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Hi, I'm Caitlin! I have brown hair, hazle eyes, I'm 5'6" and I LOVE my friends!!♥♥
I'm into football, soccer, dance, and volleyball. I heard about advicenators from my friend Sheridan Kayne Vaccaro (and i love her sooooo much)
I love to help people out. And I'm told i give good advice. So......

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I have a 2 month holiday foor summer...from early july to early september. I was thinking to go gym every day for 1 hr or 1 and 1/2 and eat healthy meals...small healthy meals (5-6).

How much weight will I lose?
How long will it take to lose about 30-40 lbs?

please help...i really need it!

well if u work out about an hour to an hour and 1/2 each day and eat well plus afew bad days for all those parties...lol...um i'd say about 4 weeks at most.
GOOD LUCK!

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i think me and my bf lost it but i cant realy tell see, i got mad at him yesterday and he called me saying he cant walk to school with me today...and like when we were going to out classes...he was walking me there and he say a guy and was like come on..bla bla bla..(he acts like a tough guy a lot) and i just kept walking and he didnt come after me...what did i do rong? what should i do? plz help..thanxz

~trisha~

well did you tell him u were sorry??
and if you hav then talk to him!!!
communication is one of the key points in a relationship.
dont block him out and dont have him block you out.
sucess in love takes work.

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-------caitlin
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look my sister emailed my guyfriend and said i hated him but thought he was hot! and said it was from me!!!!!!! even though thats not the way i fell!he always ignores me and won't talk to me even though i've explained a 17870 times that it was form my sis!!!! were going on hoil together and worried it's going to be weird! what can i do so thinks are back to normal!!!!

unfortuatly hun, things wont get bac to normal for awhile cause he feels weird and u cant do anything about it if you've already tried. just try to act normal and maybe ease off him for alittle bit so that way he doesnt feel pressured. and did u ever think that maybe the reason he is acting all weird now is b/c he likes u?

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ok so im sorry if this seems like a stupid question but it's really bugging me. anyways im 16/f and i have a problem with my body image! i wear size 4 usually in american eagle jeans but just recently i've been able to wear size 2. for some reason i keep thinking that wearing a size 4 is overweight or something. i guess it's because i hear all the time that celebreties should be size 2 or something. can someone please help me get over this cause i think about it all the time!! i rate 5s!!

well if you used to ware a size 4 then looka t pictures of wen you were a size four. if u like wat you see then gain weight. but even if you r happy with ur weight now just b careful, because if you havnt noticed, most celebrities are shorter than the average person which means they can b lighter. so just b careful with your weight lose/gain.

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Okay...there's this girl...that i'm kinda friends with, and she just wont leave me alone....i mean....she pisses people off, and doesnt get it. how do i make her understand that sometimes i dont want to talk to her, and that her questions are too prying? how do i make her see that she is a little too obsessed?




~rachel~

first i want to apoligize for taking so long to reply i hav been busy.
well there is two things you could do.
1. you could just ignore her
but that aprotch may come off as mean.
2. you could just tell her nicely that she can sometimnes ask too many questions and can be alittle naggy


again sorry for taking so long
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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'(

oooooooooooooo ok. sry.
yeah. ok. well try to move on cause even if you REALLY like this guy, you can't wait for him forever. I know it'll be really hard but just try.

hope this is better :)
---caitlin---
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ok i have a sprint samsung cell phone and about a couple of weeks ago i got a new battery for it because after being on the phone for 30 min. it would need to be recharged again after being fully charged now whenever i go to charge my phone the light wont go on and it wont charge so i started using my moms charger since she has the same phone and now hers is doing the same thing, why?? Do i need a new charger and if so how much do they cost or do i need a new cell phone?? (i just got this phone last feb.)oh and i use my cell phone a lot..does anyone know why this is happening??

Thanks in advance!

ok well you and your mom should talk to the ppl at your sprint store and ask them why thats happening. they might hav an answer. but most likely you just got a defective battery so the ppl at sprint should give you a new one.

