont tell anyone because she threten me but what i normally do when she isn't high stoned or whatever, i tell her how i feel and that i really would apreatiate if she had stopped and i promised under an othe i wouldn't tell anyone who would fink on her so i am trusting you if you find out who my family don't tell about her because it is it's working slowly but surely. also i am a 13/m i hope this helps if not i have a few other ways here they are:
1) tell him how you fell about him when he isn't on drugs like his overall qualities or personalites or if you like him as like love him.
2) tell him you really would hope he stops and you won't tell anyone he is on drugs but tell him if it does get alot worse you wikk result in at least telling his parents.
3) if he isn't on drugs after you either considering the possible things like oh maybe he is just hanging out with him because he isn't a girl and wants guy friends to or he could be just there to talk about some things i mean it depends how long has he been hanging with zach for if its a while then he proably is back on drugs. if not he isn't he is probably telling stuff like i can't get incvolved with this shit anymore.

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ok well i deleted all of my songs on limewire and i had 800 songs do u no where they went or how i can get them back because i really need them but they are not in the recycleing bin help please i will rate 5s

ok let put it this way lime wire sucks i am sorry of this rudeness but:
go to www.radioblogclub.com because:
1) you can get songs without downloads
2) it is leagle and free
3) you can only listen to the songs on your own playlist on the internet with as many songs as you want without a virus.

Why limewire sucks is because:
1) i had it gave spyware
2) it crashed of my computers get rid of it asap and try out radioblogclub.com
i am sorry for any inconviences

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what are some websites that have pictures that show some good ides of how i can get my hair done for prom?

http://www.promhairstyles.net/
http://www.2promhairstyles.com/
http://www.prom-hairstyles.org/
http://www.promspot.com/

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ive heard a lot of reference to love handles on advicnators.

what are "love handles"?

love handles tends to refer to "jelly roles" your extra but little amount of fat on your stomach

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anybody know where you can listen to songs on the internet for free (the whole song) for the play wicked?

www.radioblogclub.com try it it worked for me my friend told me about it

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Who are famous Ancient Roman Emperors besides Augustus and Julius Caesar? I will rate 5s!

well there is:

Tiberius
Caligula
Claudius
Nero
Galba
Otho
Vitellius
Vespasian
Titus
Domitian

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ok - ive been told a lot that at 15, you dont need a girl friend...but i feel that it will make things soo much more easier! ive asked numerous girls, ive even written poems, but they just dont seem so like me in that way...ive been told just as numerous times that im actually pretty good looking, but that doesnt help when it comes to asking someone out...could you give me advice on how to ask a girl out? im not too nervous about it, i just seem to be attracted to the girls that dont like me! what difference can i make in their lives that will get them to like me in that way, therefore allowing me to get them to approve when i ask them out?
thanks

sorry is was so long. but it should be very informative and helpful!
ok i am a male a age 13 i have read your problem and i understand what you need help on trust me i have plenty of knowladge when it comes to this i will get straght to the point now. Basicaly you want to be as close to your innerself or your normal self as possible, hint 1: don't be a poser, Hint2: don't ever tell a girl you like them just because they are hot or pretty tell them some unique qualities they have and tell them a little about yourself ask them more about them. Be very sure you keep it as a simple starting conversation and then move on to something more interesting or intreging
like this: So how was your "any sport or instument" practice or how was school. then move on to something like this: you know i really like your outfit today and talk a few more minutes then finally after your done flirting go to something like this: i hope you like me because i really like you heres my number then you put it on a sheet of paper and tell her she can call you whenever just to talk about stuff such as: being bored and what you could do , or ask her what her favourite animal is or who her favorite band is make sure you don't sound desparate because that might be why they won't go out with you.

sorry this was so long.

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My friend's birthday is coming up. She'll be 15. I asked her what she wanted and she said she wants me to kiss her (we aren't going out). I only see her once a day at school and we just hug, say hi, and go eat at our different tables. She said she wants me to kiss her on the lips. When and how should I kiss my friend?

Well i think you should look at it in 2-4 ways:
Way1:
When she says she wants to kiss her on the lips question either the facts saying she proably wants to go out with you, if you should french kiss her you kno like tounge touch, regular kiss, if you really like her and want to, if she has a great personality and isnt snobby go for it and if she does have a bad personality don't.