----caitliln----
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ok i got a problem i live with my aunt and grandma for almost 2 years now and i live witht hem because me n my mom use to get into it real bad bout stupid stuff but now me n my moms real real close and i hate livin here at my grandmas cuz its like im in prison the only bad thing ive really ever did here was get bad grades and thaey acted like it was the end of the world.. but n e ways i really really want to move bak in with my mom my mom says itsa ok but i have to tell my aunt i want to move out but im scared she wount let me or shell flip out on me i need help on tellin her i dont want to live here no more will sum 1 please help me

you should get both your aunt and grandma to sit down with you and tell them wat you want. but dont let them cut you off or interupt you. you are in control at this point. and then tell them how you feel closer to your mom and she says its ok for you to move back in with her. then have them calll her and talk about it.
everything should work out aslong as you stay strong and clam.

----caitlin----
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prom is on may 13th - i know less then 2 weeks! i still don't have a date & i really want to have one! i am not great friends with many guys, so i don't really even have much of a choice on who i can ask. i have one friend (we don't like hang out or anything, but we talk in school) who i considered asking but then i realized (& a friend agreed with me) that he most likely doesn't want to go to the prom at all. she used to joke with him (before she knew i wanted to go with him) about prom 7 he would always say he wasn't going & he doesn't want to go. however, he's basically the only one i can even really think of as a possibility, so should i ask him anyways? i also don't know when to get him alone to ask him if i do (i don't want to do it infront of people, but i want to do it in person). what should i say to make him see i want to go with him. also i don't think he's likes to dance, so would it be stupid to ask him? i want to dance, but he probably would say no to going & to dancing. what would you do?!?!!? (i don't know him really well, just as sort of an in-school friend)

well... maybe he isnt going to the prom cause he has no one to go with.
go ask him the worst that can happen is that he says no.
if it makes it easier, write him a note or have a friend w/ you when you ask him.

----caitlin----
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ok well u answered my question about my bf adn how i didnt knwo if i should break up with him so i am keeping u up to date ok so we broke up adn i felt horrible he seriously told me hjow mcuh he loved me and that he didnt want to be alive but i guess i just had to do it but thanxs for all the help weiously
thanxs

you are very welcome!! :)
glad i could help.
thanks for keeping me up to date :)

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Well, I love horseback riding and I loove my horses to death. Well, the thing is they aren't really "my" horses but I lease both of them. (I ride/used to lease/love others but its mostly these two who I love the most). My trainer is having me show her mare this summer and I've been leasing her mare since September. We have a wicked strong bond and have come so far. However, the reason I started leasing her was because the pony I was supposed to lease was lame for almost the entire time I was leasing my mare up to the present time. We are pretty sure he's going to be better by the summer, and this summer I was supposed to go to our shows with him. He's so cute and funny and I love him so much. I know I can probably still ride both but how do I decide which one I want to concentrate on?

try to focus evenly on both.
but if they both rnt going into the show you should work w/ that one a little more.
you hav to deside... just remember, love is infinate, you can give more and more and it'll never expire.

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thank you so much caitlin ~shane o mac

i might pass math now

good

im glad i could help =)

i love you too
jk

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i have a boy friend who is really sweet and writes me really nice notes ad stuff like that. but i dont think he is for me when ever i am around him i love to laugh but i cant get close and i deel so uncomfortable when it gets to a point where its quite like we are going to kiss i ack out really quick. everytime i am around him i am so uncomfortable.see people would say just give it time but the thing is we have been dateing for like 6 months and we have gotten nowhere. when we are on a date i just want to go home because i am that uncomefortable i dont know if it right soo i need help? and also im afraid to break up with him becasue he likes me so much like allot and he said how he would take a bullet for me adn all this stuff im scared he will get al depressed or like kill himself serioulsly so i need help. so i have two question should this relashoship go on? and i dont know hwo t break up with him if i do?
thanxs hope you can help i will rate fives if you give good advice
thanxs

okay
well i had the same problem, he just wasn't for me.
what you need to do is break up w/ him. and he most likly won't kill himself cause most guys who say that don't. you should really just follow your heart and you should break up w/ him in person, but if you are too scared to do it that way then you should do it over the phone. all you really need to say is ",i just dont think this is really working out for me. i'm just not confortable on a date w/ you."
and thats it, you'll be SINGLE and happier.