Way2: tell her how you feel if you like her or not ask her how she feels if you feel the same way as in you both love eachother go for which ever way of kissing you feel like as listed in way on.

Way3: Do you think she really is pulling your leg or she really likes you if you chose you think she really likes you think is she popular and are you popular because if you aren't but she really like you and you feel the same way nows your chance to shine, be popular, and maybe go out with a really great girl that possibly has a great personality and sense of humor etc..

Try it out and if it works then tell me and i will feel good and thank you for just reading this if you try it thank you more.

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I have a question, and i don't know if it can be answered. But i will give it a shot.

Is there anyway possible to make yourself most creative? I like to write, but i find myself not being about to, it's like i can't come up with anything good. I try really hard, and nothing sounds right, it seems to be a bunch of just random thoughts put in one, with no thought. I really would like writing a lot better if i was more creative. How can i make myself be more open to new ideas that would help me be more creative, and more "neatly" with the way i write?

Thanks in advance

try this whatever it is you like to right bios autobios etc...
try this if you like movies then you'll like this idea say you like the terminator, star wars, and lord of the rings... Yes i know they all have a series to them but think outside the box put them together and make a book with a little bit of all three but not exactly the same as what is in the movies... i made a short story including them:
a lot of my classmates loved it try it and get back to me

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ok i am 13/f goin on 14 and i like my neighbor 16/m we hang out together all the time my parents love him and his parents love me but we go to a diff school and i dono if he likes me i tried not to think about him but i really like him i tried flirting with him but i just get mixed messages we hang out like everyday and i want to tell him how i feel but our friendship is really important to me please help me i will rate u five no matta what

i am a 13 year old male and i just think i know what you can do if you try asking him out and he says wait a while maybe when you're 14 or 15 but if you havn't ask him out you should tell him i have something very important to talk to you about " name " you tell him you still want to be friends if he says no it's ok and maybe when you get older ask him if he'll consider it and then tell him that you'd want to go out with him trust me it worked for me and a few of the girls i went out with one was two years older and another three years older. just try it you may never know the answer if you don't take the cance!

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Ok i've been stuck on this one thing scense september i like this guy and i've only talked to him twice sence september and friday is the last day i get to see him and i really am trying to work up the courage to talk to him and it sounds easy in my head but it really isn't personaly so if you could tell me what to do that would really be great!

Personally i am a guy if you are not sure what to say or not sure that he likes you like that so i know that guys tend to play a lot of hard to get and also like to keep some secrets to make girls wounder not to mention if you don't or you aren't sure if he likes you think of this...:
1) You maybe a little shy but what about him do you thin that he is maybe a little shy
2) try the best you can to be and act yourself if you can't ask him what he like to do and just respond with what you like to do be truthful because it would be boring to be in a realtionship when you have everything in common. don't you think? so try to tell the truth and be yourself not to forget don't say everything you have in common because then the realtionship would probally get borin.

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prom is on may 13th - i know less then 2 weeks! i still don't have a date & i really want to have one! i am not great friends with many guys, so i don't really even have much of a choice on who i can ask. i have one friend (we don't like hang out or anything, but we talk in school) who i considered asking but then i realized (& a friend agreed with me) that he most likely doesn't want to go to the prom at all. she used to joke with him (before she knew i wanted to go with him) about prom 7 he would always say he wasn't going & he doesn't want to go. however, he's basically the only one i can even really think of as a possibility, so should i ask him anyways? i also don't know when to get him alone to ask him if i do (i don't want to do it infront of people, but i want to do it in person). what should i say to make him see i want to go with him. also i don't think he's likes to dance, so would it be stupid to ask him? i want to dance, but he probably would say no to going & to dancing. what would you do?!?!!? (i don't know him really well, just as sort of an in-school friend)

well i personally am a guy and i know guys who can be just a shy as a girl can so i think it would be great to try it if he says no then guess what maybe all you might want to try or he wants to do is be a great friend and then maybe you could ask him to go as a friend and if he still says no dnt stop searching there's plenty fish in the sea go for it u may never kno the answer if u dnt try it 50% and higher of people in my opinion hu dnt ask the important questions will never kno if its what they were hoping for it to be.

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