-----caitlin-----
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You know what?I lose wheight when i starve.But then i become again like before.I am not fat but i want to become skinny.Too slim...That is my aim but i end up eating like before again because i have problems with my periods or because i feel dizzy.But i start again stop eating for five days.I lose pounds(5 pounds) but then i eat again.I know that this is not healthy but i fed up!Those HEALTHY diets are really annoying because you lose those ... pounds after three months.Summer is hear and i CANNOT manage being perfect!!!Please tell me what should i do?I have visited a nutritionist but he told me just to eat healthy because i am ok.But i don't feel ok...Please tell me,should i start starving again???Emily...

NEVER starve yourself!!!
that is what is not healthy--
and as long as you are yourself and comfortable, that is when you are truely PERFECT. just relax, stop worring and enjoy the summer. if you really want to loose some weight than just try to eat less carbs and hav 3 servings of dairy a day.

----caitlin----
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my doctor said im about to start my period soon. really how long is soon? because i went to the doctor for my phyiscal like in feb. or mar. i think it was march. but i wish i knew when it would happen. thanks.

You can never predict when or where your period is going to happen. So you must always be preapred. And yuo should probally talk to your mom about her period. Like: how old she was when she got hers (cause you will probally be the same age) and how to use a pad/tampon and how long hers usually last (cause yours will probally last the same amount of time).

-----caitlin-----
hope i helped =)
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How can I get started in skateboarding? There's no one around to help me but I see it in movies and it looks interesting. I'm too scared to ask the people at the skatepark because I am a girl, which should not be a problem but there might be. I have a board and can ride it.

Look in to some skatebording summer camps. There you could probally learn the basics.
If you'd rather not go to a camp then hav a friend go w/ you to the skate park to ask for someone's help.

----caitlin----
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i like this guy. hes cute and REALLY nice. we talk online like everyday. i told him i thought he was cute and everything and my best friend told him that i liked him. he said he thought i was cute. i invited him to a party that my friend was having and he showed up. but we didnt talk too much even though we hung out by each other the whole time and let me use his cell to make calls. he didnt say much just smiled when something was funny. i was kind of shy around him too. a few days ago he said that he chickens out when he goes to talk to a girl so im wondering if he likes me too. how can i hint him into telling me?

I RATE 5'S

You should just ask him streight out ,"do you like me?," or have one of your friends ask him. When he answers, then you'll know.

-----caitlin-----
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Okay, so I guess I'll start out by saying I'm a 14 year old female horseback rider (who you, caitlin, know and hopefully love). Last summer, I swtiched barns from one where I fit in and had alot of good friends to another one where most of the people I ride with are adults. Sure, I hae my great friends there, but I'm starting to not see them as much. The two people ym age I do see all the time were best friends before we all started riding there, so they go way back. The thing is, I really, really want to fit in with them but I don't want to make a fool of myself. Any ideas on topics to talk about to break the ice? (I'll be showing with both of them this summer)

hey stranger lol
just be yourself and don't worry about fitting in. you are there to do 1 ,and only one thing, to ride horses and do your best. And if you just act like youself, they should love you, and if they don't, they will sure be missing out on knowing a GREAT person.

----caitlin----
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Ok i have a problem. This really great guy that i like is perfect in every way- he's smart, funny, outgoing, and nice. He also has really good hair and he plays an instrument. But, the problem is, i have never talked to him before, partly because everytime i see his smile, or his eyes, i turn bright red(or at least i feel like i am turning red) and feel inferior to how great he is. I really think we would be good for each other because we like alot of the same things. How do i get him to notice me without turning red and having problems talking to him?

Well next time you see him, try to have one of your friends with you so you feel more secure. And if you feel inferior to him, then list all the good things about you. but i bet you are a great person so you shouldn't feel less great than anyone else.
So just have one of your friends with you when you see him next and try to talk to him.

----caitlin----
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I like this guy named Justin Emberton and I want him to like me so bad I want to kill myself because he doesn't like me what should i do Please answer

well first off, dont KILL yourself. but you can't make a person like you. So (even tho it may be REALLY hard) you just need to stay friends with him.I kno that this isn't what you wanted me to say.
Sorry.

-----caitlin-----

p.s. how do you kno that he doesn't like you??
have you asked him or are you just assuming???

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